Six years later at a Nightclub and Strip bar.....

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    Oct 13, 2011 6:33 AM GMT
    My friend bless his heart took me out to Barns (same sex nightclub) and then to a strip bar Remington...

    Never did I ever feel so un attractive ever, and old . I enjoyed certain aspects..But I dunno, I just felt like the awkward librarian..Even at the strip bar. I just blushed with guys strutting their stuff...

    Maybe its because I would rather meet a guy on a one on one basis and would see me as the smart individual and have eyes on him than the rest of the guys...

    *sigh*

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  • stratavos

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    Oct 13, 2011 12:30 PM GMT
    remingtons is a strip bar... it's not about one-on-one unless you're going to a private room :p
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    Oct 13, 2011 2:29 PM GMT
    Nothing is off..... except strip clubs. They are totally foscused on the troll demographic.
  • slimnmuscly

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    Oct 13, 2011 3:56 PM GMT
    I'm not getting the "six years later" part of the subject line. Did your friend take you out six years ago, and you're reminscing about it now? Or you came out six years ago and feel this way now prompted by going out with your friend?
  • str8hardbody9

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    Oct 13, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    REMINGTON is one of my favorite place to go. The strippers are HOT!! Yummy! "Being old comes with time, feeling old comes with bitterness"icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 13, 2011 5:00 PM GMT
    I haven't been to any club nor strip bar in six years. Anyhow I posted this when I was at tail end of a buzzed rant....

    I'm ok now..But I sure learned that you don't dress like a Liberian next time!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    Oh and when i meant old, I was thinking that I'm no longer into the circuit routine of hitting bar, club, bathhouse/stipbar.

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    Oct 13, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    I don't think strip clubs are for trolls or bitter whatever. They can be fun if you go with the right mind set, don't mind a little seediness and are willing to just enjoy yourself without being uptight, judgemental or insecure.

    Hell, I'm looking forward to going to Swinging Richards in Atlanta this weekend! yeehaw!
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    Oct 13, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    omg the OP is not unattractive or old! You look like you're still in your early 20s.

    wear a tank or muscle T next time
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    Oct 13, 2011 5:54 PM GMT
    LOL Sure...

    Holy crap..Why is this topic getting so many views..


    I feel like a dumbass now! X_X *CRAP*
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    Oct 13, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidLOL Sure...

    Holy crap..Why is this topic getting so many views..


    I feel like a dumbass now! X_X *CRAP*
    Librarians can be hot! Don't underestimate yourself!
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    Oct 13, 2011 6:22 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidI haven't been to any club nor strip bar in six years. Anyhow I posted this when I was at tail end of a buzzed rant....

    I'm ok now..But I sure learned that you don't dress like a Liberian next time!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    Oh and when i meant old, I was thinking that I'm no longer into the circuit routine of hitting bar, club, bathhouse/stipbar.



    The Barn is where the trash of the trash go, just wait till you go to clubs with better, fitter crowd..

    Also I guess It makes sense you felt out of place if you did dress up like a Liberian...

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    Oct 13, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidMy friend bless his heart took me out to Barns (same sex nightclub) and then to a strip bar Remington...

    Never did I ever feel so un attractive ever, and old . I enjoyed certain aspects..But I dunno, I just felt like the awkward librarian..Even at the strip bar. I just blushed with guys strutting their stuff...

    Maybe its because I would rather meet a guy on a one on one basis and would see me as the smart individual and have eyes on him than the rest of the guys...

    *sigh*

    Something is off..... icon_confused.gif


    Those places are about physicality. The moment, the music and yeah the sweaty bodies. It's not really about anything else. It could be. Not everyone who goes there are vain shallow people with no depth beyond the divide in their pecs icon_razz.gif

    Your intelligence makes you capable of a lot more and maybe is better spent in other places with someone you can grow to care about
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    Oct 13, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    theantijock said
    Fivealive said...Never did I ever feel so un attractive ever, and old . .../quote]

    Fivealive said...when i meant old, I was thinking that I'm no longer into the circuit routine of hitting bar, club, bathhouse/stipbar


    Old at 28? I suppose we all age in our own time. Still, reminds me of a sitcom episode where a main character dates this guy who shaves his head. After years of the bald look, he decides to let his hair grow, only to discover to his horror that he had since developed a bald spot.


    OH NO... I don't want to have a bald spot yet! Waaaaaaaaaaaahicon_cry.gif
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    Oct 13, 2011 6:31 PM GMT
    FootballHawk said
    Fivealive saidI haven't been to any club nor strip bar in six years. Anyhow I posted this when I was at tail end of a buzzed rant....

    I'm ok now..But I sure learned that you don't dress like a Liberian next time!! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    Oh and when i meant old, I was thinking that I'm no longer into the circuit routine of hitting bar, club, bathhouse/stipbar.



    The Barn is where the trash of the trash go, just wait till you go to clubs with better, fitter crowd..

    Also I guess It makes sense you felt out of place if you did dress up like a Liberian...

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    Oct 13, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidMy friend bless his heart took me out to Barns (same sex nightclub) and then to a strip bar Remington...

    Never did I ever feel so un attractive ever, and old . I enjoyed certain aspects..But I dunno, I just felt like the awkward librarian..Even at the strip bar. I just blushed with guys strutting their stuff...

    Maybe its because I would rather meet a guy on a one on one basis and would see me as the smart individual and have eyes on him than the rest of the guys...

    *sigh*

    Something is off..... icon_confused.gif
    Baby nothing is off...In my book you're sooo on...Trust me
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    Oct 13, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    mybud said
    Fivealive saidMy friend bless his heart took me out to Barns (same sex nightclub) and then to a strip bar Remington...

    Never did I ever feel so un attractive ever, and old . I enjoyed certain aspects..But I dunno, I just felt like the awkward librarian..Even at the strip bar. I just blushed with guys strutting their stuff...

    Maybe its because I would rather meet a guy on a one on one basis and would see me as the smart individual and have eyes on him than the rest of the guys...

    *sigh*

    Something is off..... icon_confused.gif
    Baby nothing is off...In my book you're sooo on...Trust me


    *hugs*

    Thanks Bud...

    Btw I'm really wasn't trying to fish....Maybe being away from Toronto for so long that I lost my bearings.
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    Oct 13, 2011 7:14 PM GMT
    Clubs have changed over the years. They used to be places for cruising or meeting new friends when you are new to a town.

    Now they are places for sipping cocktails and dancing. Seattle is terrible. The clubs are just big enough for a dance floor, but too small for a lounge. People go in groups. They look at you pleasantly, but you always have to make the first move and then they play coy. It's all about image, not meeting interesting new people from other places who may prove worthy companions.

    You are not unattractive, at least physically, but you are lacking in self confidence. Einstein was no looker, but he was better company than most people who make you feel ugly in some dance club full of bubble-headed posers ;).
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    Oct 13, 2011 7:34 PM GMT
    I totally get where you are on this one. I went with a group of my bf's friends and first, you don't want to go to a place like that with others you know. It's just very uncomfortable and awkward if the dancers are off stage dancing naked in front of you. Do you touch, grab, feel? What will the friends think, you're slut, perv? Better to go alone if you're so inclined then you can do whatever without feeling weird! LOL

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    Oct 13, 2011 8:27 PM GMT
    I can't believe the Barn is still open >
  • Iakona

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    Oct 13, 2011 8:47 PM GMT
    I think all us Toronto boys should get together....always safer in numbers!!
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    Oct 14, 2011 12:41 AM GMT
    Iakona saidI think all us Toronto boys should get together....always safer in numbers!!


    Next week, Laks...Java!! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 14, 2011 12:43 AM GMT
    Next time, go dressed as a priest. :3
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    Oct 14, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidLOL ... you're feeling old at 28 ... just wait


    Haha! I was just going to say!
  • Timbales

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    Oct 14, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
    I was up in Toronto for my 40th birthday and we went to Remington's. I blushed like a school girl, but ended up getting a private dance from a very nice younger man who did an excellent job. He wasn't sleazy and was really sweet.
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    Oct 14, 2011 2:47 AM GMT
    I have never been to a male strip club maybe i should do it eventually for one of my birthdays ahhah