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  • Nayro

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    May 24, 2008 7:57 PM GMT

    I am 18 and ofcourse very curious.
    I was on msn with this guy also from Holland and he seemed ok to me. He wanted me to turn the webcam on so I did that. And he did it too. He was naked and his bf was there too. So well you know, I didnt mind. All of the sudden i see him sniffing drugs... And well he wanted me to do some wierd things in front of the cam, i think was wierd anyway, but that may also be because I am 18 and still virgin.. I dunno. Anyway I shut off msn and I went here to write it down icon_razz.gif. Maybe I am overreacting but that was not really the image i had of him. He was kinda old, (46) Compared to me anyway, I dont mind older guys, i like them even cause they are more masculin and muscular most of the times. Anyway I am just really curious and I cant seem to find a good guy on the internet.. Is it just me or is it hard to be gay icon_razz.gif..
    Probably just me..

    I see a lot of cool and fun guys on this site but they often dont respond.. probably cause im not verified and i only have private pictures, I can do something about that ofcourse but I prefer not to have my face on the internet in public. I can still verify my account though, maybe that helps.. Well thanks in advance to your responses ;D

    Greetings Youngguy icon_smile.gif
  • MikePhilPerez

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    May 24, 2008 8:20 PM GMT
    I want to know, what were the weird things he wanted you to do icon_question.gificon_razz.gif

    No offence to anyone here, but you will not find a good guy caming on the net. Seriously, what did you expect icon_question.gif

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    May 24, 2008 9:58 PM GMT
    If you are uncomfortable with something then listen to your instincts and do not participate in it until you do a bit more investigating about what it is all about. One day your instincts could save your life, they are there for a reason. Play safe, you are only 18 and have a lot of life to live.
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    May 26, 2008 7:00 PM GMT
    Stay away from creepy guys period!
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    May 26, 2008 7:06 PM GMT
    You did the right thing to disconnect. You get to call the shoots from your end. If you're not comfortable, shut it down.
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    Jun 08, 2008 6:00 PM GMT
    I've had a very similar thing happen to me. I did the same thing you did, good choice! oh and I find that about this site too, most guys never reply!icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 09, 2008 12:21 PM GMT

    And behappy77, those who don't respond are those who aren't worth sending to in the first place.
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    Jun 09, 2008 8:39 PM GMT
    haha i offer my usual advice; ditch the creeper, get yourself a nice teddybear icon_biggrin.gif

    but anyway; sniffing drugs, huh? Are you sure they wernt poppers? they are quite common in the older gay community; they look like a little bottle with a nipple (think baby bottle) on top. If so, they are legal in most countries, and dont necessarily imply foul-play. Also, you shouldnt lump drugs together with seedy behavior; drugs do not imply the person is bad or anything, especially drugs that shouldnt be considered drugs and that shouldnt be illegal *cough* marijuana *cough*

    What did he ask you to do on the cam? Haha you should have told him to stick a plunger up his ass, then you would do it icon_lol.gif

    I tend to avoid webcamming in general; i find to to be awkward and boring.

    If your trying to actually meet a guy and not just fool around on a webcam, i would suggest messaging them on social networking websites, like here, myspace, connexion, facebook, etc. And you should probably get a few good pics of yourself to post =)

    And i resent the statement that older guys are more masculine! Us youngin's can be just as big, beefy, and masculine! Speaking of which, how do you feel about body hair icon_twisted.gif
  • GQjock

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    Jun 09, 2008 9:49 PM GMT
    You know what?
    If you think that something's creepy ... do me a favor and stay away

    You're 18
    you don't need to be trashed and jaded by the whole thing by the time you're 19

    Men are fun...sexy...and exciting
    Keep it simple
    Meet guys your own age... face to face
    If you like older guys...keep it relative to the 20's
    Go by what you feel in your gut...there's a lot to be tempted by... but you should take baby gay steps before jumping all the way into the deep end icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 09, 2008 10:29 PM GMT
    You're the one in control of your comp. You don't like what you see, click it off.
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    Jun 10, 2008 2:14 AM GMT
    Something really creepy happened to me on RealJock... A guy started to ask me for my pictures and I said "no, you first" ...the guy was so fucking retarted that he started to send me pictures of other profiles from Realjock...icon_rolleyes.gif.. he told me he's 18... I bet he's actually 55. icon_evil.gif