MrAsh77 saidI have a belief that monogamy works and is healthy if it naturally happens within a relationship. If monogamy is forced (I find it usually is to the point of neurosis) it's the fracture point of the relationship.
I'm interested to know other guys perspective on this.
7Famark saidTouchy subject. . . .I just go with: it works for some people, and not for others, and it's totally cool either way as long as you are honest with your partner.^ this.
7Famark saidTouchy subject. . . .I just go with: it works for some people, and not for others, and it's totally cool either way as long as you are honest with your partner.
no cookie for me. Kalifornication said7Famark saidTouchy subject. . . .I just go with: it works for some people, and not for others, and it's totally cool either way as long as you are honest with your partner.
We have a winner!!! Every relationship is different.
Cash saidKalifornication said7Famark saidTouchy subject. . . .I just go with: it works for some people, and not for others, and it's totally cool either way as long as you are honest with your partner.
We have a winner!!! Every relationship is different.
Wait a minute...I thought that there was ONE gay guy that we were all supposed to be exactly like.
You mean to tell me there ISN'T a Lead Gay?!?!?!?!!??!
How the HELL am I supposed to function?!?!?!?
Now I have no way of knowing how tight to wear my t-shirts!!!!!!!!
Animus saidIf both guys actually want to be monogamous, then there's usually no problem because they're honest with their feelings. But where your "forced" scenario comes in is when only one guy wants monogamy and the other guy agrees because he wants to appease the other guy, without actually desiring exclusiveness himself. Monogamy can/does work with the former and, usually, fails with the latter because it's not what both people actually want.
Disclaimer: This is my own totally biased opinion based upon nothing but my own observation.
MrAsh77 saidAnimus saidIf both guys actually want to be monogamous, then there's usually no problem because they're honest with their feelings. But where your "forced" scenario comes in is when only one guy wants monogamy and the other guy agrees because he wants to appease the other guy, without actually desiring exclusiveness himself. Monogamy can/does work with the former and, usually, fails with the latter because it's not what both people actually want.
Disclaimer: This is my own totally biased opinion based upon nothing but my own observation.
That's exactly my observation as well!
Animus saidIf both guys actually want to be monogamous, then there's usually no problem because they're honest with their feelings. But where your "forced" scenario comes in is when only one guy wants monogamy and the other guy agrees because he wants to appease the other guy, without actually desiring exclusiveness himself. Monogamy can/does work with the former and, usually, fails with the latter because it's not what both people actually want.
Disclaimer: This is my own totally biased opinion based upon nothing but my own observation.
suedeheadscot saidBy "forced" you mean where one guy has all the say in what goes on? As you mention to the point of neurosis? That doesn't sound to me like a relationship, it sounds like abuse!! Or have I got this wrong?
7Famark saidOooh, I win? Do I get a cookie?!
. . . .oh, wait, carbs. . . .
RedheadedRy said7Famark saidOooh, I win? Do I get a cookie?!
. . . .oh, wait, carbs. . . .
You get a tongue in your ear.
Lostboy saidRedheadedRy said7Famark saidOooh, I win? Do I get a cookie?!
. . . .oh, wait, carbs. . . .
You get a tongue in your ear.
I just looked at his private pics. His ear is not where i would be putting my tongue.
just saying
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