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    Oct 25, 2011 11:17 AM GMT
    Why do I attract straight homophobic men in my circle of friends.. Is it something I am doing?icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 25, 2011 12:11 PM GMT
    why do u have ugly people in ur circle of friends? icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 25, 2011 12:18 PM GMT
    Actually they not all bad looking. I will refrase it.
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    Oct 25, 2011 12:22 PM GMT
    Import saidwhy do u have ugly people in ur circle of friends? icon_confused.gif


    But why do I attract homophobic people around me???
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    Oct 25, 2011 12:29 PM GMT
    Well aren't homophobic often closeted guy afraid of being gay? Perhaps there is some subcontious gaydar going on? Do they know you are gay? Or do you come across as being gay? I wonder if they are looking for a first contact? Just a thought.
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    Oct 25, 2011 12:57 PM GMT
    TriAthInCA saidWell aren't homophobic often closeted guy afraid of being gay? Perhaps there is some subcontious gaydar going on? Do they know you are gay? Or do you come across as being gay? I wonder if they are looking for a first contact? Just a thought.


    Nope, they dont know Im gay. I dont know if I come across as gay, but there is a rumour that I am gay and I dont know if they have heard it but I know who started it.
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:15 PM GMT
    "First contact" How funny. I don't usually feel like such an alien before I leave the house and go out into the world.

    But on that line of thinking, maybe the person is saying homophobic things for soundings as they try to figure you or others out. I believe it is technology related to gaydar. It is known as sonar.
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    BillyD_964 saidWhy do I attract straight homophobic men in my circle of friends.. Is it something I am doing?icon_confused.gif
    ha ha ha dude, i think you may be using the term friend very loosely. first of all, gays are out numbered by straight people about 15 to 1 so you are bound to have a few homophobic people around you. it is nothing you are doing.
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    Oct 25, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    i had a friend who everyone said was a homophobe and i was very open in this circle of friends, so he actually would ask me questions that he obviously couldn't ask anyone else. Honestly, we're pretty sure he was either bi or closeted since he could be more obsessive about clothes than me sometimes icon_smile.gif (although his "style" looked out of a 90s MTV rerun)
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    Oct 25, 2011 8:35 PM GMT
    theantijock said"First contact" How funny. I don't usually feel like such an alien before I leave the house and go out into the world.

    But on that line of thinking, maybe the person is saying homophobic things for soundings as they try to figure you or others out. I believe it is technology related to gaydar. It is known as sonar.


    hehehehe!
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    Oct 25, 2011 8:35 PM GMT
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    BillyD_964 saidWhy do I attract straight homophobic men in my circle of friends.. Is it something I am doing?icon_confused.gif
    ha ha ha dude, i think you may be using the term friend very loosely. first of all, gays are out numbered by straight people about 15 to 1 so you are bound to have a few homophobic people around you. it is nothing you are doing.

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    Oct 25, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer saidi had a friend who everyone said was a homophobe and i was very open in this circle of friends, so he actually would ask me questions that he obviously couldn't ask anyone else. Honestly, we're pretty sure he was either bi or closeted since he could be more obsessive about clothes than me sometimes icon_smile.gif (although his "style" looked out of a 90s MTV rerun)


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