"Don't Shoot Me, I'm Only The Piano Player".....Bang!

  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 15, 2011 2:30 AM GMT

    Whenever a relationship ends due to the infidelity of one of the partners, would you blame the "partner" instead of the "other guy"? icon_confused.gif

    The reason I ask is because of the recent article I just read on AOL.
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    Oct 15, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    Rage knows no logic. If I were with someone for 25 years and found out that they cheated and ran off with that person, I doubt I would break down the blame percentage between the two. You'd be angry at the cheater. You'd also be angry at the person who didn't care that they were benefiting from your loss without considering how you might feel. If that person isn't kind enough to put themselves in your shoes, why should you put yourself in theirs? That's what you think when you're in the heat of raw, angry hurt. But I don't think I could kill anyone unless I was in danger.
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    Oct 15, 2011 10:33 AM GMT
    This is really sad. They could have lived. I can't empathize on that level...who knows how long they've been together. Maybe if people weren't co-dependent when it comes to relationships, this wouldn't happen...as much. My heart goes out to the families of these 3 individuals. I really hope the world grows to understand how infidelity can affect loved ones, and better ways to cope if it happens.