I had my first legitimate gay sexual experience ever tonight!

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    Oct 24, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    So this guy hit me up on Grindr. He and his boyfriend were looking for cool guys to come out to their pad and just chill around the fireplace. I got myself ready and they both picked me up. They were both actually really super cool. We got to their place, talked for quite awhile. My double-zero virginity came up and they were astonished. I was also dubbed a gold card gay (his boyfriend is divorced and pays child support...) We watched Desperate Housewives, had coke and whiskey, and before we knew it, it was 3 AM. They wanted to get a little bit of sleep before they dropped me back home. They invited me to join them in bed. We were sharing that bed, all three of us, and as the hour ticked by, he started to get sexy... icon_eek.gif

    Nothing really serious, mostly just handjobs and fingering. I'm such a naughty boy! icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 24, 2011 2:29 PM GMT
    Scotticus saidSo this guy hit me up on Grindr. He and his boyfriend were looking for cool guys to come out to their pad and just chill around the fireplace. I got myself ready and they both picked me up. They were both actually really super cool. We got to their place, talked for quite awhile. My double-zero virginity came up and they were astonished. I was also dubbed a gold card gay (his boyfriend is divorced and pays child support...) We watched Desperate Housewives, had coke and whiskey, and before we knew it, it was 3 AM. They wanted to get a little bit of sleep before they dropped me back home. They invited me to join them in bed. We were sharing that bed, all three of us, and as the hour ticked by, he started to get sexy... icon_eek.gif

    Nothing really serious, mostly just handjobs and fingering. I'm such a naughty boy! icon_twisted.gif

    I'd rather hear about your ILLEGITIMATE gay sexual experiences. icon_wink.gif

    Seriously, I'm glad you seem happy about it. But not too sure about the wisdom of doing a Grindr hookup with guys you never met before. And with 2 of them together at their place, and even doing the driving, that might have placed you in greater danger if these guys wanted to start playing rough. Safe sex also includes the circumstances under which you meet guys, as well as taking precautions against HIV & STDs.

    Still, first times can be great, I know mine were, and I'm pleased it went well for you.
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    Oct 24, 2011 3:40 PM GMT
    I agree with the comment to be somewhat more independent when you decide to have these encounters.

    Your mobility and safety were essentially in their hands. If something went wrong, you could have been helpless (although I'm uncertain as to your whereabouts, i.e. urban or rural, wherein the former you could hail a cap/hop a bus, but in the latter the options aren't as prevalent).

    It's good that you had fun with them, and from what you state it sounds like they are respectable guys. Kind of refreshing, but still be smart and don't let your guard down.

    Also, and I'm sure you know this but it bears repeating, don't forget the importance of protection in such a random situation. No doubt the spur of moment hook-ups can be incredibly satisfying, but they also have the potential to effect the rest of your life in a not-so-positive way. So just be smart.

    Keep having fun and enjoy it!
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    Oct 24, 2011 9:17 PM GMT
    Nice to hear you had fun but like the others said, just remember to take some precautions so you stay safe. Best of luck dude. = )
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    Oct 24, 2011 9:20 PM GMT
    Gold card gay? OH GOD NTSA NTSA NTSA
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    Nov 01, 2011 8:35 PM GMT
    Scotticus said
    Nothing really serious, mostly just handjobs and fingering. I'm such a naughty boy! icon_twisted.gif


    Aw. Congratulations!
  • Suetonius

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    Nov 02, 2011 7:21 AM GMT
    Welcome to the club! Glad that you had a pleasant first time. May all your future encounters be equally pleasant!
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    Nov 02, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Scotticus saidSo this guy hit me up on Grindr. He and his boyfriend were looking for cool guys to come out to their pad and just chill around the fireplace. I got myself ready and they both picked me up. They were both actually really super cool. We got to their place, talked for quite awhile. My double-zero virginity came up and they were astonished. I was also dubbed a gold card gay (his boyfriend is divorced and pays child support...) We watched Desperate Housewives, had coke and whiskey, and before we knew it, it was 3 AM. They wanted to get a little bit of sleep before they dropped me back home. They invited me to join them in bed. We were sharing that bed, all three of us, and as the hour ticked by, he started to get sexy... icon_eek.gif

    Nothing really serious, mostly just handjobs and fingering. I'm such a naughty boy! icon_twisted.gif

    I'd rather hear about your ILLEGITIMATE gay sexual experiences. icon_wink.gif

    Seriously, I'm glad you seem happy about it. But not too sure about the wisdom of doing a Grindr hookup with guys you never met before. And with 2 of them together at their place, and even doing the driving, that might have placed you in greater danger if these guys wanted to start playing rough. Safe sex also includes the circumstances under which you meet guys, as well as taking precautions against HIV & STDs.

    Still, first times can be great, I know mine were, and I'm pleased it went well for you.


    I actually strongly disagree with safer sex including the circumstances regarding how you meet guys. 99% of the guys on Grindr & Manhunt are the same guys in the gay bar. If anything, I'd consider Grindr and online meeting safer because alcohol isn't added to the equation, so your ability to make decisions for yourself is better.
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    Nov 02, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
    [quote][ because alcohol isn't added to the equation, so your ability to make decisions for yourself is better. [/quote]

    OP sez they drank (snorted?) coke & drank whiskey. So the location and the way they met up makes no difference.

    Did they ask for a second act, though?