do i finish it??? all suggestions welcome.

  • spongebob

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    Oct 24, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, we're at the stage where things have turned into something serious....well so i thought anyway.icon_confused.gif
    I feel as if I love him a lot more than what he does me...I realise how pathetic this all sounds but I'm having a bit of a hard time with this, so many little things on a day-to-day basis are really making question the whole relationship.
    should I break things off with him;however painful this would be, or should I put it down to me over analysing things and chill the f**k out! lol.

    Anyone else in a similar situation?
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    Talk to him about it. Watch and listen to his responses very carefully. That's the only way you'll know. Be honest with yourself if you don't get the reactions you're looking for.
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    Living with someone is a series of compromises. You have to figure out if you BOTH love each other enugh to make the compromises worth it. Best of luck.
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
    Sit him down and say "we need to have a conversation about where this is going".

    Guys LOVE that.

    //end sarcasm.
  • LJay

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    Oct 24, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    This is something you have to work out yourself. You may express anxiety about it here, but no one here can know the situation. Talking things over may help, but my suspicion is that you will need to do some quiet thinking yourself before you start talking.
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:58 PM GMT
    Are you happy?
    That's always been my test for a relationship. If you are not then tell him and tell him why. If this discussion doesn't change things for you then move on. (You noticed I didn't suggest that your bf change - no one really changes after 20 - they are who they are.)
    Good luck.
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    mdstudioTalk to him about it. Watch and listen to his responses very carefully. That's the only way you'll know. Be honest with yourself if you don't get the reactions you're looking for.


    Extraordinary good advice.