Help me help a friend

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    Oct 12, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
    Sydney is such a wonderful city to meet men. However, a friend of mine is currently in a dilemma here. He has been together with his partner for 2 years, 9 months of which is long distance. He just found out his partner has been 'dirty' texting someone from another city. They tried talking it out, but from what he told me was his partner was very sorry that it happened, that he fell back to his previous ways and will never do it again, and that it was a mistake. His solution for this is to delete the guy's number and never talk to him again. However, my friend doesn't feel satisfied with it (thus, he's trying to get some advice). He doesn't know what to look for, what to say and what kind of apology to accept....or even what kind of ammo he should fire back, as he puts it out.

    Initially, I told him to get out, a cheater will always be a cheater. But his partner has done this before and they both overcame it, and it seems that he feels this could be just a bump in a road. I don't know what to say anymore, since clearly this has been an unhealthy relationship with him and I told him that.

    What are your thoughts everyone?

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    Oct 13, 2011 5:16 AM GMT
    Best thing is to do nothing. Stay out of it.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Oct 13, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    buddy, if they got back together than i suggest you stay out of it.