Hooked up with a straight guy [UPDATE]

  • sonnet129

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    Oct 18, 2011 1:13 AM GMT
    This was my original post.
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1878242/

    So, yeah, this wasn't the first time I've done this, just the latest. (AGAIN, this post is not about whether or not this guy is "straight." I get it, whatever you want to call him, closeted, curious, MSM, that's not the point.)
    It's been over another week. He doesn't have the hold on me he had a few days ago. I know I need to stop bagging these guys. I have too many like this in my history. I live in a small/medium-sized city (I've lived in larger cities, but economics rule out that option for the time being.)

    There's one gay bar here, which is very lame (only open 1-2 times a week!) I tend to go to straight bars and have an annoying talent for going home with these guys who are either closeted, or identify mostly as straight and I get attached after we mess around.

    One thing that helped me get over this guy was asking myself, "Was the sex great, or even good?"

    My answer was, "NO."

    Then my next question was, "Then why are you hooked on him."

    Answer, "He's good looking and....????"
    That's where I am now.

    I know I need a major change.
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    Oct 18, 2011 1:14 AM GMT
    Video or it didn't happen.
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    Oct 18, 2011 1:24 AM GMT
    Why wasn't the sex good?

  • sonnet129

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    Oct 18, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    closer85 saidWhy wasn't the sex good?


    Dude, I don't know. It just wasn't that memorable. I remember penetration for a little while and not much else.
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    Oct 18, 2011 9:02 AM GMT
    I really don't know why people saying they hooked up with a "straight" guy when they simply just had sex with another guy...
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    Oct 18, 2011 9:11 AM GMT
    sonnet129 said
    closer85 saidWhy wasn't the sex good?


    Dude, I don't know. It just wasn't that memorable. I remember penetration for a little while and not much else.


    Sounds like you were roofied!

    Well if it's not good for you and it's causing you upset then find some other way to fill your time than cruising straight bars... It's not difficult, surely?