Hey tops, what makes a good bottom?

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    Oct 23, 2011 6:54 AM GMT
    .....surely there must be more to it than passively getting pounded?.....
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    Oct 23, 2011 7:11 AM GMT
    From a bottom... I'd say it's just about rhythm, and, just as any other part of sex - empathy (vicarious experiencing of the feelings of another).

    In my opinion good sex is 100% about empathy. Getting into that place where you are simply feeling through the other person. The rest comes naturally.
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    Oct 24, 2011 12:44 AM GMT
    heres a method i learned recently. You can control the tightness of your anus... when you begin to feel comfortable with his dick in your ass, you can tighten and release to vary the feelings the top gets ;) "milk" it, if you will
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    Oct 24, 2011 8:17 PM GMT
    right...notepad and pencil...need to write this down....
    anything else??? ;)
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    Oct 25, 2011 10:44 PM GMT
    Superb muscle control. I met a big muscle bottom a couple of years ago whose ass made my dick feel like it was getting a shiatsu massage every time I hit it. Awesome!
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    Oct 28, 2011 12:14 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidSuperb muscle control. I met a big muscle bottom a couple of years ago whose ass made my dick feel like it was getting a shiatsu massage every time I hit it. Awesome!


    One of the best feelings I can think of or imagine is pleasing my top partner. I would think a combination of squeezing and releasing as implied above and reverse humping movements, i.e., the bottom man moving his butt up and down as well, maybe timing it with his top's thrusting actions. Having strong abs might help. If you want to test this theory out on me, please let me know icon_smile.gif