3way relationship

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    Oct 26, 2011 4:40 PM GMT
    I'm looking to talk to some one who is in a 3 way relationship.
    My man and me have been together c
    For 9 years. We love each other very much and are in love.

    We've spoken about how a 3 way relationship would be. Just recently
    We've meet a guy and we both like him and he likes us. Were getting to
    Know each other and want him around. How do we go about starting
    And adding the guy to our relationship?

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    Oct 26, 2011 5:27 PM GMT
    Good luck with your trouple, dude.

    But it sure is odd that this post appears to be written in verse!
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:32 PM GMT
    hey, just be mature about it. Sometimes if you buy 3 fish of the same species, two of them will kill the other one.

    But humans aren't fish......but they're still animals though...

    Anyway, best of luck icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 26, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    honestly i do not think a threeway would work out,
    maybe for sexual activity but not when it comes to a relationship.
    someone is going to be loved more or less, jealousy issues, etc
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    Oct 26, 2011 6:05 PM GMT
    When i see people in 3ways, they tend to turn the 3rd like the bedsheets.
  • jackthejock

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    Oct 26, 2011 7:29 PM GMT

    Well I think it can work, my parents live across the street from 3 gay men who have lived together for years before they moved to that neighborhood. And in college I had a lab partner who was about 30 and he was part of a 3 way relationship with a 23-year-old and a 36-year-old. I think it helped that the older and younger guy both traveled for work a lot because at various times different combinations of them would get together. It's important that everybody get to know one another outside of the dynamic of all three being together.

    However, keep in mind that you and your partner have been together for 9 years, there is a lot of history and experiences that you have together that will never be a part of the third guy.

    Also, be sure you're honest about it. With my friends they seemed to all get along, but I was always a bit suspicious because the newer/younger guy was the age that my lab partner was when he and the older guy first got together. I suspected that the older boyfriend was into younger guys and now that my lab partner was out of his 20's I thought the boyfriend might be loosing interest. They were still together 2 years later, but we lost contact after graduation so I don't know if they lasted or not.
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    Oct 26, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    Oh my...we are not in Kansas aicon_eek.gifny more...icon_eek.gif
  • suedeheadscot

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    Oct 26, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    Just keep the communication open and going between the 2 of you! I know two people that it happened to and it was just fine for one of them, not so much for the other.
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    Oct 26, 2011 10:59 PM GMT
    I don't see why a three-way relationship wouldn't work if all the parties involved were in mutual agreement, were in it voluntarily and on their own accord, and their expectations and desires were generally being met. Different strokes for different folks.