What are your RED FLAGS?

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    Oct 24, 2011 4:03 PM GMT


    What things scream to you to raise the red flag and get the hell away from a guy?
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:08 PM GMT
    Pictures are obviously over 5 years old and they look nothing like their profile anymore.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:15 PM GMT
    "I just got out of a 5, 10, 15, etc year long relationship yesterday. Want to go on a date?"

    Run for your life!!!!
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    7Famark saidToo many skanky club pictures on Facebook


    This.

    And.

    If he's over 30 and lives with his mother.
    Over 30 and has never visited another country.
    Republican.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    Not on Twitter.

    An aversion to carbs.

    Irrational fear of guns.

    Human.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:20 PM GMT
    Possessiveness, and jealousy toward my family and friends.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Tend to focus on themselves during any sort of a conversation, never ask about you or how you are.

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    Oct 24, 2011 4:24 PM GMT
    Hanging out, being on a date and CONSTANTLY on his phone texting or whatever the hell he is doing... RUDE!!!!
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    Trail_Runner saidHanging out, being on a date and CONSTANTLY on his phone texting or whatever the hell he is doing... RUDE!!!!


    Ugh yes. When I'm having a special date or meeting with any individual, I like to make a point of taking out my phone and turning it off.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:27 PM GMT
    Disrespectful to waiter/waitress on first date.

    Still lives with ex-boyfriend.

    Doesn't want to move to Australia cos he can't speak 'Australian'/Brazil cos he can't speak Brazilian.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:36 PM GMT
    earthsearch saidDisrespectful to waiter/waitress on first date.

    Still lives with ex-boyfriend.

    Doesn't want to move to Australia cos he can't speak 'Australian'/Brazil cos he can't speak Brazilian.


    that's awesome about the "language barrier" , lol.

    Mine:
    Too descriptive about EXACTLY the type of guy they want (a simple body type is ok, or personality type)

    more nude photos than G-rated

    Headless profile (i can understand making adult photos private but unless your life is in danger due to your orientation, you can suffer to give us a mugshot)

    still talks to asshole ex-bf (this goes for potential beaus AND hags)

    Unwilling to get dirty (like literally, mud or car engine grime)
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    Zero time management skills. Constantly flaking out.
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    Oct 24, 2011 4:55 PM GMT
    earthsearch saidDisrespectful to waiter/waitress on first date.


    Yea, that is a BIG one.

    Add: fave topic of conversation is how people have 'wronged' them over the years.

    After three dates, start discussing living arrangements...as in living together icon_neutral.gif
    (what are we? lesbians?)

    Total meltdown if phone call and/or text message is not returned 'promptly'....even if they know you are at work/school/gym/a funeral

    Total meltdown if in a mixed social situation with other friends and they are not the focus of attention.

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    Oct 24, 2011 5:05 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer said
    earthsearch saidDisrespectful to waiter/waitress on first date.

    Still lives with ex-boyfriend.

    Doesn't want to move to Australia cos he can't speak 'Australian'/Brazil cos he can't speak Brazilian.


    that's awesome about the "language barrier" , lol.

    Mine:
    Too descriptive about EXACTLY the type of guy they want (a simple body type is ok, or personality type)

    more nude photos than G-rated

    Headless profile (i can understand making adult photos private but unless your life is in danger due to your orientation, you can suffer to give us a mugshot)

    still talks to asshole ex-bf (this goes for potential beaus AND hags)

    Unwilling to get dirty (like literally, mud or car engine grime)


    The dirty one is big for me too. Not that I like getting dirty but if it is with a guy I like I do enjoy the mandatory scrub down that happens afterwords, hehe :-)
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    Oct 24, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    BiItalianBro said

    Total meltdown if phone call and/or text message is not returned 'promptly'....even if they know you are at work/school/gym/a funeral




    +100
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    Oct 24, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    Complainers
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    Oct 24, 2011 5:13 PM GMT
    BAMF saidNot on Twitter.

    An aversion to carbs.

    Irrational fear of guns.

    Human.


    Not on twitter? lol. crazy bitch.

    Lying.

    Otherwise I try and just let some things go. Trying = key word.
  • tautomer

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    Oct 24, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    These two are huge, and if I see one of them it's an instant no:

    - Meek personality.
    - Does not physically display emotion, does not emote feeling in their face.


    These aren't as signifigant but can ward me off if there is more than one.

    - Doesn't talk much and holds back thoughts/feelings often.
    - Too introverted.
    - Sarcastic.
    - Self-justifying gossip.
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    Oct 24, 2011 6:32 PM GMT
    Lives in Denver most of their life and NEVER has been in the mountains... WTF... lol.
  • cookingitswee...

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    Oct 24, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    1. Insecure (I hate it when I'm on a date and everytime I give the guy a compliment he throws it in my face)
    2. Rude, including to other people such as waiters or waitresses.
    3. Makes everything about him (and talks too much)
    4. talks about ex's too much (had a guy spend the whole date talking about how he LOVED his ex)
    5. wants to have sex on the first date (what kinda girl you think I am?!)
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    For our first date, my date on Saturday arrived stoned...

    Oh, my bad--I wrote "first date." I meant "only date."
  • Vaughn

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    Oct 24, 2011 7:04 PM GMT
    I'm very spiritual... blah blah blah.... I have OCD blah blah blah... Astrology blah blah blah... Oh yeah, and my Ex..................... icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:05 PM GMT
    Wears Ed Hardy.
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:09 PM GMT
    Continually stresses the importance of "straight-acting" and/or "discreet."

    Or worse, "discrete." Not only are you ashamed of being gay, you're a dumb ass.
  • Vaughn

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    Oct 24, 2011 7:13 PM GMT
    I once dating a guy who wouldn't stop talking about how he used to do heroin.