Very high libido. How do you settle it?

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    Oct 25, 2011 4:25 AM GMT
    Have a serious inquiry. Anyone here have a serious raging libido that affects general focus on day to day tasks. I find myself a good portion of the day thinking about doing anything with a hole. Now I can't exactly do that haha. Furthermore Masturbation doesn't seem to cut it nor does sex.


    My question is how do you tend to free up your mind so you can focus at work, hw, life?
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    Oct 25, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    maybe your not getting good enough sex.... icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 25, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    Psssh. I barely get any of that. I get bad limp dick when I have sex for hookups lol. Uually involves me apologizing and leaving.
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    Oct 25, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    I have the opposite problem. Even with the testosterone supplements I'm using for lifting I rarely get horny. Kinda jelly of your situation right now.
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    Oct 25, 2011 7:24 AM GMT
    I can help you with that. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 25, 2011 9:03 AM GMT
    You might have 'Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome' - I saw a documentary about it called '100 orgasms a day'..so far it's only been found in women...however, you may be the first male case....

    ...either that, or your just very fucking horny ;)
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    Oct 25, 2011 11:44 AM GMT
    Defenseon saidHave a serious inquiry. Anyone here have a serious raging libido that affects general focus on day to day tasks. I find myself a good portion of the day thinking about doing anything with a hole. Now I can't exactly do that haha. Furthermore Masturbation doesn't seem to cut it nor does sex.


    My question is how do you tend to free up your mind so you can focus at work, hw, life?


    Dunno what to tell ya.

    Come make out with me and we'll see what happens? lol.

    If its that distracting/ that much of a problem... maybe get your blood levels checked to see if everything is balanced?
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    Oct 25, 2011 11:53 AM GMT
    I actually think that your ED problem might be related... you might want to see someone about that.

    Have you ever had a consistently good sexual relationship, by that I mean good sex with a regular partner with whom you have some emotional bond, or at least a cool guy that you "like" a lot? That might solve your problem.

    Just a thought...
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    Oct 25, 2011 11:55 AM GMT
    ZbmwM5 said


    Come make out with me and we'll see what happens? lol.



    DAMN, I'll take you up on the offer Zbm!
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    Oct 25, 2011 12:34 PM GMT
    The most important sex organ that you have is between your ears, not between your legs. If you can master that, you'll be fine.

    Seems to me that you need to iron out the "peaks and valleys" in your libido. I believe there's a likely connection between your high libido when you're alone and your difficulty in getting/staying in the game when you're with someone. Clearly you don't have a physical problem; if you did then you wouldn't be able to get hard at all. It may be a sexual identity issue. SpeedoBuddy has some good questions, and the same ones that I would ask. You may be one of those guys who needs to completely wait until you find the right man and fall in love before you try and have sex. Or it could be just the opposite; you might need just a F*** buddy with whom you have complete acceptance and total horny-ness, and just no requirement or expectation to perform. If you could find someone who you can relate to, that you're very attracted to and just start out slowly until you've built your sexual confidence, you may find that you are secure enough in your ability that you can be totally "in the moment" and you can feel strong when sharing your energy with that person. I predict that if you do that, things will even out a bit.

    Relax...you know...it's just sex!


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    Oct 25, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    ugh i have the same problem but i dont think of holes tho and it seems to be increasing over time
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:12 PM GMT
    I'm pretty sure its called being between 16 and 30. Sex is often on my brain as well. It's not uncommon for me to have to hit the bathroom at work to blow a load. I guess tho for me jerking off usually fixes things for a few hours and I can concentrate.


    I am actually in the middle of an experiment to see how long I can go without masturbating. It's real tough, but I am on day 5 and every little thing makes me think about fucking. If I can make it 2 weeks than I figure I mastered my libido.


    Anyway goodluck buddy. I think a large portion of this comes from not having a steady fuck buddy or relationship. Hookup are fairly unsatisfying by nature. And maybe really exhausting yourself trying to please and being pleased by sum1 u care about will settle your libido down.
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:19 PM GMT
    speedobuddy saidI actually think that your ED problem might be related... you might want to see someone about that.

    Have you ever had a consistently good sexual relationship, by that I mean good sex with a regular partner with whom you have some emotional bond, or at least a cool guy that you "like" a lot? That might solve your problem.

    Just a thought...


    Yes I have actually. 2.5 year relationship with consistent good sex. However now I get aroused even more easily than before but I can't ever get into it. It sucks trying to be spontaneous and try something and then get to doing it and have it all go sour >.
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    Totally inappropriate levels of sexual activity.

    I mean like 3 or 4 times per day.

    Hope that helps.



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    Oct 25, 2011 1:27 PM GMT
    Defenseon saidPsssh. I barely get any of that. I get bad limp dick when I have sex for hookups lol. Uually involves me apologizing and leaving.


    Get a boyfriend with an equally matched libido.
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    I'm not a Sex Therapist, but I did sleep at a Holiday Inn once... Come to Orlando, Fl and I'll walk you through this! icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    It's not a bad thing, just find a fuck buddy who has the same sex drive as you and fuck to your heart's content.
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    I could unlock my private pics. That should kill your libido post haste.
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    Oct 25, 2011 1:58 PM GMT
    I know my age it's probably like big deal whatever your 22. But it seriously affects my ability to work sometimes. For instance I was in a meeting yesterday and all I could thing about was how he did his wife and I'm sure they have great sex.

    I would love to find a fuck buddy. But finding a fb who I can trust would be hard especially when you don't want any other type of commitment other than a good dicking...


    And on the lighter note, I've had terrible luck with penis size lately. Bahaha
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    Defenseon saidI know my age it's probably like big deal whatever your 22. But it seriously affects my ability to work sometimes. For instance I was in a meeting yesterday and all I could thing about was how he did his wife and I'm sure they have great sex.

    I would love to find a fuck buddy. But finding a fb who I can trust would be hard especially when you don't want any other type of commitment other than a good dicking...


    And on the lighter note, I've had terrible luck with penis size lately. Bahaha


    all this and your a size queen to boot?
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:09 PM GMT
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    Defenseon saidI know my age it's probably like big deal whatever your 22. But it seriously affects my ability to work sometimes. For instance I was in a meeting yesterday and all I could thing about was how he did his wife and I'm sure they have great sex.

    I would love to find a fuck buddy. But finding a fb who I can trust would be hard especially when you don't want any other type of commitment other than a good dicking...


    And on the lighter note, I've had terrible luck with penis size lately. Bahaha


    all this and your a size queen to boot?


    LMAO!

    Honestly, if it's really really affecting your life then there are resources out there for people who's sex drive is out of control. If it's relentless and always like this then maybe you do have a problem. I think a lot of guys have phases when they're really horny and it's on their mind 24/7 and every guy they pass in the street they give marks out of 10 and wonder what they would look like naked and what they'd be like to fuck...or maybe that's just me??

    Try putting that sexual energy into exercise to let off some steam!
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
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    Defenseon saidI know my age it's probably like big deal whatever your 22. But it seriously affects my ability to work sometimes. For instance I was in a meeting yesterday and all I could thing about was how he did his wife and I'm sure they have great sex.

    I would love to find a fuck buddy. But finding a fb who I can trust would be hard especially when you don't want any other type of commitment other than a good dicking...


    And on the lighter note, I've had terrible luck with penis size lately. Bahaha


    all this and your a size queen to boot?


    LMAO!

    Honestly, if it's really really affecting your life then there are resources out there for people who's sex drive is out of control. If it's relentless and always like this then maybe you do have a problem. I think a lot of guys have phases when they're really horny and it's on their mind 24/7 and every guy they pass in the street they give marks out of 10 and wonder what they would look like naked and what they'd be like to fuck...or maybe that's just me??

    Try putting that sexual energy into exercise to get off in the steam room!


    ftfy
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    5 inches ok I'm good. Anything bigger than 7.5. No way, a condom plus anything bigger hurts like a mofo.


    3 though, that's like sad face
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    Defenseon saidHave a serious inquiry. Anyone here have a serious raging libido that affects general focus on day to day tasks. I find myself a good portion of the day thinking about doing anything with a hole. Now I can't exactly do that haha. Furthermore Masturbation doesn't seem to cut it nor does sex.


    My question is how do you tend to free up your mind so you can focus at work, hw, life?
    ha ha ha ha dude, you are 22 years old. hell, i use to be the same way. it passes with time. its call hormones. when you get older it slows down. enjoy it.
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
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    Defenseon saidHave a serious inquiry. Anyone here have a serious raging libido that affects general focus on day to day tasks. I find myself a good portion of the day thinking about doing anything with a hole. Now I can't exactly do that haha. Furthermore Masturbation doesn't seem to cut it nor does sex.


    My question is how do you tend to free up your mind so you can focus at work, hw, life?
    ha ha ha ha dude, you are 22 years old. hell, i use to be the same way. it passes with time. its call hormones. when you get older it slows down. enjoy it.


    I wish I could enjoy it but unfortunately I have no time anymore between work, CPA exam, gym. AND living at home while I do all this.



    Also to the fb comment, I found one guy but I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm weird lol maybe cause I was to forward? Ha