were you born gay, or did you become gay????

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    Oct 19, 2011 6:23 AM GMT
    were you born gay, or did you become gay????

    I think the queston is prety obvious!!
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:09 AM GMT
    Ask yourself? How many time they post same topic in this thread?
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:11 AM GMT
    Wasn't Raped. No serious religious restrictions or sexual repression. No psychological damage.


    BORN THIS WAY, babe.
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:43 AM GMT
    i knew since kindergarten lol..but i denied it for a lonnnggggg time!
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:45 AM GMT
    I like men. Real Men so i was born this way
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:46 AM GMT
    I was born covered with glitter, wearing leather pants, and had a bottle of tequila in my right hand.
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:51 AM GMT
    I was young.

    As a teenager I looked at guys, I couldn't help it. I tried to stop it and at some point in my life I sorta did in away, but it's back, so I am now trying to accept it.
  • upsguy68

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    Oct 19, 2011 11:56 AM GMT
    I became gay upon exiting my mother's vagina! I looked back and said, "I never want to be inside one of those again!!!"icon_lol.gif

















    But I did...................when I was 21icon_redface.gifand that was definitely the last timeicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 19, 2011 11:58 AM GMT
    howser_hunter saidi knew since kindergarten lol..but i denied it for a lonnnggggg time!



    ^

    This! (Well, maybe 1st grade...)
  • craigcmead

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    Oct 19, 2011 12:03 PM GMT
    I am a country boy. In a way sort of a redneck. I know I was born this way but have hidden it all along. My earliest sexual memories were of the boy next door. We were 7 or 8 at the time but used to show each other our cocks, then touch each other. at one point we put our lips on each other. I loved it. Then it stopped suddenly and he didnt really want to hang out anymore. As I grew up, I found girls cute and whatnot. I fucked a lot of girls because it was fun, but in the school locker room after gym, sneaking glanced at the other guys was always more exciting than anything. I had 2 gay friends in our town but kind of didnt want to hang out with them too much because they were so effeminate and I didnt want to be associated with that. Being labeled a fag was just a licence to get your ass beat daily by everyone. I had a few experiences with my 2 gay friends but what had been taught to me and drilled into my head was that what I was doing was incredibly wrong. I have been married twice and loved both of them, but it couldnt work out because I knew who I was and what I was about the whole time. I have a few close friends who know, but all of my redneck friends have no clue. My town has change since then, but not many are open about it. There are a lot of "Room mates" in town now. I know now that any relationship with a female is doomed for failure. I have found in the past couple of years that I wouldnt want a relationship with a woman, I am only attracted to men now and looking for a "room mate"
    Yes I was born yo it but tried to suppress it.
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:44 PM GMT
    i definitely can remember as a small child, that I always had the "instinct" of being attracted to boys. I didn't know why or how? But it is what it is.
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:52 PM GMT
    The answer is "both".

    If you change the question to, "Were you born as you, or did you become who you now are through life experience?" the obvious answer is, and must be, "Both"
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:54 PM GMT
    upsguy68 saidI became gay upon exiting my mother's vagina! I looked back and said, "I never want to be inside one of those again!!!"icon_lol.gif

















    But I did...................when I was 21icon_redface.gifand that was definitely the last timeicon_rolleyes.gif


    FTW! hahahahhahah cracked me up
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:57 PM GMT
    Pretty sure I was born this why. And god knows I have fought it (read my profile). Even though I have always been masculine, my best friends from kindergarden on where always girls. I was always on the quiet, sensitve side. As I hit my teen years I remember we found a penthouse magazine. As we paged through it I remember being more drawn to the half clothed male models in some of the pic, then the fully naked women. So definately there from birth.
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:59 PM GMT
    It does not matter. And besides, no-one really knows. IMHO.
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:18 PM GMT
    I was recruited at age 21 because all the gays thought I was hot.

    I don't mind this new lifestyle though.


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    Oct 19, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    i have a distinct memory, as a toddler, of seeing an animated skit on Sesame Street showing a bodybuilder growing bigger and bigger (demonstrating and teaching the concept of size) and I can remember getting a funny feeling about it (which i would now call attraction). So not only was I born gay, but I was born attracted to muscular guys too, hahah.
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    I became gay and a minister via the same matchbook cover...icon_idea.gif
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    Oct 19, 2011 5:01 PM GMT
    baby, you are born this way....
  • Latenight30

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    Oct 19, 2011 5:11 PM GMT
    I think for us to fight the fights we have in this day and age it's a stupid question.
    If the science says we are gay, we were born this way.
    I know I was!
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    Oct 19, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    Born that way definitely. I have no attraction to girls at all and I never did. When a "hot" girl walks by I usually don't even notice her. My friends would always be like "did you see how hot that fuckin girl was" and I'm always like "who are you talking about?" I'm definitely a 6 on the Kinsey Scale.
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    Oct 19, 2011 5:40 PM GMT
    I wasn't born gay.... it was a gift from one of my fairy god mothers icon_wink.gif

    maybe it was all that waving of wands that did it....
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    Oct 19, 2011 5:43 PM GMT
    Haha... I must've been overwhelmed by all the girls trying to get at me, so I switched over, haha. Nahh. As far as I can remember, I've always been attracted to boys icon_razz.gif Although I didn't actually know what it meant to be gay until much later, haha
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    Oct 19, 2011 5:44 PM GMT
    When I saw the first episode of 'Queer as Folk' aired on Showcase, it wasn't so much that I became gay, more that I realized that I was gay.

    Although I had considered myself 'bi' much through high-school, probably a defense mechanism in an all guys school, but when university came, that QUICKLY faded.
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    Oct 19, 2011 5:52 PM GMT
    I blame P90X...