Mistreated by an ageist Macho Queen!

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    Oct 14, 2011 3:06 PM GMT
    I am 43 years old and for the first time in my life, a 25 year old gay guy with a very muscular, macho body has decided to treat me like sh*t. For no reason, he came up to me at the gay bar I have been frequenting for more than 10 years and began trying to publicly humiliate me in front of everyone else. He has the body of a god, but as soon as he opened his mouth, all I could hear was this drama queen with a feminine voice and mannerisms commenting on my age, my salt 'n pepper hair and why I wasn't with my own kind in an old age home.

    I was so caught off guard I just couldn't say anything. There were other regular patrons in their forties and fifties who commented on what had happened and they were very sweet, but some of them became more and more angry at this bitch the more the alcohol flowed.

    Have any of you ever been on the receiving end of ageist comments and how did you handle it?
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:33 PM GMT
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    throw a drink* over him and tell him to fuck himself with a broken bottle.


    *pref very hot coffee

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    Oct 14, 2011 4:42 PM GMT
    Yes people insult me because of my age all the time. Every time I go up to a hot older man all he says is "How old are you? You look 18." Its annoying.
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:44 PM GMT
    Chainers saidYes people insult me because of my age all the time. Every time I go up to a hot older man all he says is "How old are you? You look 18." Its annoying.


    Can I pass my old men creepers off on you? Because I'm pretty sure I get them all the time and let's just say.... not my area of expertise and I'm just not interested lol. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
    Chainers saidYes people insult me because of my age all the time. Every time I go up to a hot older man all he says is "How old are you? You look 18." Its annoying.


    That's because you wear a Cub Scout uniform every time you go out.

    It's weird Dude.
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:45 PM GMT
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    Chainers saidYes people insult me because of my age all the time. Every time I go up to a hot older man all he says is "How old are you? You look 18." Its annoying.


    Can I pass my old men creepers off on you? Because I'm pretty sure I get them all the time and let's just say.... not my area of expertise and I'm just not interested lol. icon_cool.gif


    I dont like old men creepers too. I prefer to go for hot older men who dont hit on 20 year olds, but will take one that hits on them :-)
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:48 PM GMT
    Nope! If someone even tried I would just shut them down with a quickness!
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:50 PM GMT
    No, nobody ever has and it sounds like that big baby needed a spanking! I would have smacked that bitch up!
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    you're lucky, he actually noticed you !
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    Oct 14, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    Laugh it off, hot stuff. He's a past version of you, and you know that in 3 years he's going to be in a soulless relationship with a drug abuser. After that when he's 33 he's going to tear out a muscle while lifting with younger guys (who are in their 20s), get fat for a couple of years during recovery, and in the process lose his hair--which, had he been less of a pompous ass would have been salt-n-peppah. By the time he's 43, he'll bump into the delicious muscular 61-year-old you, and ask you how a man your age stays in such great shape.
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    btw, wtf is a macho body ?
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:03 PM GMT

    He did this "for some reason?"

    I suspect there's a major part of this story missing.

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    Oct 14, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    DJBoston said
    He did this "for some reason?"

    I suspect there's a major part of this story missing.



    +1, Why would he single you out if there were other regular patrons in their 40s and 50s present as well? Doesn't add up.
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    KardioKing said
    DJBoston said
    He did this "for some reason?"

    I suspect there's a major part of this story missing.



    +1, Why would he single you out if there were other regular patrons in their 40s and 50s present as well? Doesn't add up.


    +2 methinks the OP be trollin'.
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    KardioKing said
    DJBoston said
    He did this "for some reason?"

    I suspect there's a major part of this story missing.



    +1, Why would he single you out if there were other regular patrons in their 40s and 50s present as well? Doesn't add up.


    Hmmm, yes you have a point...
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:17 PM GMT
    I think it's funny to watch people make asses of themselves for no reason. I think it's even funnier when people just ignore them. That really pisses them off, and by the time their tirade is over, not a person in the establishment is going to find them attractive. However, it's pretty much guaranteed that he'll be on everybody's bar as a psycho, and the likelyhood of him getting a date from the crowd there is slim to none.

    BTW how do you know he was 25 if it was just a random assault?
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:19 PM GMT
    I love it when a guy whose profile says 'no one over 25...30...40...etc and then try to hook up on line with me.....my response is I am not at all interested in any guy who discriminates on race, age or anything else...

    I then proceed to give them a very nice little lecture - which they all seem to appreciate - on being silent in their profiles on such matters - and just don't respond to 'old creepers'...

    While I am out - no - my age has never been a problem apart from younger guys who don't believe that no means no - the daddy fantasy is alive and well - but I wouldn't say no to Chainers if he was in a boy scouts outfit - the trade off would be that he would have to show me how to rub two sticks together to make a fire...

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    Oct 14, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    Now you know how black people feel... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:23 PM GMT
    ozmuscle2 saidI love it when a guy whose profile says 'no one over 25...30...40...etc and then try to hook up on line with me.....my response is I am not at all interested in any guy who discriminates on race, age or anything else...

    I then proceed to give them a very nice little lecture - which they all seem to appreciate - on being silent in their profiles on such matters - and just don't respond to 'old creepers'...

    While I am out - no - my age has never been a problem apart from younger guys who don't believe that no means no - the daddy fantasy is alive and well - but I wouldn't say no to Chainers if he was in a boy scouts outfit - the trade off would be that he would have to show me how to rub two sticks together to make a fire...



    lol thanks ozmuscle. But, truth be told, shouldnt you know more about that than me?

    Older guys are so fickled. They have so many rules about younger guys I dont know how to deal with them. But they are oh so yummy!
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    I agree. Part of this story is missing. Something HAD to have been said to provoke him. Not that it makes his response okay, but take responsibility if you had something to do with it.
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    Oct 14, 2011 5:50 PM GMT
    And now a few words from Insanity Wolf on this subject:


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    Oct 14, 2011 6:01 PM GMT
    Tell the queen to go take a douche.
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    Oct 14, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    Chainers said
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    Chainers saidYes people insult me because of my age all the time. Every time I go up to a hot older man all he says is "How old are you? You look 18." Its annoying.


    Can I pass my old men creepers off on you? Because I'm pretty sure I get them all the time and let's just say.... not my area of expertise and I'm just not interested lol. icon_cool.gif


    I dont like old men creepers too. I prefer to go for hot older men who dont hit on 20 year olds, but will take one that hits on them :-)


    Like. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 14, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    Chainers saidYes people insult me because of my age all the time. Every time I go up to a hot older man all he says is "How old are you? You look 18." Its annoying.


    The answer to that question is...

    Well I'm 24... But for you daddy I could be icon_twisted.gif