Ew...I can hear my parents doing the do.

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    May 22, 2008 6:28 AM GMT
    I know to each his own but they do it every night I NEED TO GET SOME SLEEP FOR TOMMOROW. Im happy they are happy But I FUCKING NEED TO FUCKING SLEEP. Im so considering Tossing some sort of smoke bomb in the house to fuck with them.....seriously.icon_evil.gif
  • inuman

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    May 22, 2008 6:49 AM GMT
    Lenne saidI know to each his own but they do it every night I NEED TO GET SOME SLEEP FOR TOMMOROW. Im happy they are happy But I FUCKING NEED TO FUCKING SLEEP. Im so considering Tossing some sort of smoke bomb in the house to fuck with them.....seriously.icon_evil.gif



    Yeah that's a bit much man, I don't think telling people on here your folks are keeping you up cause they have loud sex.

    Now if you tell about the sex you have on here, I'm sure it'll be a lot better then your folks icon_razz.gif
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    May 22, 2008 6:56 AM GMT
    Well Im going to just talk

    So, I am about to graduate, and I have to move out By the end of july. or july first. I have no job, no money.icon_confused.gif
    I just am so used to things coming easy for me, Just happening for me. I have been SO lucky. But then again My life feals so stagnant, I hate that. and I want to move, But its like everything costs money. to move forward I have to Pay to be happy I have to pay, to to...Like Try to Do anything with out money...at some point You feal So LOST Like WTF WERE AM I HOW CAN I GET OUT OF HERE!
    I want to be able to say "I can go here and feal Like its ok" and then I wonder...How is this all going to work out, is it harder because im gay, will it get harder. Some times I just want to dissapear.
    Like I have to admit to you all.

    Like every since I logged in here And read your posts and your about me's and your guys I would like to meet.
    I think I got scared, like I dont Know If I want to be apart of this community because, I tried to be somthing Im not because so many guys are like "I dont want femmes." but not in the way that its nice, almost like. HEY you can be gay. but don't be femmene, because We want that stero type to dissapear.

    Im sorry then I can do that. Yes I am femme, Not super femme But I am. And Im happy with who I am. And It may take a hella long time for me to find a nice guy But Im willing to wait, Just so I can say I took the time. I looked inside myself. If being femme is bad then Im sorry I can be empathetic. Im sorry I dont fear What people THINK of me.
    I dont want to be a girly girl boy. I always wanted to Be like a stong woman. Not pussy.

    And now figure out Just how Scared so many gay men are. they are scared...WTF.
    I ran out of words


    One last thing on a differaint subject. Yes I know That Trangender people are "differaint" but we should not cast them from our community because of that We are the community we ae because so many Of use with differainces banded togeather. Its so pointless when People Pick and choose And make titles for things...You seperate us..By doing that...and in the end We just destroy peices of this valuble community that is FAR from perfict.
  • SFTraveler

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    May 22, 2008 8:12 AM GMT
    Oh, Lenne!

    You are so young and will learn a great deal in the years to come. Don't be afraid of it. Embrace life and take every setback as a learning opportunity.

    You are not that far from SF and I see you already have some young friends here (including one we have in common). So if you can afford it, visit SF and you will find many people just like you and people who want people like you. Being femme is OK. I was partners with one for eight years and we had great fun.

    Keep your spirits up, concentrate on getting a good education and the jobs (and money) will follow.

    And yes, do mention to your parents in the politest way that it's hard for you to sleep because they get a bit too noisy. They may not be aware that you can hear them and will probably be embarrassed. But be nice about it. They'll change.
    icon_smile.gif
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    thanks alot. As for my perents...highly doubt it. lol
  • inuman

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    May 22, 2008 8:27 AM GMT
    Lenne saidWell Im going to just talk

    So, I am about to graduate, and I have to move out By the end of july. or july first. I have no job, no money.icon_confused.gif


    What do you have to move out then, are your parents kicking you out?


    [quote]I just am so used to things coming easy for me, Just happening for me. I have been SO lucky. But then again My life feals so stagnant, I hate that. and I want to move, But its like everything costs money. to move forward I have to Pay to be happy I have to pay, to to...Like Try to Do anything with out money...at some point You feal So LOST Like WTF WERE AM I HOW CAN I GET OUT OF HERE![/quote]

    I know it seems hard when your looking at it but once you get your feet wet in the real world waters, it's not that bad actually, every decission is yours and your alone (unless your seeing someone and you both want to discuss things first).


    [quote]I want to be able to say "I can go here and feal Like its ok" and then I wonder...How is this all going to work out, is it harder because im gay, will it get harder. Some times I just want to dissapear.[/quote]

    being gay is hard at first but over time it's just a piece of who you are, not what you are. Don't get to stressed and worried about it.

    [quote]Like I have to admit to you all. Like every since I logged in here And read your posts and your about me's and your guys I would like to meet.
    I think I got scared, like I dont Know If I want to be apart of this community because, I tried to be somthing Im not because so many guys are like "I dont want femmes." but not in the way that its nice, almost like. HEY you can be gay. but don't be femmene, because We want that stero type to dissapear.[/quote]


    Man I'm sorry you got that passed onto you by others here and or felt like that. Not everyone hates feminine men, so you a feme boi, big deal. Everyone has an image and it takes guts to be the real you, even in the face of odds like the ones you've faced (guessing here).


    [quote]Im sorry then I can do that. Yes I am femme, Not super femme But I am. And Im happy with who I am. And It may take a hella long time for me to find a nice guy But Im willing to wait, Just so I can say I took the time.[/quote]

    Dude I'd give you a hug right now cause I think you need it. Seriously one day you'll find your man. You've gotta have faith and your going to have guys always tell you to be something your not and it's rather pathetic that we as a gay community have to do and say these things but it's the way we operate.


    [quote]I looked inside myself. If being femme is bad then Im sorry I can be empathetic. Im sorry I dont fear What people THINK of me.
    I dont want to be a girly girl boy. I always wanted to Be like a stong woman. Not pussy.[/quote]

    Don't change just cause of a few people and don't become jaded over this, becoming negative is never a good thing. Sometimes you just got to shrug it off in order to move forward.


    [quote]And now figure out Just how Scared so many gay men are. they are scared...WTF.
    I ran out of words[/quote]

    Yes but so is every group and minority in the world, pointing it out isn't going to help anyone.


    [quote]One last thing on a differaint subject. Yes I know That Trangender people are "differaint" but we should not cast them from our community because of that We are the community we ae because so many Of use with differainces banded togeather. Its so pointless when People Pick and choose And make titles for things...You seperate us..By doing that...and in the end We just destroy peices of this valuble community that is FAR from perfict.[/quote]

    I know it's mean and by far from fair but life's not fair and it's never going to be, we have freewill and it's that freewill that let's us be who we want to be, either by our own or others influencing us. One thing you must always do though is be honest to yourself, it's the only thing you can do against these things.

    I hope that helps some man.

    Inu
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    May 22, 2008 8:55 AM GMT
    PhxAriz08 saidahhh Lenne, I am soo sorry! Put something in your ears...



    Lol Im looking for that stuff.
  • kjm1990

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    May 22, 2008 11:31 AM GMT
    LENNE i thort i was the only one with this prob my room was next to my rents ewww in the end i said sum think.next thing i no our house is being renovated lol im in the oppisite end of the house now......

    AND STILL HEAR THEM !!!!!!


    sucide lol...... ok bit extream kill them,hide ya dads vigra lol um yea i turn my music up what for mum or dad to tell me to turn it down lol,my little brother is in my old room no he must hear it to cos now th room at the other end of house next to mine is being cleaned up for him lol....

    hugs yea im like u no money no job cant getta job in small town ahhhh i cant move.when u find the anser PLEASE SHARE IT WITH MEicon_cry.gif
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    May 22, 2008 1:58 PM GMT
    My sympathies Lenne, but I think I would rather have listened to my parents "doing it" then what I went through growing up. At least we never had to call the cops (although it was close at times).
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    May 22, 2008 2:47 PM GMT
    Never be ashamed of yourself and who you are.

    So what if you are a femme. Be the coolest femme ever then.

    As for the sex, I recommend you have louder sex than your parents. That way they will be shocked just as you were with their doing sex.

    good luck.
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    May 22, 2008 2:52 PM GMT
    Lenne saidI know to each his own but they do it every night I NEED TO GET SOME SLEEP FOR TOMMOROW. Im happy they are happy But I FUCKING NEED TO FUCKING SLEEP. Im so considering Tossing some sort of smoke bomb in the house to fuck with them.....seriously.icon_evil.gif




    Try downloading Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get It On" or "Sexual Healing" and crank it up on your stereo. That'll make a point :-)
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    May 22, 2008 2:54 PM GMT
    Ok so a few years ago...I came home from work early and my parents were "role playing," and didn't know I was in the house. I just left as quietly as I came in...Even after 4 years have passed I still feel like I'm gonna need some counseling. IT'S JUST WRONG!!!
  • auryn

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    May 22, 2008 4:12 PM GMT
    Just start talking openly about your sexual exploits with them every time you hear them. ;)

    As for your fears about moving out and starting on your own, have you talked to them about your fears? You seem to be a strong minded guy, so hopefully talking with them will help them help you get started on your own right.
  • Thirdbeach

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    May 22, 2008 5:29 PM GMT
    Lenne:

    Things will get better for you soon. You are not that far from being able to be on your own, and living your own life.
  • Squarejaw

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    May 22, 2008 6:24 PM GMT
    While your parents are doing it, just shout, "I CAN HEAR YOU!" But when you see them the next morning don't bring it up at all.

    Bet it works.
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    May 22, 2008 6:36 PM GMT
    considered putting speakers against the wall and playing porn music thru them?
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    at least now you know two truths.


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    AND

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    who would've thoughticon_question.gificon_redface.gif

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    inuman said[quote][cite]Lenne said[/cite]Well Im going to just talk

    So, I am about to graduate, and I have to move out By the end of july. or july first. I have no job, no money.icon_confused.gif


    What do you have to move out then, are your parents kicking you out?


    [quote]I just am so used to things coming easy for me, Just happening for me. I have been SO lucky. But then again My life feals so stagnant, I hate that. and I want to move, But its like everything costs money. to move forward I have to Pay to be happy I have to pay, to to...Like Try to Do anything with out money...at some point You feal So LOST Like WTF WERE AM I HOW CAN I GET OUT OF HERE![/quote]

    I know it seems hard when your looking at it but once you get your feet wet in the real world waters, it's not that bad actually, every decission is yours and your alone (unless your seeing someone and you both want to discuss things first).


    [quote]I want to be able to say "I can go here and feal Like its ok" and then I wonder...How is this all going to work out, is it harder because im gay, will it get harder. Some times I just want to dissapear.[/quote]

    being gay is hard at first but over time it's just a piece of who you are, not what you are. Don't get to stressed and worried about it.

    [quote]Like I have to admit to you all. Like every since I logged in here And read your posts and your about me's and your guys I would like to meet.
    I think I got scared, like I dont Know If I want to be apart of this community because, I tried to be somthing Im not because so many guys are like "I dont want femmes." but not in the way that its nice, almost like. HEY you can be gay. but don't be femmene, because We want that stero type to dissapear.[/quote]


    Man I'm sorry you got that passed onto you by others here and or felt like that. Not everyone hates feminine men, so you a feme boi, big deal. Everyone has an image and it takes guts to be the real you, even in the face of odds like the ones you've faced (guessing here).


    [quote]Im sorry then I can do that. Yes I am femme, Not super femme But I am. And Im happy with who I am. And It may take a hella long time for me to find a nice guy But Im willing to wait, Just so I can say I took the time.[/quote]

    Dude I'd give you a hug right now cause I think you need it. Seriously one day you'll find your man. You've gotta have faith and your going to have guys always tell you to be something your not and it's rather pathetic that we as a gay community have to do and say these things but it's the way we operate.


    [quote]I looked inside myself. If being femme is bad then Im sorry I can be empathetic. Im sorry I dont fear What people THINK of me.
    I dont want to be a girly girl boy. I always wanted to Be like a stong woman. Not pussy.[/quote]

    Don't change just cause of a few people and don't become jaded over this, becoming negative is never a good thing. Sometimes you just got to shrug it off in order to move forward.


    [quote]And now figure out Just how Scared so many gay men are. they are scared...WTF.
    I ran out of words[/quote]

    Yes but so is every group and minority in the world, pointing it out isn't going to help anyone.


    [quote]One last thing on a differaint subject. Yes I know That Trangender people are "differaint" but we should not cast them from our community because of that We are the community we ae because so many Of use with differainces banded togeather. Its so pointless when People Pick and choose And make titles for things...You seperate us..By doing that...and in the end We just destroy peices of this valuble community that is FAR from perfict.[/quote]

    I know it's mean and by far from fair but life's not fair and it's never going to be, we have freewill and it's that freewill that let's us be who we want to be, either by our own or others influencing us. One thing you must always do though is be honest to yourself, it's the only thing you can do against these things.

    I hope that helps some man.

    Inu[/quote]

    I apreciate this, thank you.
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    May 24, 2008 9:33 AM GMT
    Well The storie goes, My mother and father, Are about to leave for the states...Its funny because they are going to miss my graduation...Im not mad though...after having poeple fuck me over and me fucking my self over so many times..I..Kind of gave up with trying to deal with people I just...let it go.

    We live in a rental...So they are going to go get an rv and tour the states...So I have to move out...I feal like


    In a lame way of explaining things:

    "I feal,
    Like I am at the edge of a vast ocean, I can see all those colors like city lights deep out in the middle of the sea. But I have such a fear of the water. Its cold. I know though I can find warm spots, And all the colorfull fish. Though I can see the sharks and all the eels. I know I have to walk in; waves making its hard to break the surface. But once im in, will it be like this world I have grown to know so much."

    There a poetic way of explaining my fealings for you.
  • kjm1990

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    May 24, 2008 11:59 AM GMT
    oh hugs come live with me we got 2 spare rooms.icon_cool.gif
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    commodoreboi saidoh hugs come live with me we got 2 spare rooms.icon_cool.gif


    Lol k.
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    Lenne saidWell Im going to just talk

    So, I am about to graduate, and I have to move out By the end of july. or july first. I have no job, no money.icon_confused.gif
    I just am so used to things coming easy for me, Just happening for me. I have been SO lucky. But then again My life feals so stagnant, I hate that. and I want to move, But its like everything costs money. to move forward I have to Pay to be happy I have to pay, to to...Like Try to Do anything with out money...at some point You feal So LOST Like WTF WERE AM I HOW CAN I GET OUT OF HERE!
    I want to be able to say "I can go here and feal Like its ok" and then I wonder...How is this all going to work out, is it harder because im gay, will it get harder. Some times I just want to dissapear.
    Like I have to admit to you all.

    Like every since I logged in here And read your posts and your about me's and your guys I would like to meet.
    I think I got scared, like I dont Know If I want to be apart of this community because, I tried to be somthing Im not because so many guys are like "I dont want femmes." but not in the way that its nice, almost like. HEY you can be gay. but don't be femmene, because We want that stero type to dissapear.

    Im sorry then I can do that. Yes I am femme, Not super femme But I am. And Im happy with who I am. And It may take a hella long time for me to find a nice guy But Im willing to wait, Just so I can say I took the time. I looked inside myself. If being femme is bad then Im sorry I can be empathetic. Im sorry I dont fear What people THINK of me.
    I dont want to be a girly girl boy. I always wanted to Be like a stong woman. Not pussy.

    And now figure out Just how Scared so many gay men are. they are scared...WTF.
    I ran out of words


    One last thing on a differaint subject. Yes I know That Trangender people are "differaint" but we should not cast them from our community because of that We are the community we ae because so many Of use with differainces banded togeather. Its so pointless when People Pick and choose And make titles for things...You seperate us..By doing that...and in the end We just destroy peices of this valuble community that is FAR from perfict.


    eat your parents.
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    Funkapottomous said[quote][cite]Lenne said[/cite]Well Im going to just talk

    So, I am about to graduate, and I have to move out By the end of july. or july first. I have no job, no money.icon_confused.gif
    I just am so used to things coming easy for me, Just happening for me. I have been SO lucky. But then again My life feals so stagnant, I hate that. and I want to move, But its like everything costs money. to move forward I have to Pay to be happy I have to pay, to to...Like Try to Do anything with out money...at some point You feal So LOST Like WTF WERE AM I HOW CAN I GET OUT OF HERE!
    I want to be able to say "I can go here and feal Like its ok" and then I wonder...How is this all going to work out, is it harder because im gay, will it get harder. Some times I just want to dissapear.
    Like I have to admit to you all.

    Like every since I logged in here And read your posts and your about me's and your guys I would like to meet.
    I think I got scared, like I dont Know If I want to be apart of this community because, I tried to be somthing Im not because so many guys are like "I dont want femmes." but not in the way that its nice, almost like. HEY you can be gay. but don't be femmene, because We want that stero type to dissapear.

    Im sorry then I can do that. Yes I am femme, Not super femme But I am. And Im happy with who I am. And It may take a hella long time for me to find a nice guy But Im willing to wait, Just so I can say I took the time. I looked inside myself. If being femme is bad then Im sorry I can be empathetic. Im sorry I dont fear What people THINK of me.
    I dont want to be a girly girl boy. I always wanted to Be like a stong woman. Not pussy.

    And now figure out Just how Scared so many gay men are. they are scared...WTF.
    I ran out of words


    One last thing on a differaint subject. Yes I know That Trangender people are "differaint" but we should not cast them from our community because of that We are the community we ae because so many Of use with differainces banded togeather. Its so pointless when People Pick and choose And make titles for things...You seperate us..By doing that...and in the end We just destroy peices of this valuble community that is FAR from perfict.


    eat your parents.[/quote]



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    May 28, 2008 4:05 PM GMT
    ...what exactly are you?
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    Funkapottomous said...what exactly are you?


    what are you...Im lenne.