Trade Pics?

  • Profire

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    Oct 28, 2011 12:51 AM GMT
    Why does every guys in the dating sites (Grindr, Scruff, Jack'd, etc) always want to trade pics?

    I get the fact of wanting a face pic so they can see who they are chatting with, but they immediately go to "wanna trade pics?"
    Is there not enough cock shots on the net that they need more?

    I don't get it.
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    Oct 28, 2011 12:52 AM GMT
    I may have to see your cock pics to further understand the situation.


    But really, Internets make people feel invulnerable, risky, stupid. They get used to using it for porn and forget that not everyone is a possible live porno.

    Or they wanna hook up...

    Or add to their little creepy picture collection.

    In the case of Grindr, Scruff, etc - Well fuck.. It mostly is about sex and pictures, isn't it? Your profile can consist of like 20 words and a picture. Hard to strike up a great conversation based around that. Something so simplistic will bring in single-minded audiences.
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    Oct 28, 2011 3:20 AM GMT
    They're just collecting pics to create fake profiles on other sites. Whenever a guy pesters me for more pics, that's when I stop chatting with him. I can understand if your profile only has one or two poor quality pics. But if your profile has multiple recent and good quality pics, there's no reason to ask for more.
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    Oct 28, 2011 8:45 AM GMT
    xrichx saidThey're just collecting pics to create fake profiles on other sites. Whenever a guy pesters me for more pics, that's when I stop chatting with him. I can understand if your profile only has one or two poor quality pics. But if your profile has multiple recent and good quality pics, there's no reason to ask for more.


    SHH DON'T GIVE AWAY MY SECRET TECHNIQUE

    (I'm totes making a fake A4A now though... maybe in YOUR city)

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    Oct 28, 2011 8:51 AM GMT
    i had a guy do this to me just today. Literally in the very first message he sent me he complimented me on my appearance and then with his closing sentence said "Maybe we could trade pics some time?"
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    Oct 28, 2011 8:53 AM GMT
    If someone wants to see more of you, isn't that a good thing ?
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    Oct 28, 2011 8:55 AM GMT
    whateveryo saidIf someone wants to see more of you, isn't that a good thing ?


    not in the same paragraph as "Hi, nice to meet you"
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    Oct 28, 2011 9:00 AM GMT
    My rule was to be comfortable showing them anything that someone could see if I was on the beach. I always like to see body pics too, it just takes some of the stress of meeting someone away to know you like their body and where you stand.
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    Oct 28, 2011 9:02 AM GMT
    adam228 saidMy rule was to be comfortable showing them anything that someone could see if I was on the beach. I always like to see body pics too, it just takes some of the stress of meeting someone away to know you like their body and where you stand.


    I have a similar stance. But with the number of photos i have on my profile and the way he said it, he definitely meant "i wanna see your junk" and not "can i see more pictures of you working on your car?"
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    Oct 28, 2011 10:20 AM GMT
    jpBITCHva said
    RoadsterRacer saidI have a similar stance.

    A wide one?


    i can, though my fairly lithe build and my feet's familiarity with a cramped arrangement of three nonslip-coated pedals has me on the straight and narrow usually when it comes to stance
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    Oct 29, 2011 3:17 AM GMT
    Another group of guys that ask for more pics, are the ones that got burned by fake profiles in the past. They just want to get as many pics from you so they can do some CSI cross-reference-enhance-enhance-enhance shit, and verify that your pics aren't photoshopped. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 30, 2011 6:29 AM GMT
    Profire saidWhy does every guys in the dating sites (Grindr, Scruff, Jack'd, etc) always want to trade pics?

    I get the fact of wanting a face pic so they can see who they are chatting with, but they immediately go to "wanna trade pics?"
    Is there not enough cock shots on the net that they need more?

    I don't get it.


    Well, unfortunately for most, it's to decide if they want to talk/continue talking to you. It's pathetic but that's the sad truth.
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    Oct 30, 2011 6:21 PM GMT
    Once I direct inquiries to my bodybuilding.com bodyspace loaded with clear recent date stamped face and body shots I either never hear from them again or they demand I text them pics, presumably so they'd be easier to steal, so I tell them if someone wants to steal my pic they have to work. If they think I'm fake because I refuse to text a photo so be it - I don't know why the ability to text one makes anyone more verifiable when it could've easily been stolen. Why don't the pic thieves just raid bodybuilding.com, Facebook and RealJock directly?
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    Aug 13, 2013 3:20 PM GMT
    bump
  • madsexy

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    Aug 13, 2013 3:25 PM GMT
    It's shopping, plain and simple. Do they like what they see? Do they like the rest? Do they want to hook up? If you're just there for friendship and not for hooking up, tell them that and that if you get to the point of hooking up that's the time to "trade more pics".
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    Aug 13, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
    Particularly when most of them are 1,000-9,000 miles away. I ask them "What's the point if there's no chance of us conceivably meeting?" Of course now in addition to the pic thieves I'm constantly contacted by guys with hot photos asking that I click on their free cam shows. Boy what I'd give for a decent bar. I do much better in person.
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    Aug 13, 2013 3:30 PM GMT
    If they show me a cock show them an ass

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  • madsexy

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    Aug 13, 2013 3:40 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidParticularly when most of them are 1,000-9,000 miles away. I ask them "What's the point if there's no chance of us conceivably meeting?" Of course now in addition to the pic thieves I'm constantly contacted by guys with hot photos asking that I click on their free cam shows. Boy what I'd give for a decent bar. I do much better in person.


    Great bars here in P-town this week! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 13, 2013 6:06 PM GMT
    Guess I should've clarified local bars, but boy do I miss P-town! Haven't been there since '89.
  • madsexy

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    Aug 13, 2013 6:08 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidGuess I should've clarified local bars, but boy do I miss P-town! Haven't been there since '89.


    This is my first time here, and other than the cool, rainy weather today, I'm enjoying it.

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  • BuggEyedSprit...

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    Aug 13, 2013 6:11 PM GMT
    Profire saidWhy does every guys in the dating sites (Grindr, Scruff, Jack'd, etc) always want to trade pics?

    I get the fact of wanting a face pic so they can see who they are chatting with, but they immediately go to "wanna trade pics?"
    Is there not enough cock shots on the net that they need more?

    I don't get it.
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    YOU HAVE IT!, or at least is looks like it in your pic with the running shorts! That'll 'do' me for awhile...icon_wink.gificon_exclaim.gif
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    Aug 13, 2013 6:13 PM GMT
    What I don't get is guys that want pics, but then you could send them 40 and they want more, and more, and when you say, I have no more, they ask you to take more.
  • JSTUDent

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    Aug 13, 2013 6:15 PM GMT
    Fivealive saidIf they show me a cock show them an ass

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    god that's funny XD. WILL keep this in mind XD and. Yeah...... its annoying when every conversation is "OMG you is hot ;) show me your cock I want to suck you off right now11!1"
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    Aug 13, 2013 6:16 PM GMT
    I don't know. . . It seems pointless to me. A face pic is all I ever ask to see on sites like Grindr. I don't send nudes and when someone asks me for more pics I get annoyed. What's the point?