went to my first gay bar last night...finally!

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  Oct 22, 2011 2:22 PM GMT

  well guys, went to my first gay bar last night...ended up having a great time! I think I was expecting the extreme stereotype to be there...but most of the guys there were just normal, down-to-earth cool people.
  
  thanks so much to everyone on RJ! You've not only encouraged me to come out, but to try new things and own who I am and what I represent.
  
  Brad

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  Oct 22, 2011 2:59 PM GMT

  Congratulations. Good for you!

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  Oct 22, 2011 3:03 PM GMT

  So great for you! Congrats.
  
  I also went to my first gay event in town here last night. Was a fun experience!

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  Oct 22, 2011 3:21 PM GMT

  There are some fun places in Raleigh! Everyone was nice when I was there
  
  If you want to find the stereotype.. come to NYC lol.
  

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  Oct 22, 2011 3:33 PM GMT

  omg I am so jealous! Can't wait to get a life and try too haha. But I don't think I'll have anyone to go with though. Or it'd be awkward if I found someone I knew there. What's it like?

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  Oct 22, 2011 6:00 PM GMT

  Congrats

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  Oct 22, 2011 6:03 PM GMT

  Was it any particular type of bar?
  
  I don't go to bars, but I go crazy not having a good place to meet other gay guys, besides online of course.

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  Oct 22, 2011 6:06 PM GMT

  ahhh so THIS is why you want new clothes... so you can look all snazzy for the next time you venture to the bahs.

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  Oct 22, 2011 6:36 PM GMT

  Woot! We'll have to gay bar hop!

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  Oct 22, 2011 6:42 PM GMT

  OP how many people hit on you that night? just wondering

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  Oct 22, 2011 6:48 PM GMT

  Congrats on getting out and having some fun. Nice that you don't have to come home smelling like an ashtray in these times. When my friends and I were just starting to go out to gay bars in the early 80's, we had a blast, and wore hot body shirts and tight 'ass hugger' pants that showed everything we had - even which way we pointed (or 'dressed' as the old saying goes). Our hair was blow dried to perfection, we had summer tans, we were pumped up from lifting weights and our abs were perfect from countless crunches. We thought we were so hot (actually at 21 years old - we were in our prime). Glad you had fun.
  
  

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  Oct 22, 2011 10:26 PM GMT

  Jeandeau saidahhh so THIS is why you want new clothes... so you can look all snazzy for the next time you venture to the bahs.

  
  
  haha...bingo! way to spot the correlation

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  Oct 23, 2011 4:17 AM GMT

  I've yet to go; heck, I've never even been to a bar.

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  Oct 23, 2011 4:18 AM GMT

  go_vols saidwell guys, went to my first gay bar last night...ended up having a great time! I think I was expecting the extreme stereotype to be there...but most of the guys there were just normal, down-to-earth cool people.
  
  thanks so much to everyone on RJ! You've not only encouraged me to come out, but to try new things and own who I am and what I represent.
  
  Brad

  
  
  glad to hear you had a great time!!

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