I need some guy live near Montara , San francisco . Plz help me get him back . Im dying now

  • delta3026

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    Oct 18, 2011 11:44 PM GMT
    Im a asian guy who lives far away from san francisco . A month ago , I met a very romantic guy . I admit at first I just thought he was just a student but i still have feelings for him . We been chatting day by day through that wonderful month . Suddently , he said his heart could fall for those asian guys living nearby him . I know loving a wonderful guy like him means i should take all the disadvantages so i let him to hang out with them other boys . U guys know how hurt it is ? But i dont care because he promised me he will offer me a job in us when i graduated in my country and we could live together forever . Last week , he asked me if i was just using him to have a better life . I was denying it but my pc kinda lag then . So he misunderstood me and said he knows that japanese boy he dating loves him . Now he deleted his email so i cant explain anything . I just wanna say how my heart really feel so that if he dont wanna be with me anymore , we could be friends . Like i said , we been chatting very happily through that month so how could i just cut loose a friend who i trust to tell everything like him ( Im a hidden gay and he's the only person who knows and I trust to tell everything )

    He showed me his house in Montara town and promised someday i would live there with him . So now i need a guy who living nearby there to help me transfer my letter to him just to say sorry even thought it was my fault but i could take it as my fault .

    Please help me to save the love of my life . I will be so grateful .
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    On the very off chance that this isn't a total troll post...

    I'd say you would be better off forgetting this guy. He seemed content to string you along with promises and now he is talking about these other guys?

    He was trying to send you hints that he is no longer interested in you any more.

    The email deletion was a last attempt to basically get rid of you from his life.

    To be blunt, this guy sounds like someone who is rather selfish and who doesn't care much for other people.

    Look at it this way: he has saved you much hurt had you come to the USA and then he had rejected you.
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:53 AM GMT
    yeahhhhh..... i'm gonna say that you're shit outta luck. you never met him, you never had sex, you never had any sort of valid relationship so I'd say

    MOVE ON.
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:12 AM GMT
    Wait, you never met him? Is this a joke?
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 19, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
    SFYogi saidWait, you never met him? Is this a joke?


    When you're very lonely as it sounds like the OP is, it's very easy to fall in love with someone you've never met. icon_cry.gif
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:23 AM GMT
    No, he means Montana.

    Where Hannah lives.
  • calibro

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    Oct 19, 2011 2:27 AM GMT
    ronery...
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:51 AM GMT
    calibro saidronery...


    So wrong...but...so fitting.

    delta3026: What the hell is wrong with you?

    I think that question is my favorite to ask totally anonymous people on the internet.
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    jpBITCHva saidAnyway, where is Montara? Do you mean Monterey?
    Actually Montara is about 20 miles south of SF on the peninsula. It is on the coast.
  • delta3026

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    Oct 19, 2011 3:00 AM GMT
    I tried to forget but i cant . He's the first guy said love me , even he was a white guy and i was asian . He said if i were there , no other boys couldnt be around him . If i could , I would accept to go to us and be dumped by him , even then I would be homeless but i just need to see him happy everyday .

    He said he showed me his cam but the day after we broke up . But i dont care because i already fallen for him without any personal reason . I mean i dont care bout his face , his conditions . I just need a guy who i can hold hands walk along the beach - just like he said

    Montara town is near Half moon Bay , San Francisco , I guess . Plz someone help me convince him come back and talk to me like he used to . At least as a friend because i feel safe and warn when chatting to him . And i know the feelings he had for that boy just a temporary . I can make sure my feelings for him is forever
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:05 AM GMT
    Get one of these. It'll make you feel better..

    Boyfriend-Pillow.jpg
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    lol
    bolero_of_fire said No, he means Montana.

    Where Hannah lives.
  • delta3026

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    Oct 19, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    alphatrigger saidOn the very off chance that this isn't a total troll post...

    I'd say you would be better off forgetting this guy. He seemed content to string you along with promises and now he is talking about these other guys?

    He was trying to send you hints that he is no longer interested in you any more.

    The email deletion was a last attempt to basically get rid of you from his life.

    To be blunt, this guy sounds like someone who is rather selfish and who doesn't care much for other people.

    Look at it this way: he has saved you much hurt had you come to the USA and then he had rejected you.


    I dont think so . All the conversation between me and him was so funny and happy . But the last conversation , first he pm me and then we talk bout the economic and just ask again if he was sure bout the job for me . And then suddenly he thought i was using him and my stupic laptop was kinda lag so there was a misunderstood . And then he told me to go to hell and I had texted him so many times but i think i didnt read . Though the cost to text to usa expensive but the damaged in my heart is the biggest . Now i can barely eat and sleep . I only sleep 4 hours a day and when i think bout him , the tears keep raising .
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:48 AM GMT
    oh sweetie....lulz.
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
    Dallasfan824 saidoh sweetie....lulz.


    +1.
  • Beeftastic

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    Oct 19, 2011 4:49 AM GMT
    This guy does not sound very good. In fact by the way you describe him might see Asian guys as objects, not as real people.

    I think it's clear you are better without him. Hopefully you can find a guy locally that you can love.
  • delta3026

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    Oct 19, 2011 5:07 AM GMT
    Actually he told me he was into asian guys very much and he thought white guys are kinda arrogant and never thouhgt he would date a white guy . So that japanese jerk could jump in when i wasnt there .

    Well i guess u guys know bout the asian culture . Almost hidden gays like me are very hard to find and they're always lookin for sex . Beside , i think i will go abroad in future with my sis . So if i date with em local guys , soon or later we will apart and how could i face with my friends , my family while dating them here .

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    Oct 19, 2011 5:08 AM GMT
    You sound really young. At your age, the idea of losing something is especially painful, and I am sorry to read how distraught you are. Loss is a permanent fact of life. The ways that we deal with it is something that we can change, sometimes. I don't know what else to suggest. But look within yourself; you must find your own answers.
  • delta3026

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    Oct 19, 2011 5:20 AM GMT
    calf saidYou sound really young. At your age, the idea of losing something is especially painful, and I am sorry to read how distraught you are. Loss is a permanent fact of life. The ways that we deal with it is something that we can change, sometimes. I don't know what else to suggest. But look within yourself; you must find your own answers.


    yeah i know that i will get over him in the future but it might takes a long time . He's my first love . Maybe my heart will heal but it will be a scar , a huge scar on it .

    I just wanna talk to him to work things out . I havent done anything to hurt him . Just a misunderstood . I cant move on when all the things are still inconclusive . If it dont work out , at least we could be friends so that I could get used to live without him in my life . All the things was so sudden

    Plz someone help me
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Oct 19, 2011 6:18 AM GMT
    come on. really?
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    Oct 19, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    delta3026 saidPlz someone help me


    I once had an intense crush. But I never for the life of me thought that anyone else on the planet could help me get him. This is a strange request. No, it's a crazy request. There's something wrong here; either you are not who you say you are, or you are not right in the head. Nobody asks strangers for this kind of help.
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    Oct 19, 2011 6:35 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    delta3026 saidPlz someone help me


    I once had an intense crush. But I never for the life of me thought that anyone else on the planet could help me get him. This is a strange request. No, it's a crazy request. There's something wrong here; either you are not who you say you are, or you are not right in the head. Nobody asks strangers for this kind of help.


    +1 - i'm going with the latter option
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    Oct 19, 2011 6:37 AM GMT
    man up, man!!!
  • delta3026

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    Oct 19, 2011 8:31 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    delta3026 saidPlz someone help me


    I once had an intense crush. But I never for the life of me thought that anyone else on the planet could help me get him. This is a strange request. No, it's a crazy request. There's something wrong here; either you are not who you say you are, or you are not right in the head. Nobody asks strangers for this kind of help.


    Please ! I just need a guy who live near him to transfer my words to him . I know it crazy but u know , Im far away 10000 miles from him . All I need is a heart to heart conversation . I wont give up on such a unbreakable thing like this . I wanna know the reason why he treated me like this so that i can explain something and there will be no misunderstoods between . And then maybe we could be friends . From there , if he doesnt want me anymore , I will try to forget him but still be friends

    Well , i think before me maybe there was someone else also in online-dating like me , particularly asian like me . And when in trouble like this , I bet they thought it has no way to save the relationship and just let it go . I know in this world , theres some nice gay guys out there can help me get him back and its worth to try a shoot . This is my last decision . I just found the guy of my life and just know what love is . Theres no way im giving up

    So please , anyone out there could help me ? Im begging u
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    Oct 19, 2011 9:02 AM GMT
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