Oct 14, 2011 9:51 PM GMT
Im desperately in need of some insightfulness here. Im a straight female in a serious relationship and simply looking out for my future. I have serious doubts about my partners sexual orientation because he has looked for hook ups with other men on the Internet before we started dating and cheated on me with one of his gay friends in the past. He likes to have his prostate rubbed on and didn't mind the idea of me taking him with a strap on up until recently. I asked him if he is gay or bisexual and he completely denies it saying that he doesn't like furry buttholes. In a recent conversation about swinging, he said he wouldn't mind having a guy do him in the butt while he takes me. Honestly, I don't judge him for him sexual orientation, but I will not marry him (I am pregnant with his kid) if he is indeed gay. If he were bisexual, I wouldn't care, but I can't be with someone who is lying to himself about his sexual preference (which would not include me, a female), and it is completely unfair to me! Help!