Over weight and out of shape...

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    May 22, 2008 5:46 AM GMT
    I ended it, Because so many could not understand that it was about the out of shape people lieing about who they are. Not a topic hating on out of shape people. But sometime no matter how hard you try some people just don't get it and see it the way they want...
  • inuman

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    May 22, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    Football_lover saidWhy is it that men who care nothing about staying in shape for them self think that the ones that do want to waste our time with them?
    I am not saying they are bad people, I just don't understand why they would post a profile on a fitness website when they clearly don't care about fitness.
    All they want to do is hide behind profiles with no pictures or pictures of strangers to try and get us to chat with them to get off...



    I think cause we are something they want and need, so they don't have to look at themselves in the mirror. Then again you have those that WANT to look outta shape cause there are guys in shape that do want outta shape guys.

    You'll always have this and it's always been this way.
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    May 22, 2008 8:15 AM GMT
    {start sarcasum} Yea what the hell is up with them!!! There is no other reason what so ever then wanting to look at/ talk to fit guys!! Obviously someone who is over weight amd outa shape couldn't POSSIBLY want to CHANGE THAT AROUND!!! Why join a fitness site to possible get some encouragement from other guys WHO MAY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH to try to get into shape/get healthy. Obviously EVERY fit guy here was NEVER outa shape, NEVER fat/chunky/hefty. They were all BORN fit and with complete knowledge of how to stay healthy that they NEVER needed pointers or help.
    {end sarcasum}
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    May 22, 2008 8:17 AM GMT
    What about cases of "The elephant never forgets"? Does that apply hereicon_question.gif
    Or am I interpreting the OP's original idea differentlyicon_question.gificon_question.gif
  • NickoftheNort...

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    May 22, 2008 8:31 AM GMT
    I suspect they come here for the unending narcissism and the vomit-like spewing that takes place in the "eww, fat" threads. There is nothing like having the overly-body-conscious badger the possibly-not-so-body-conscious or possibly-body-confident.
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    May 22, 2008 8:59 AM GMT
    Freakninjamonkey : you nailed it.

    Footballlover: pot kettle black
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    May 22, 2008 9:13 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidFreakninjamonkey : you nailed it.

    Footballlover: pot kettle black



    Headshot.
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    May 22, 2008 9:17 AM GMT
    I'm really having a blonde moment since last night.


    That's okay...anything but ginger.
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    May 22, 2008 9:41 AM GMT
    Zimster: cheeky mare! You so want a piece of me.
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    May 22, 2008 9:54 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidZimster: cheeky mare! You so want a piece of me.


    Oh yeah? Book the next flight to Dubai now, Gingerdust.icon_exclaim.gif
  • Barricade

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    May 22, 2008 10:18 AM GMT
    What the hey, There is no need to put someone down. This isn't a private website. If your not attracted to someone your not. If you can't talk to someone because they aren't on your fitness level you have a problem. You kinda only have 1 pic yourself, so it's hard to see if your the athletic specimen your trying to fit in with.
  • Timbales

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    May 22, 2008 11:04 AM GMT
    What makes you think I have any interest in you? This is a fitness site for me, not a hook-up site.
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    May 22, 2008 1:11 PM GMT
    Psh. You guys are too defensive... icon_wink.gif

    Football_loverAll they want to do is hide behind profiles with no pictures or pictures of strangers to try and get us to chat with them to get off...
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    May 22, 2008 1:16 PM GMT
    Are you always this charming?

    You want to know why? Here's why: http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/134007/
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    May 22, 2008 1:26 PM GMT
    because we're worthless people with nothing to else to do except hope to make you feel uncomfortable.
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    May 22, 2008 1:44 PM GMT
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    May 22, 2008 2:27 PM GMT
    I think maybe we join this site in an attempt to find something that will help better ourselves. I am not saying that a website itself is going to make an overweight person suddenly decide to change his life. I think that most under fit people who join this website did so in a conciseness decision to improve themselves. The environments we place ourselves in affect us and, while I am not sure how much of an effect an online website can have, I think real jock gives us something, but it is up to the person themselves to make those changes.
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    May 22, 2008 2:43 PM GMT
    Football_lover saidWhy is it that men who care nothing about staying in shape for them self think that the ones that do want to waste our time with them?
    I am not saying they are bad people, I just don't understand why they would post a profile on a fitness website when they clearly don't care about fitness.
    All they want to do is hide behind profiles with no pictures or pictures of strangers to try and get us to chat with them to get off...


    WOW that's really shallow....I was one of those guys at one time. Now if you were to contact me I would say you were waisting your time with that attitude...
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    May 22, 2008 2:59 PM GMT
    For me this is a fitness site, but I also like it for the forums and some guys are really nice (not only physically). and recently I've began to like the news gay-articles.

    I get your point, there are guys that are here just to get off but not everyone is like that, and you should give them a chance. If the first thing they do is ask if they can see you dick, then block them if you like and you'll never see them again.
  • rexinfx

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    May 22, 2008 3:49 PM GMT
    redheadguy said

    Footballlover: pot kettle black


    redheadguy, you never cease to bore me.

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    May 22, 2008 3:52 PM GMT
    Freakyninjamonkey said{start sarcasum} Yea what the hell is up with them!!! There is no other reason what so ever then wanting to look at/ talk to fit guys!! Obviously someone who is over weight amd outa shape couldn't POSSIBLY want to CHANGE THAT AROUND!!! Why join a fitness site to possible get some encouragement from other guys WHO MAY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH to try to get into shape/get healthy. Obviously EVERY fit guy here was NEVER outa shape, NEVER fat/chunky/hefty. They were all BORN fit and with complete knowledge of how to stay healthy that they NEVER needed pointers or help.
    {end sarcasum}


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    {start sarcasm}
    Yeah. I've always been in GREAT shape. I was NEVER 70+lbs heavier than I am now...never...
    {end sarcasm...rolls eyes}

  • HndsmKansan

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    May 22, 2008 3:57 PM GMT
    Well I think we need to be careful about the premise of this discussion.

    To blankly say a fit guy wouldn't be interested in an overweight one and also to state that overweight men hide behind profiles here is a touchy subject.
    I think anyone can pick up positive things about health and wellness from this site and discussion, whether fit or unfit can be helpful for all.

    We all can learn from each other, lets not divide us...
    We are all here to improve.
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    May 22, 2008 7:06 PM GMT
    Hndsmkns: have u ever thought of being a diplomat?
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    May 22, 2008 8:42 PM GMT
    footballlover I guess someone can say the exact same thing about you, except replace overweight and out of shape, with someone who isnt all that attractive, and personality kinda reaks like a guy who hasn't douched in a while ...
    just saying... realjock is here to help those maintain their athleticism, share their progress, and for others to admire and get that motivation to do the same..
    coming from a "former fattie", everyone is not that into you.

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    May 22, 2008 8:50 PM GMT
    Get outta here you fat ass freakyninjamonkeys tehehe.


    Just Kidding!