What Would You Do, "Safe Sex" guy Tries to Bare Back me

  • 6packabs

    Posts: 216

    Oct 14, 2011 3:33 AM GMT
    I met a guy, an artist, pretty cool guy, mutual interests in sculpting and painting, and after dropping in the other night to see him and plan a trip to the desert where he has a comission to paint a landscape and he also wanted to draw me some, he got in my pants after a few hours of showing my his art. I usually don't mind a guy playing with me and worshipping my body, sucking my cock, as he was doing. But soon I was naked as was he. He massaged me, which was nice, working tense knots out of my neck. I've rarely had anyone do such a good job on my neck. I was totally comfortable and relaxed. I just layed back, he had me folded and my legs up over his shoulders, but then he tried to stick his cock up my ass---bareback.

    First, I'm a top, not a bottom. I don't object to bottoming when the time comes to it, but I've said it will be my "prince charming" who gets that privilage, and I've not found him yet. So him trying hard to thrust that cock up my ass was pretty out of line.

    Second, he didn't have a condom on, and yet just an hour before had been saying "I always practice safe sex."

    Well, somewhat bull shit, don't you think? Always safe sex yet he assumes to just ram his cock up my ass?

    So, as I layed there, I didn't feel like talking, I just stuck my fists back against his pelvis restricting or stiff arming him from entry, though he sat there and tried as he lay on top of me. Beyond all that, I was pretty damn relaxed and if a bottom, and into barebacking, he surely had me primed to receive him.

    So, I felt a bit jacked in my sentiment to him. Not a huge deal, but I don't fully trust a guy who professes "safe sex always" one hour, and the next is trying to force bareback on me.

    QUESTION: What would you tell the guy? He feels devestated at my backing out of the trip. I told him I'm totally about being friends, and I don't condemn him, but I don't have a huge trust factor with him and therefore a few days in the desert seems a little sketchy. What would you guys have done were you me? He wrote a very long e-mail and really regrets what he did saying he was sorry. I'm not one to get into "drama" and such things, but wondered what some perspectives here might be.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
    He would have been in the hospital after I got through with him had he pulled that shit on me and especially if he persisted.

    That shit ain't right, especially if you were all clear on the "safe sex" practice.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 4:11 AM GMT
    If anyone try to bareback you, you should cut their pee pee off. Immediately.

    Make sure you don't get their blood on you.


    Im just kidding but you should tell him to hit the road.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    maybe he just wanted to rub his dick on your ass..... regardless of what is said before... that line of communication needs to be kept open especially during the 'seduction' ... doesnt matter if your at 'first' base' or just about to have some dick in your ass...never hesitate to say.... wooohhhh pal, not happening.... icon_twisted.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    waimea saidIf anyone try to bareback you, you should cut their pee pee off. Immediately.
    Make sure you don't get their blood on you.
    Agreed.
    2nc1bo6.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 4:47 AM GMT
    He probably thought he was being 'romantic' about it... Ya right, I really want to get it up there without a condom because it that's what 'porno's showicon_rolleyes.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    Anduru said
    waimea saidIf anyone try to bareback you, you should cut their pee pee off. Immediately.
    Make sure you don't get their blood on you.
    Agreed.
    2nc1bo6.jpg


    This gif frightens me anduru...
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 5:59 AM GMT
    It's missing the blood...

    Still a fucking scary GIF though, icon_eek.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:02 AM GMT
    you should've farted
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:05 AM GMT
    I had an experience similar to this.

    Met a guy who was smokin' hot and very much a bottom at a bar. But, I managed to trip and fall on my knees in my leathers during the night and so I wasn't in perfect physical shape when we finally made it to my place (after a 20 mile drive.)

    I was lying on my back and he was straddling me. After a while it was clear that I wasn't going to come, so he moved to straddle my stomach and I was going to rub one out...

    "uh, where's the condom?"

    "Oh, I wanted to feel you shooting inside me."

    If they're sitting on top of you and you can't see what's going on, they are in control.

    Don't let yourself get into that situation.

    Are all marines motivated to smoke, drink, and STD themselves to an early grave or did I just get lucky?

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    I would stop seeing him, I've almost been physically forced to bareback, and I just stop seeing them after that, other guys want to "claim me" by barebacking me, what are we? dogs? icon_confused.gif There's better guys out there.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidyou should've farted
    331iwr7.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:08 AM GMT
    Hypnotico saidI would stop seeing him, I've almost been physically forced to bareback, and I just stop seeing them after that, other guys want to "claim me" by barebacking me, what are we? dogs? icon_confused.gif There's better guys out there.


    A friend of mine became HIV positive after he was sexually assaulted.

    I agree. People like that are dangerous.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:09 AM GMT
    RobertF64 saidI was lying on my back and he was straddling me. After a while it was clear that I wasn't going to come, so he moved to straddle my stomach and I was going to rub one out...
    Wait, what?

    Was he on your dick and then on your stomach? or what? icon_confused.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    RobertF64 saidI had an experience similar to this.

    Met a guy who was smokin' hot and very much a bottom at a bar. But, I managed to trip and fall on my knees in my leathers during the night and so I wasn't in perfect physical shape when we finally made it to my place (after a 20 mile drive.)

    I was lying on my back and he was straddling me. After a while it was clear that I wasn't going to come, so he moved to straddle my stomach and I was going to rub one out...

    "uh, where's the condom?"

    "Oh, I wanted to feel you shooting inside me."

    If they're sitting on top of you and you can't see what's going on, they are in control.

    Don't let yourself get into that situation.

    Are all marines motivated to smoke, drink, and STD themselves to an early grave or did I just get lucky?



    wait, what?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidyou should've farted



    Yea definitely would have been a buzz kill for meicon_exclaim.gificon_eek.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidyou should've farted

    What if he likes that and gets turned on even more?! Then the OP's screwed, literally.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    RobertF64 said
    Hypnotico saidI would stop seeing him, I've almost been physically forced to bareback, and I just stop seeing them after that, other guys want to "claim me" by barebacking me, what are we? dogs? icon_confused.gif There's better guys out there.


    A friend of mine became HIV positive after he was sexually assaulted.

    I agree. People like that are dangerous.


    That's awful, the guy who tried to bareback me turned into a completely different person for like 30 seconds, he was like -just the tip just the tip-, but then he came back to his senses and stopped but I was really scared for a moment icon_neutral.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    The only thing I can say good about the other guy is...he has a good choice in men icon_cool.gif
    But seriously I think you're as guilty as he is. You went to see him and before long you're both naked and having sex. Thats cool. You didn't have a bag over your head not knowing what he was doing. When you're on your back and he lifts your legs over your head you being a top know well what might be the next act. Instead of getting indignant about it just say "I don't bareback" and continued playing to the end. icon_biggrin.gif
    I think you over reacted to what happened.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:53 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI'm not being judgmental about the bareback part but I don't like when a guy says one thing and then does another. If I were in your shoes I would probably back out of going to the desert as well.
    Must...... not.......... comment......
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:56 AM GMT
    Anduru said
    waimea saidIf anyone try to bareback you, you should cut their pee pee off. Immediately.
    Make sure you don't get their blood on you.
    Agreed.
    2nc1bo6.jpg


    Omg those Japanese movies are the top of graphic
  • MikemikeMike

    Posts: 6932

    Oct 14, 2011 6:58 AM GMT
    6pack your not a kid?? Your story sounds like an unexperienced kid wrote it and asked the question. You know what to do c'mon!!icon_idea.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 6:58 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    RobertF64 saidI had an experience similar to this.

    Met a guy who was smokin' hot and very much a bottom at a bar. But, I managed to trip and fall on my knees in my leathers during the night and so I wasn't in perfect physical shape when we finally made it to my place (after a 20 mile drive.)

    I was lying on my back and he was straddling me. After a while it was clear that I wasn't going to come, so he moved to straddle my stomach and I was going to rub one out...

    "uh, where's the condom?"

    "Oh, I wanted to feel you shooting inside me."

    If they're sitting on top of you and you can't see what's going on, they are in control.

    Don't let yourself get into that situation.

    Are all marines motivated to smoke, drink, and STD themselves to an early grave or did I just get lucky?



    wait, what?

    You rang?
    You%20Rang.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 7:00 AM GMT
    WaitWhat said
    AvadaKedavra saidwait, what?

    You rang?
    You%20Rang.gif
    tumblr_lq3ameyUVd1qcii9oo1_500.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 14, 2011 8:00 AM GMT
    RobertF64 said
    Hypnotico saidI would stop seeing him, I've almost been physically forced to bareback, and I just stop seeing them after that, other guys want to "claim me" by barebacking me, what are we? dogs? icon_confused.gif There's better guys out there.


    A friend of mine became HIV positive after he was sexually assaulted.

    I agree. People like that are dangerous.


    yeah, mine too