young dating older

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    Oct 17, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    is it wrong for a young guy to be dating a much older guy?
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    Oct 17, 2011 4:53 AM GMT
    Extremely wrong in fact if their is more than a 2 year difference it should be a crime
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    Oct 17, 2011 4:56 AM GMT
    They should be born within eight hours of each other, or it's just wrong.
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    Oct 17, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    ah ok fair enough
  • Suetonius

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    Oct 17, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    Can we assume that you are the younger guy in question?

    It's not wrong to date, have sex with, or love anyone - younger, older, different race, or of either sex. Right/Wrong has nothing to do with it. At your age, you still have a lot of time to experience lots of relationships with people of whatever age you choose (and are able to find). You may find that people around you do not approve of some types of relationships - such as a young person dating a much older one, but what you do with your life is up to you, - not the people around you who might approve or not. I happen to have one friend is about 80, who has had a relationship off and on for about 20 years with a guy about 35 years younger. That means they started when the younger guy was in his mid-20's. They are quite happy together, and as far as I can discern still have an active sex life. The younger one has lots of friends his own age. This is just an example of an older-younger relationship that has lasted. So if you are attracted to an older guy now - go for it. No relationship is promised to last forever - so my advice would to be to take what you have at the moment - this moment is all that anyone is promised in life.

    Curious - being in Wagga Wagga, I am surprised that you can find anyone to date at all - with Canberra being 250 km away, and Melbourne 500?
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    Oct 17, 2011 6:10 AM GMT
    youfoundme saidis it wrong for a young guy to be dating a much older guy?


    No, it's wrong for an older guy to have sex with a minor LOL. Atleast in America icon_lol.gif

    Sometimes though, one has to kind of question the integrity of both parties in these situations. Is the younger guy looking for a sugar daddy/provider? Is the older guy wanting to use the boy as a houseboy/sextoy?

    Not saying all, but most older/younger relationships are generally like the above. Nothing WRONG with it as long as both agree that's what it's going to be.
  • charlieviiper...

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    Oct 17, 2011 6:41 AM GMT
    No, unless you happen to be the older guy and the young guy in question happens to be 13.

    In that case, you could wait a few years, or 10.
  • Diceroll

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    Oct 17, 2011 12:20 PM GMT
    For me maturity is much more important than age. I just turned 30 but would have no problem dating someone in their 20's or 40's (possibly a bit older) as long as the chemistry was right.

    After all, there are guys in their early 20's who are extremely mature and there are guys in their 40's who act like stupid little kids - especially when it comes to dating.

  • a303guy

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    Oct 17, 2011 12:26 PM GMT
    Diceroll saidFor me maturity is much more important than age. I just turned 30 but would have no problem dating someone in their 20's or 40's (possibly a bit older) as long as the chemistry was right.

    After all, there are guys in their early 20's who are extremely mature and there are guys in their 40's who act like stupid little kids - especially when it comes to dating.



    This. +10
  • fitdude62

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    Oct 17, 2011 12:43 PM GMT
    It's only wrong if you think it's wrong. If it feels good, go for it.
    Peace
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    Oct 17, 2011 12:43 PM GMT
    I once liked and had sex with someone 10 years younger than me. If I continued seeing him, I don't know if age would have been a problem or not.

    I seen someone, not for the first time, who works at a local mini-mart. Yesterday I was attracted to him and started talking alittle bit to him.

    He got his hair cut and I liked it. He is ~20 years younger than I.

    I look and act or feel younger than my age. I could see us doing something if he is cool with it.
  • swimbikerun

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    Oct 17, 2011 1:17 PM GMT
    youfoundme saidis it wrong for a young guy to be dating a much older guy?
    No.
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    Oct 17, 2011 1:26 PM GMT
    I used to date a guy 13 years older than me, and I dont see the problem... If there is a connection doesnt matter the difference ;-) I never date a guy way youger than me tho... teenagers arent mature enought from my point of view... Anyway, enjoy life dont stop yourself with imaginary bondaries ;-)
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    Oct 17, 2011 2:07 PM GMT
    Not wrong at all, cause older is better ;)
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    Oct 19, 2011 9:13 AM GMT
    Yes i am the younger guy in question. thnks for your opinion, i appreciate it heaps

    It's not wrong to date, have sex with, or love anyone - younger, older, different race, or of either sex. Right/Wrong has nothing to do with it. At your age, you still have a lot of time to experience lots of relationships with people of whatever age you choose (and are able to find). You may find that people around you do not approve of some types of relationships - such as a young person dating a much older one, but what you do with your life is up to you, - not the people around you who might approve or not. I happen to have one friend is about 80, who has had a relationship off and on for about 20 years with a guy about 35 years younger. That means they started when the younger guy was in his mid-20's. They are quite happy together, and as far as I can discern still have an active sex life. The younger one has lots of friends his own age. This is just an example of an older-younger relationship that has lasted. So if you are attracted to an older guy now - go for it. No relationship is promised to last forever - so my advice would to be to take what you have at the moment - this moment is all that anyone is promised in life.

    Curious - being in Wagga Wagga, I am surprised that you can find anyone to date at all - with Canberra being 250 km away, and Melbourne 500?[/quote]
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    Oct 19, 2011 9:20 AM GMT
    I don't see anything wrong with it. I think its all just preference. I dated a guy 17 yrs older than me, and he was a great guy to be with. But the age difference created a lot of problems, and in the end, he just wasn't the right guy. So I really just think it's how you handle it.
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    Oct 19, 2011 9:51 AM GMT
    if hes old enough to be your father then its wrong
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    Oct 19, 2011 10:23 AM GMT
    Tried it a lot. Intergenerational sex is hot, but most older guys have an issue with the age difference. Tread lightly on that one friend. Just know that YOU are not the one with the problem. They are just very insecure.
  • craigcmead

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    Oct 19, 2011 11:11 AM GMT
    It really isnt about what I thing or they think or what anyone thinks. Does he make you happy? Are you turned on by him? Does the age difference really bother you or him? Then go for it!!!
  • unicoman1

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    Oct 19, 2011 11:25 AM GMT
    Well lets see, it's only wrong if you answer NO to any of these questions...

    Is he rich ? -


    I suppose there is only 1 question...


    Simply comical... Age is nonsense, as long as yer compatible with one another! As long as you are both fine with the difference. Enjoy it!
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:26 AM GMT
    I had a Boyfriend of three years that was 24 years younger,, sadly he died of Cancer,,,
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    Oct 20, 2011 2:03 AM GMT
    notadumbjock saididk, i'm struggling with this now. started talking 2 a guy in his 40s. he's nice, smart, funny, dorky, and yep, more than kinda hot. even a few wks ago i'd not even consider him...ummm...worthy? of my attn. now...well...i just dk.


    Go for it!!
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    Dec 13, 2011 4:52 PM GMT
    Young dating older is unacceptable.

    But older dating younger is perfectly fine.
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    Dec 13, 2011 4:56 PM GMT
    It's not wrong but then again some people don't think it's right.

    I don't think it's for everyone and for those who make it work then I say kudos.
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    Dec 13, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    peterstrong saidlove and sex and sex and love are not wrong unless its with other none human animals - gonorrhea and syphilis, maybe others vds came into humans from older time's shepards fucking their sheep.
    GROSS

    i am just saying


    What?!