One more bad break-up and I'm done!

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    Oct 24, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    I have been in a relationship and thought it would last forever. For those of you who did not get the memo, forever ended last night! I am so tired of small minded whores who treat you like a piece of meat.
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    Oct 24, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry.

    Give yourself time. If it is meant to be, you will find your soul mate that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:10 PM GMT
    I'm really sorry for you.
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:12 PM GMT
    dating is a process and you have to date a lot of bad ones to find the good ones. It will pass and you'll realize why you weren't meant to be with him in time. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:13 PM GMT
    Lol, dating sucks and it is shitty. . .and it doesn't really get easier, but don't give up - everyone has their "person" you just have to weed through all the skank-slut-whorebags, losers, and idiots.
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    Oct 24, 2011 7:52 PM GMT
    running11 saiddating is a process and you have to date a lot of bad ones to find the good ones. It will pass and you'll realize why you weren't meant to be with him in time. icon_smile.gif


    Running says the truth.
    I'm sorry that happened to you though. Don't worry, time will pass and you will heal and meet another guy who will like you for you I'm sure. = ) Just don't give up because of one guy. Keep your chin up dude.
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    Oct 24, 2011 8:00 PM GMT
    bbaileysmall minded whores who treat you like a piece of meat


    I want to meet this type.

    Where do YOU find them?
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:35 AM GMT
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    7Famark saideveryone has their "person"

    Nope. Not buying it. Some of us don't.


    Excuse me, I'm sorry, I'm really such a lady... but that's BULLSHIT!icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    I'm very sorry for yhour bad experience. I've had a bunch too, but I like to think the right guy will make all the assholes worth it.
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:48 AM GMT
    bbailey saidI have been in a relationship and thought it would last forever. For those of you who did not get the memo, forever ended last night! I am so tired of small minded whores who treat you like a piece of meat.


    Rather than being on here I think you should be out there and surround yourself with good friends/family during this difficult time.

    Whatever doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Failed relationship included. You will emerge from this crisis as a better man more experienced than you ever were.

    And then the quest for the the right one continues.

    All the best!
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:50 AM GMT
    cookingitsweet said
    jpBITCHva said
    7Famark saideveryone has their "person"

    Nope. Not buying it. Some of us don't.


    Excuse me, I'm sorry, I'm really such a lady... but that's BULLSHIT!icon_twisted.gif


    Maybe the extremely jaded attitude is to blame for the lack of success?

    Just a thought. . .
    Pygmalion effect much
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    Oct 26, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    Sorry to hear about it, hope you feel better soon.

    You'll soon would want to date again, because the feeling of having someone is always better than being single and isolated.

    Best wishes to you
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:20 AM GMT
    jpBITCHva said
    7Famark saideveryone has their "person"

    Nope. Not buying it. Some of us don't.


    I don't believe there is a 'soulmate' person out there for you that you're meant to find and be with.
    Honestly everything is choice and you have free will. So if both people work at the relationship it will be successful. I think that the point of the ups and downs in a relationship is to commit to working at it together and you learn so much about yourself and each other that it's the 'sticking through' that helps the love grow.

    Now of course I get that there are people more 'compatible' for each other than others, but I don't think its impossible.

    I don't believe in love at first sight because it's impossible to know someone deeply at first sight, it really is just lust at first sight. Just checking out at first sight haha.

    Anyway sorry for the side track off topic. I really do wish you the best in life.
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:23 AM GMT
    BRoss said
    jpBITCHva said
    7Famark saideveryone has their "person"

    Nope. Not buying it. Some of us don't.


    I don't believe there is a 'soulmate' person out there for you that you're meant to find and be with.
    Honestly everything is choice and you have free will. So if both people work at the relationship it will be successful. I think that the point of the ups and downs in a relationship is to commit to working at it together and you learn so much about yourself and each other that it's the 'sticking through' that helps the love grow.

    Now of course I get that there are people more 'compatible' for each other than others, but I don't think its impossible.

    I don't believe in love at first sight because it's impossible to know someone deeply at first sight, it really is just lust at first sight. Just checking out at first sight haha.

    Anyway sorry for the side track off topic. I really do wish you the best in life.


    i never used the word soul mate, and finding the one that will "stick through it" and is just as invested in the relationship as you are, IS finding your person. . .don't twist my words. kthanks
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:25 AM GMT
    I'm sorry that you are going through this.

    'Tis better to have loved and lost
    Than never to have loved at all.


    You probably don't feel that way now, but once the sting wears off, you will. Give yourself time to heal, and then get back into the dating scene.
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:26 AM GMT
    I'm sorry things didn't work out.

    I thought about this a lot when my ex broke up with me, before I started dating I didn't know what I was missing so to speak. Its kind of a curse to keep repeating the same process with seemingly devastating results but even harder to get back to that point where you never want to date at all.
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:35 AM GMT
    7Famark said
    BRoss said
    jpBITCHva said
    7Famark saideveryone has their "person"

    Nope. Not buying it. Some of us don't.


    I don't believe there is a 'soulmate' person out there for you that you're meant to find and be with.
    Honestly everything is choice and you have free will. So if both people work at the relationship it will be successful. I think that the point of the ups and downs in a relationship is to commit to working at it together and you learn so much about yourself and each other that it's the 'sticking through' that helps the love grow.

    Now of course I get that there are people more 'compatible' for each other than others, but I don't think its impossible.

    I don't believe in love at first sight because it's impossible to know someone deeply at first sight, it really is just lust at first sight. Just checking out at first sight haha.

    Anyway sorry for the side track off topic. I really do wish you the best in life.


    i never used the word soul mate, and finding the one that will "stick through it" and is just as invested in the relationship as you are, IS finding your person. . .don't twist my words. kthanks


    Sorry, I guess I just assumed that "person" meant soul mate. I don't know why really because you didn't say soul mate; just an error on my part I guess. Never meant to twist your words if that's what I did, I think I just didn't understand what you meant. Then again I'm slow lol.

    All I meant to say was that it comes down to choice and if both parties decide that they are each other's "person" and work at it, then the relationship will work because of that and not some unknown force or entity that 'destined' you to be together.
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    Oct 26, 2011 7:47 AM GMT
    cookingitsweet saidI'm very sorry for yhour bad experience. I've had a bunch too, but I like to think the right guy will make all the assholes worth it.


    my asshole is getting tired of it though!
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    Oct 26, 2011 9:07 AM GMT
    well i for one am glad you're rid of him icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 26, 2011 9:10 AM GMT
    DudeInNOVA said
    'Tis better to have loved and lost
    Than never to have loved at all.


    actually, funny enough... i get told that everytime, but i still disagree...

    i am definitely a firm believer in the following:

    Sweetly+Surprised+to+Agree+that+It+Is+Be

    cept i usually substitute the word psycho with douchebag..meh