You find out that your boyfriend has been cuddling with another man

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    Oct 24, 2011 7:19 AM GMT
    Nothing genital, no making out/funny business, no heavy petting, no bumping, no grinding

    Just hours of spooning and cuddling while watching movies

    Do you go

    a.) meh

    or

    b.) ka-boom!

    ???
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:22 AM GMT
    I ask what the fuck the emotional connection with the other guy is and why he feels he can't do that with me.
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:44 AM GMT
    In case the other man was a friend of his a.) in case it was just a random guy, a really really soft version of b.)
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    Oct 24, 2011 11:33 AM GMT
    C. Ask if the other man is hot, and if yes, if he minds sharing.
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    Oct 24, 2011 11:37 AM GMT
    LMAO!!!

    Im sorry Skhokho.. I never even read your post, I just saw the title and laughed my ass off lol

    Everybody I know cuddles icon_smile.gif Girls especially with girls.. and gays are girls lol
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    Oct 24, 2011 12:46 PM GMT
    b.) ka-boom!
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    Oct 24, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    a) meh

    From that point i don't think he would worth any thing that i get mad on him :/
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 24, 2011 12:48 PM GMT
    He would be "ka-poot".....
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    Oct 24, 2011 12:57 PM GMT
    b)

    Cuddling is pretty intimate to me if you're my boyfriend. If he cuddles with his female friend, then whatever... but do it with another man and we're going to have words.
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    Oct 24, 2011 12:59 PM GMT
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:01 PM GMT
    I would thank G-d he is not cuddling with me as I hate cuddling.
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:08 PM GMT
    wow that really depends on how secure you are.

    If you don't feel this is a threat to your relationship then a. .....

    if you feel this is bringing you down and therefore hurting your relationship then what the hell is his problem. That is such a disrespectful thing to do.
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:11 PM GMT
    Ka-boom

    If it went on for hours, there is an obvious emotional disconnect from you on his part. Meaning he is able to put you out of his mind for a lengthy amount of time while finding gradification in another. Would feel like betrayal to me.
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:21 PM GMT
    "next!"

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    Oct 24, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    TriAthInCA saidKa-boom

    If it went on for hours, there is an obvious emotional disconnect from you on his part. Meaning he is able to put you out of his mind for a lengthy amount of time while finding gradification in another. Would feel like betrayal to me.


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    Oct 24, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    Cuddling isn't Something I do, without some emotional investment. I would be upset.. But reasonably so. Your guy might not think its a big deal. As MY boyfriend always says... "Spooning, leads to forking!"
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    "KICK ROCKS"! There is no way I would beleive it's just cuddling REALLY!

    How do you know that's all they were doing were you there?
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
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    It's bullshit, I don't care what he says.
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    Oct 24, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    I caught an ex-lover and his s-called friend wrestling in the living room...I had just returned from the market shopping for dinner and there they were in the middle of the floor hands all over each-other! I slammed the door and cussed them both out!

    I told me ex if you want to wrestle, that's what I'm for. This here, what you two were doing can not happen again or trust me there will be hell to pay!

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    Skhokho,

    If they are spooning there is bump and a grind...hence spooning.

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  • spongebob

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    Oct 24, 2011 1:59 PM GMT
    definitely ka-boom. cheating isn't always sex orientated....and no matter how 'innocent' he views it...it's very disrespectful towards you.
    this other dude needs a smack as well btw. icon_surprised.gif
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    Yeah, cuddling is very intimate, and since he did it for hours and hours, something's quite fishy, unless they are just super close buddies.


    Let this serve as a premonition to people in such situations.
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • ashtare

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    Oct 24, 2011 2:08 PM GMT
    Neither...you both really need to talk....deeply and very honestly.
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    Ka-boom.
  • bostonboy516

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    Oct 24, 2011 2:29 PM GMT
    Yeah I would say it's suspicious. Don't blow up at him just in case in turns out to actually be nothing. But just ask him about it. Hope it works out! :-)