I notice this with Americans: Foreplay Quality Decline. Is this you?

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    May 26, 2008 4:11 PM GMT
    I speak as a submissive bottom who believes in the quality and above par performance level when it comes to lovemaking. I just noticed that among all the different nationalities I've been in bed with, it's mostly the Americans who have this tendency to gradually cut short the foreplay (and at times skip it by not kissing back with the same previous enthusiasm!). Repeated acts only make them want to just "get on down" with business immediately (whether it be a getting head or fucking per se. I just know myself: I cannot compromise the quality of what I can give and how; but also I think it is not fair if you don't deliver your part that was sort of established, implied and expected from you on the next encounter. This is why I lost interest in dating American men. Are you this guy? Is this even a deliberate, conscious inaction? Care to explain yourself?
    [Noteworthy: I never had this problem with the Brits and the Europeans. This reminds me of Samantha's line in the "Old Dogs, New Dicks" episode of Sex & The City: that "uncircumcised men try harder". You know that line would not have been written without any basis.]
  • ShawnTX

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    May 26, 2008 4:14 PM GMT
    Yeah, yeah, yeah...so you got some this weekend. Don't rub it in.
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    May 26, 2008 4:16 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidYeah, yeah, yeah...so you got some this weekend. Don't rub it in.

    Oh you didn't get the memo on facebook, did you? Did you read my poem on the 'Dubai Airport' thread? Bitch.
  • ShawnTX

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    May 26, 2008 4:55 PM GMT
    No I didn't...you bore me. icon_razz.gif
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    May 26, 2008 5:08 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidNo I didn't...you bore me. icon_razz.gif

    Just 'cos you have perky nipples you think you're all that! HMPicon_mad.gif
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    May 26, 2008 5:18 PM GMT
    Maybe you're just not hearing it from your american beaus, Zimmy...
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    besides...whoTF cares about your evaluation of american foreplay. If you dont like 'em, dont bed 'em. There problem solved ... icon_wink.gif
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    May 26, 2008 5:21 PM GMT
    That got me thinking... maybe the gorgeous guys are bad in bed 'cos they don't really have to be good in it? Again, spoken by Carrie B.
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    May 26, 2008 6:03 PM GMT
    zimster saidThat got me thinking... maybe the gorgeous guys are bad in bed 'cos they don't really have to be good in it? Again, spoken by Carrie B.


    That's always been my excuse! Bwahahahahahahaa ... icon_lol.gif
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    May 26, 2008 6:47 PM GMT
    I knew that was coming... icon_rolleyes.gif
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    May 26, 2008 6:56 PM GMT
    zimster saidI knew that was coming... icon_rolleyes.gif

    That's cuz you're so smart, Zimmy!

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    May 26, 2008 8:39 PM GMT
    Maybe these American guys just weren't into you?
  • Timbales

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    May 26, 2008 8:43 PM GMT
    I always yell 'fore!' before I play.
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    May 26, 2008 10:09 PM GMT
    zimsterThat got me thinking... maybe the gorgeous guys are bad in bed 'cos they don't really have to be good in it? Again, spoken by Carrie B.


    CaslonThat's always been my excuse! Bwahahahahahahaa ...




    so Cas, you're saying you're REALLY REALLY good in bed?


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    May 26, 2008 10:54 PM GMT
    jms84 said[quote][cite]zimster[/cite]That got me thinking... maybe the gorgeous guys are bad in bed 'cos they don't really have to be good in it? Again, spoken by Carrie B.

    [quote][cite]Caslon[/cite]That's always been my excuse! Bwahahahahahahaa ...

    so Cas, you're saying you're REALLY REALLY good in bed?


    Oh I get it. Yuk yuk yuk!

    You must be your family's....

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    May 27, 2008 1:43 PM GMT
    CaslonYou must be your family's....


    ... awesome and hilarious son.
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    May 27, 2008 4:52 PM GMT
    It may be just the particular guys you are with and perhaps you could mention it to them (if you repeat with the same) For what it's worth, I have always enjoyed the romantic kissing, cuddling, touching all over, the slow strip etc. before gettin' down to it. AND if the chemistry is right, culling afterwards is even better!
    I certainly hope what you are saying is NOT a trend.
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    May 27, 2008 7:27 PM GMT
    Oh my gosh, I hope not. Spoke to a couple of friends and they told me that I do spoil my lover(s) in bed and off it. This can be said with other little things like 'skipping' their turns to clean up the table, dishes, etc. So when it translates to sex...it's downhill from there.
    I love sex like I love my food and I don't expect less than the same performance level that I can impart!
    I do give my partners up to a third chance, but I never bring it to their attention. Maybe next time I'll speak out. Maybe.
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    May 27, 2008 9:23 PM GMT
    zigazigaaaaaa: You're just a greedy bottom. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

    I hope you don't cull your men afterwards!icon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    May 27, 2008 9:49 PM GMT
    No, it's them who don't cull me until they feel the need to get off again!