Im so excited and confused, it feels so good

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    Oct 19, 2011 7:28 AM GMT
    ok first of all, ive never had a boyfriend, hell never had a girlfriend, never had any guys even somewhat look at me and show interest in me.... But, today when i got on the bus there was this navy guy who was sitting in the back and after i paid my money, i shit you not, we made eye contact, it was like love at first sight, like all the way as i got to the back of the bus( not because im black, its just better sitting in the back... party!!!) anyway when we looked at each other he like raised his eyebrows at me like, he was saying watsup or something idk. So after i sit across from him, i looked at him again to see if he really was vibing me, and once again we looked straight into each others eyes, and it wasnt like a second it was a good, "i know your looking at me and i like it" seconds it was like 10 seconds lol, so i broke the ice and started talking to him, we some how got onto the topic of music, and we both produce, so we exchanged numbers like right before i had to get off the bus, the two things im kinda worried about are, 1. when should i call him, 2. i dont know if hes gay, he could be a really friendly straight (i hope not) but i need some advice from some people who knows, i have no other friends to even talk about this with so any input would be great icon_smile.gif))
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:51 PM GMT
    You connected with him over producing music, so why not call him about that? Dig up a project you think is cool... Something that really fits your taste. Call him up and see of he wants to come check it out. At the very least, you an end up making a buddy who might be good for you creatively. On a totally different level, this gets him in the door so you can get to know him better, and see where it goes. You should be just as interested in connecting as friends, as you are to explore sexually. That always how it works out the best, in my opinion. ;)

    As far as time goes... I think it's best to do it either right away, or after a couple days, for the call. When calling, I wouldn't make plans any further out than a week. If it gets pushed past that... Just leave it at "you've got my number. Call me when you feel up to it."

    G'luck!
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Just call him, if it works out great, if not you're probably never going to see him again.

    Can't lose, but you could win. Worth the try