Oh wow.

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    Oct 27, 2011 5:53 AM GMT
    In news that nobody cares about, I'm Facebook friends with a child star singer. We talk from time to time and she recently had a child.

    I just so happened to see her boyfriend on a gay site a couple of minutes ago on the featured random members portion. Of course it says "single" and on the "downlow".

    If there wasn't a kid involved, I would anonymously message her. icon_sad.gif

    Either way, I guess it's none of my business, but it blows my mind. It's like if I saw Brian McKnight or someone...but he's not the "hasbeen"
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    Oct 27, 2011 7:58 AM GMT
    She'd rather know now than after she contracts herpes...
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    Oct 27, 2011 8:39 AM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidShe'd rather know now than after she contracts herpes...


    agreed. Worse if she actually has another child with this idiot.
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    Oct 27, 2011 8:50 AM GMT
    How do you know it's really him? After all, lots of guys steal pics and pass them off as themselves.
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    Oct 27, 2011 11:03 AM GMT
    Pure saidHow do you know it's really him? After all, lots of guys steal pics and pass them off as themselves.


    I was thinking this too.
    In fact you could approach them both, innocently under this premise.
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    Oct 27, 2011 12:03 PM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidShe'd rather know now than after she contracts herpes...


    I would want to know...
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    Oct 27, 2011 12:26 PM GMT
    Can you leave him a message on the site? Tell him he better come clean with her in a week or you will. She really deserves to know.
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    Oct 27, 2011 12:31 PM GMT
    Pure saidHow do you know it's really him? After all, lots of guys steal pics and pass them off as themselves.

    Excellent point. Take no action until a valid identity is established. Then perhaps she should be informed if true.
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    Oct 27, 2011 12:36 PM GMT
    I always wanted to cut letters out of magazines and tape them on a paper to spell shit like they do in scary movies.....do it that way.

    I actually had a similar situation. I saw a guy on a site he was married but wanting bareback sex from big black dicks. I trolled a bit and got him to give me his e-mail saying I was gonna send him photos... well it was his personal e-mail so I knew it was him.

    I never did anything I was afraid he'd kill himself. I probably should've. FUCK.

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    Oct 28, 2011 10:22 PM GMT
    Before I even assumed, I checked on Facebook and he has the exact same tattoos,(which aren't common and look very painful) and location. He's not known enough for anybody to make a fake profile for him.

    My thing is, as a human being and also a fan, I should tell her.

    But there are other factors:
    -They've been together since 2008, just had a child and who am I to tear a child's parents apart?

    -Who am I to out him?(But then again, he has been on the site since the end of 2009, is listed as single, so he's not the most morally upright)

    In his defense, he hasn't been on in a little over 3 months, but also means he was on during the pregnancy

    Part of me thinks I should tell her, another part feels I'd be ruining the child's first Christmas, another part feels I should mind my business and another part is very hesitant, as she has very volatile emotions as I've seen from her venting from time to time(although vague as fans & the public are nosey) and I don't want to ruin anyone's life at all.

    I'm not really asking for advice, just thinking out loud, but if you see something I don't, please speak up.

    I would like to leave well enough and he would come out to her on his own, but that's unlikely...