* 'Sex' slave ethics *

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    Oct 19, 2011 11:45 AM GMT
    A 25 year old guy on another site has requested to be my 'slave boy' and scrub my whole apartment sparkling clean, 'hero-worship', massage me if I want, presumably take humiliating orders from me etc

    Now, I am not attracted to him in the slightest and won't be doing anything physically sexual with him, regardless.

    However, I could use a free cleaner, I mean, if he gets off on it, I don't really care, as long as my flat looks like a show home at the end of his shift ....

    I haven't replied. Yet. Pondering.

    What are your thoughts?


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    Oct 19, 2011 11:57 AM GMT
    I think he is expecting sex or else why would he ask to do that. I doubt he just wants to clean someone's house and gets off just on that. although some people get off on weird things.


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    Oct 19, 2011 12:00 PM GMT
    Hmm...But he shouldn't be expecting it I tell his ass from the get-go that physical sex is not a possibility, no compromises.

    I think he might get off on that type of withholding tbh.
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:04 PM GMT
    I mean, I may order him to wank himself off as a reward for his hard work, but to do it with a condom on so there is no after spill on my lovely, soon to be sparking, hardwood flooring.
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    "He must obey you"

    Be clear as to what you expect, how often and how much. No questions..
    he will complete what you tell him to do... or else...

    Show him your flogger, if you have nothing like that.. a lunging whip or belt wil do.

    Explain to him how he will address you.. as "sir" or as "Mister____"

    Of course, you need to decide what you are going to do if he fails to meet your expectations. Are you up to verbal or physical discipline? He might test you. Be prepared.

    And he has expectatons. He might expect you to screw him. Ready for that? If not, make it clear all rules.


    "He must obey you".

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    Oct 19, 2011 12:06 PM GMT
    Sounds like win-win to me. He gets off on being subservient, you get your place cleaned for free. Though I wouldn't leave him alone...
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:10 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan said"He must obey you"

    ... [sapient tips]

    "He must obey you".

    icon_eek.gif LOL



    Grazie. Duly noted.


    P.S. Yh, I have no problem with either verbal or physical reprimands if he steps out of line.

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    Oct 19, 2011 12:13 PM GMT
    Pure saidSounds like win-win to me. He gets off on being subservient, you get your place cleaned for free. Though I wouldn't leave him alone...



    Ahhhh, yes. I see.

    I could just play on my laptop and declare orders every now and then (I may or may not be shirtless, and him still in my eye-sight, just in case he is a thieving bastard)- he would have to earn my undivided attention.icon_cool.gif


    The more I think this over, the more I like it. =D

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    Oct 19, 2011 12:51 PM GMT
    Minus

    He now knows where you live

    Plus

    Clean flat

    what´s he like? Would he do my flat too?

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    Oct 19, 2011 12:58 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidMinus

    He now knows where you live

    Plus

    Clean flat

    what´s he like? Would he do my flat too?



    I'll "clean your flat" Lostboy.

    If you know what I mean, and I think you do... icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 19, 2011 12:59 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidMinus

    He now knows where you live


    Plus

    Clean flat

    what´s he like? Would he do my flat too?



    He's like this:

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    ''slave boy here
    I can clean your place toilet bathroom kitchen
    gardening
    massage your body
    TRY ME
    IM GOOD SLAVE BOY
    will do all your work [phone number]
    ''

    Actually has a pretty cute face tbh, not that it matters.

    Go get your own slave-boy losty! ;P

    lol jk. Perhaps he would (shrug)

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    Oct 19, 2011 1:00 PM GMT
    Oh I got a way better offer from Larky....

    Are those ur feet Sagey?

    Bleached?
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:02 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidOh I got a way better offer from Larky....

    Are those ur feet Sagey?

    Bleached?



    I clearly have a raging case of vitiligo, how very insensitive of you Losty, I expected compassion ='[

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    Oct 19, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    And here I thought this might be a thread about global sex trafficking....
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:23 PM GMT
    bostonxfit saidAnd here I thought this might be a thread about global sex trafficking....


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    Boring threads to the back.
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    Make sure you have a padle to smack him in line, or if something is not cleaned well, order him to clean again.
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    Oct 19, 2011 1:40 PM GMT
    I wouldn't want the guy to know where I live... He could end up a little possessive, as slaves have a disposition to. That could get creepy, fast. But if you don't care then hell.. Classy bitches never fuck on the first date. Let him shine every square inch and then just watch him get himself off. If he bitches it's as easy as spanking the fire out of him and saying maybe if he's good he'll get further next time.

    If he's nice you could polish one off, with him though. No need to be heartless.
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ said
    KentuckyTuss saidI wouldn't want the guy to know where I live... He could end up a little possessive, as slaves have a disposition to. That could get creepy, fast. But if you don't care then hell.. Classy bitches never fuck on the first date. Let him shine every square inch and then just watch him get himself off. If he bitches it's as easy as spanking the fire out of him and saying maybe if he's good he'll get further next time.

    If he's nice you could polish one off, with him though. No need to be heartless.


    Yh i'm not worried about possessive nature re knowing my address. What can he do? Sit outside my window? I have blinds. Would likely call him on private number though, if i decide to go ahead with it, as I don't want to be hassled with constant texts/calls.

    Wouldn't be completely heartless if he is a good 'slave-boy', I may flex my pecs etc lol, but that won't be an easy reward, at, all. I might need my walls painting. icon_cool.gif

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    Oct 19, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    This is weird.

    Politely decline and clean it yourself!

    I say that because i picture sex slave "owners" as total creepers
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    running11 saidThis is weird.

    Politely decline and clean it yourself!

    I say that because i picture sex slave "owners" as total creepers


    lol, I know what you mean.

    Still, I wouldn't really 'own' anybody; if a relatively short cleaning role-play is what he really wants, surely it's a win-win. I hate cleaning.


    Sidenote: could this potentially be exploitation of a mental illness? lol...OR just indulging a, mutually beneficial, fantasy?
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    If you're truly considering this, just make sure you meet this person in a well-lit public place first, a couple of days before you actually invite them into your home. This provides you an opportunity to gauge his sanity, spell out the terms of the arrangement clearly, in writing if necessary, and to decide more fully/safely if this is something you'd want to pursue.

    It would be unsafe to have him show up at your home and upon opening the door you decide that "no way in hell are you coming in!" And he proceeds to go all Jeffrey Dahmer on you.
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:56 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ said

    Sidenote: could this potentially be exploitation of a mental illness? lol...OR just indulging a, mutually beneficial, fantasy?


    This is another reason to meet in advance in a public place before any home invitation.
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    Oct 19, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
    ^ True stories.*nods head*
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    Please don't let some one like that in your house...
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    Oct 19, 2011 3:37 PM GMT
    It could be that his intended role is Spartacus, once slave, turned revolutionary. If you do not know what you are asking for, there is a chance he will be cleaning your floor with your arse and appropriately deserved, once slave owner, turned blood smear.