Wysiwyg60 said[quote][cite]Friendsmaybe said[/cite]I just get bothered by oversexed guys. It seems like whenever you get a group of gay men together, eventually some subset of the men end up getting down. Do what you want to do, but sometimes I think it would be better idea to date someone who does porn. At least then you know what to expect. Any nice porn stars looking for a guy?
Who are you hanging out with? Are orgies back in vogue? I have never seen one, been in one, or known people who admitted participating in one. I guess I have led a sheltered life.[/quote]
I was in one a long time ago.
To Friends it depends on several things:
1 What type of group are you getting together.
2 Where is said get together taking place.
3 What type of people are you inviting.
I've been to get togethers where it was entirely innocent with no sexual overtones. Usually they have been at public places, coffee shop, restaurant etc.
I have also been to events where it seemed like it would be normal and turned into an orgy. IE b'day party at a close friends house. Well B'day bear started getting hot and heavy with someone and well next thing I knew everyone was getting naked and joining in. I had to leave at that point.
It is also a matter of the host keeping control. Once one couples starts getting intimate/sexual then others tend to follow and its up to the host to maintain control.