Is performing oral sex dominant or submissive for you?

  • BrownsTown

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    Oct 12, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    So this is a topic that I’ve been thinking over a good deal since my first experiences with a guy. Been busy figuring out what I like, including some things I didn’t think I would—but surprisingly do! icon_biggrin.gif

    In all my thinking about my preferences, I've sort of come to the conclusion within my own brain that one of the reasons I like oral so much is because there’s sort of a duality to it, it’s both submissive and dominant at the same time.

    Obviously, it’s submissive because the guy has his dick in your mouth, and you’re doing this (presumably) just to please him and get him to cum, it's all about him. But I also think it’s sort of dominant, in that the guy sucking has complete and total control over the pleasure and has the blowee in a very vulnerable position. And hell, there’s certainly a lot of trust involved on both sides.

    Curious to hear what your opinions are on the subject—is it more of a submissive act, a dominant one, or some of both for you?

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    Oct 12, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    It's neither for me. I don't mind doing it because it's a way to control the other guys pleasure factor. Also, doing it usually ensures I get something of some sort. Not to sound selfish.
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    Oct 12, 2011 6:19 PM GMT
    Its hot that is all.
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    Oct 12, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    BrownsTown said
    Curious to hear what your opinions are on the subject—is it more of a submissive act, a dominant one, or some of both for you?



    For me, it starts out dominant because of reasons you already stated. But it gradually evolves into submissive because lots of tops like to grab my head and outright fuck my face. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 13, 2011 11:52 PM GMT
    sub sub sub sub sub sub sub

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    Oct 14, 2011 3:24 AM GMT
    Both? Giving or receiving, I'm havin a good time. icon_cool.gif

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    Nov 27, 2013 6:30 PM GMT
    When you're getting face fucked to oblivion I'm gonna say sub
  • rnch

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    Nov 27, 2013 6:34 PM GMT
    Who cares? Dom...sub....it's a "Win-Win" situation for both you and him!




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    Nov 27, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    rnch saidWho cares? Dom...sub....it's a "Win-Win" situation for both you and him!




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    Agreed.

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