Hooked up with a straight guy

  • sonnet129

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    Oct 13, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    Again!
    Yes, I've read posts in similar past posts. I just need you guys to yell at me specifically. He's a 32 year-old, very cute, single dad. We've had sex twice. WHAT THE HELL AM I DOING?!
  • dabcrt

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    Oct 13, 2011 11:45 AM GMT
    Your just having fun....enjoy iticon_wink.gif
  • kuroshiro

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    Oct 13, 2011 11:47 AM GMT
    Apparently he's not so straight then...
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    Oct 13, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    lol yeah not straight at all. he's single so theres nothing wrong with it. u shud be more worried if he had a wife lol
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    Oct 13, 2011 12:35 PM GMT
    I concur. He isn't straight and you should probably discuss that.
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    Oct 13, 2011 2:56 PM GMT
    Oh beware of the straight men who have sex with men. They often turn into basket cases! I will never do it ever again.
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    Oct 13, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    NOT STRAIGHT.
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    Oct 13, 2011 3:18 PM GMT
    I think the word you're after is closeted. You're having sex with a closeted guy.
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    Oct 13, 2011 3:26 PM GMT
    sonnet129 saidAgain!
    Yes, I've read posts in similar past posts. I just need you guys to yell at me specifically. He's a 32 year-old, very cute, single dad. We've had sex twice. WHAT THE HELL AM I DOING?!


    HOOOOOOOOOOOOT !!! icon_biggrin.gif
  • Montague

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    Oct 13, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    So if a gay guy has sex with or make out with a chic, does that make them a straight?

    Thought for the day.
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    Oct 13, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
    sex twice... it sounds hot to say that you hooked up with a straight but come on even stevie wonder could see that the guy is gay!
  • sonnet129

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    Oct 13, 2011 4:31 PM GMT
    Okay, guys. KSUOWL is the only one who's helping me. This guy is straight, at least a part-time MSM...when drunk.
    It's just that I'm always getting into these situations. I'd like to be with a gay man who's into ME as much as I'm into him once in my life before I die.
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    Oct 13, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    sonnet129 saidOkay, guys. KSUOWL is the only one who's helping me. This guy is straight, at least a part-time MSM...when drunk.
    It's just that I'm always getting into these situations. I'd like to be with a gay man who's into ME as much as I'm into him once in my life before I die.
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    What help do you need that you can't figure out on your own from this situation? You've had sex twice with a guy who claims is straight. If that isn't a red flag then I don't know what is.

    If you want to be with a guy who is into you then you should probably look for someone who is like you instead of shagging closet cases or people who are just insecure about their sexuality like your supposed "straight" friend who you have banged twice now. What with this "part time straight" nonsense when drunk? What the hell is that?

    You are putting yourself in this situation so please don't act like a victim. It's not like he's taking advantage of you. You are freely and willingly doing this to yourself. You know better.
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    Oct 13, 2011 4:41 PM GMT
    Montague saidSo if a gay guy has sex with or make out with a chic, does that make them a straight?

    Thought for the day.


    No but it makes them not gay.
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    Oct 13, 2011 4:43 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    Montague saidSo if a gay guy has sex with or make out with a chic, does that make them a straight?

    Thought for the day.


    No but it makes them not gay.


    Gay with Bi/Str8 tendencies. Bwahahahaha. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 13, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    If you don't like your behavior, change it.

    Really.

    Simple as that.

    You make the choice to sleep with him or not. If alcohol is impairing your judgement, stop drinking. If you dislike yourself after sexing him, stop having sex with him.

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    Oct 13, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    the more sex ur having with him the more gay he gets ... it's a win win lol
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    Oct 13, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    Guy101 said
    Chainers said
    Montague saidSo if a gay guy has sex with or make out with a chic, does that make them a straight?

    Thought for the day.


    No but it makes them not gay.


    Gay with Bi/Str8 tendencies. Bwahahahaha. icon_lol.gif


    Straight-Curious.
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    Oct 13, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    Cash said
    Guy101 said
    Chainers said
    Montague saidSo if a gay guy has sex with or make out with a chic, does that make them a straight?

    Thought for the day.


    No but it makes them not gay.


    Gay with Bi/Str8 tendencies. Bwahahahaha. icon_lol.gif


    Straight-Curious.


    LOL. I completely forgot about that term. Good one, Cash.

    A good friend told me this once and it makes perfect sense.

    "1st time is experimentation. 2nd time is confirmation."
  • sonnet129

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    Oct 13, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    Okay, now this is back on track.
    I guess I'm distracting myself. I have a lot I need to attend to and get done and this is a big distraction I'm making for my self. I have a great talent for self-sabotage.
    BTW, this post is not about labelling this guy's sexuality. He's fucked me and he's not doing much to discourage me. I'm probably masturbating his ego as much as anything else.
  • LJay

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    Oct 13, 2011 5:09 PM GMT
    Oh, have a good time, both of you and don't bother to analyze too much.

    Too many guys here want people to sing a pledge before tehy fuck. What does it matter?!?!!
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    Oct 13, 2011 5:17 PM GMT
    sonnet129 saidOkay, now this is back on track.
    I guess I'm distracting myself. I have a lot I need to attend to and get done and this is a big distraction I'm making for my self. I have a great talent for self-sabotage.
    BTW, this post is not about labelling this guy's sexuality. He's fucked me and he's not doing much to discourage me. I'm probably masturbating his ego as much as anything else.


    As long as you are both single it really doesn't matter.

    It is highly doubtful that he is going to dedicate himself to you in any way. Nor should he. At this point it is just some drunken fun anyway. Until he throws his arm around you for no particular reason, just because he felt like it, WHILE SOBER - it's nothing more than a drinking game and "your little secret."

    If you want the real thing, go for an available gay dude. And yeah yeah yeah I know they are so very "impossible" to find blah blah blah...but if you can find "straight" guys who wanna stroke yer dick CERTAINLY you can find a few eligible gay boys.
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    Oct 13, 2011 5:24 PM GMT
    No offense, the guy is at least bi. I mean if a guy is sucking a dick that is pretty gay ha.

  • Latenight30

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    Oct 13, 2011 5:45 PM GMT
    Getting your rocks off. Straight guys can be great. No dating, no commitment, if they are hot go for it.
  • sonnet129

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    Oct 13, 2011 6:18 PM GMT
    Cash said
    sonnet129 said
    If you want the real thing, go for an available gay dude. And yeah yeah yeah I know they are so very "impossible" to find blah blah blah...but if you can find "straight" guys who wanna stroke yer dick CERTAINLY you can find a few eligible gay boys.


    Well, that's kind of a vote of confidence. I'll take it anyway.