Oct 25, 2011 9:48 PM GMT
I know this similar question has been asked in various forms, but usually in the hetero context on medical websites and from untrustworthy yahoo answers, so I am turning to RJers for answers.
My question is how long do you last (as a top) from penetration to ejaculation? And what do you to last longer?
When I have sex with my partner, I am so worked up during the foreplay, that by the time we are ready for anal, I usually only last 1 or 2 minutes of pumping before getting to the point of no return. While I can (and I have) try various things such as switching position, stop and go, to make the session last longer, but as soon as I start pumping again, it is matter of 10-20 seconds before I know I am about to cum so I stop and wait again. I think this feels unsatisfactory for my partner and it bothers me. So I am looking for advice to work up the duration for each pumping "set".
My question is how long do you last (as a top) from penetration to ejaculation? And what do you to last longer?
When I have sex with my partner, I am so worked up during the foreplay, that by the time we are ready for anal, I usually only last 1 or 2 minutes of pumping before getting to the point of no return. While I can (and I have) try various things such as switching position, stop and go, to make the session last longer, but as soon as I start pumping again, it is matter of 10-20 seconds before I know I am about to cum so I stop and wait again. I think this feels unsatisfactory for my partner and it bothers me. So I am looking for advice to work up the duration for each pumping "set".