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    May 27, 2008 1:59 PM GMT
    Okay..everyone just makes my life a living shit because im bisexual...really I do not know why I am on this site...I love guys because I find there super fucking hot and now that I am on this site I think I am truely gay...How would you now if you truely are gay or your just confused as fucking hell XD?

    And if you are gay, should you tell, because if anyone from my school found out im gay, even my friends on the sports teams I play on would out cast me...So yeah im venting but I need help cause I read most of the forums on here so i wanted to ask for myself.
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    May 27, 2008 5:12 PM GMT
    The sniff test, it never fails. We humans are mammals and pheromones affect us like any other animal. So, If you find the odor of a man's hot sweaty balls appealing, you are probably gay or Bi. If you find the odor of a woman's vagina appealing you're either Straight or Bi. If you enjoy the odor of hot sweaty balls and vaginas pleasurable then you're Bi. If you only like the hot sweaty balls and not the vagina, then you're Gay. If you like the vagina but not the balls, then too bad, you're straight.

    Another test is; if you can embrace and passionately kiss another man and like it, then you're probably gay or bi.
    In my slut period I met a lot of straight guys who wanted to just get off, they couldn't handle an embrace or a kiss, not even a little peck. True straight guys can't handle intimacy with another man.

    Good luck.

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    May 27, 2008 5:22 PM GMT
    Who's making your life a living shit? Do people at school know that you're bisexual?

    You're only 18! Does it really matter right now what you call yourself? Life's too short to be stressed about something as lame as a label.
    Don't worry about it. Gay, Bi and Straight are all just labels.

    It sounds like at the moment, guys turn you on. Do girls turn you on too? If so, then cool. If not, then cool.
    Do you have to tell others right now? Only if it's really bothering you.

    If you're Bi, you still might feel the need to tell people. So if you're worried about whether you're gay or bi, it probably doesn't matter too much at this moment, except that if you still like women, you'll be able to not tell people (that you're bi) and still have sex with women without lying about it. Meaning you can not tell people and still get off at least.

    If you do decide that you're gay, and it's really really bothering you, start by telling someone you are pretty sure will be accepting, understanding and discreet about it. You can then decide who to tell next, and figure out how you feel about telling people. It gets easier with everyone that you tell, for you at least.

    This is really just a small part of your life, and is only as big of a deal as you want to make it. If you do start feeling comfortable about it, and don't want to make a big deal of it, you could just not come out to people directly, and you could just not hide it when you're checking out other guys. People will notice if they notice, and won't if they don't. Either way, it saves you having to sit down with them and have a big heart to heart about it. Of course, the heart to heart can be really good too.

    Good luck either way. Just don't waste time stressing about it.
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    May 27, 2008 5:46 PM GMT
    John43620 saidIf you find the odor of a man's hot sweaty balls appealing, you are probably gay or Bi.


    hmm. you mean to tell me i'm not gay? i've been sleeping exclusively with males since my plumbing worked. i've never been into sweaty odors. a glistening guy is fine, but sweaty balls doesn't cue up the romantic love story music.

    actually odors tend to kill the music for me.
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    May 27, 2008 7:45 PM GMT
    Well if the your lover doesn't wash for a week no one likes that but you are exposed to the odors. They are always present. It's chemistry.

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    May 27, 2008 8:02 PM GMT
    Anarkion666 saidOkay..everyone just makes my life a living shit because im bisexual...really I do not know why I am on this site...I love guys because I find there super fucking hot and now that I am on this site I think I am truely gay...How would you now if you truely are gay or your just confused as fucking hell XD?

    And if you are gay, should you tell, because if anyone from my school found out im gay, even my friends on the sports teams I play on would out cast me...So yeah im venting but I need help cause I read most of the forums on here so i wanted to ask for myself.


    Relax! Enjoy the process of discovery. Are you gay? Ask your boyfriend LOL.. I'm kidding man.

    There is no one here who can answer that question but you. Just let it happen. Enjoy what your body, mind and soul responds to, and embrace what you desire.

    Should you tell if you are gay? Not if it's going to make you an out cast. When the time is right and when you feel comfortable with all of it, thats when you can offer that information.
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    May 28, 2008 2:28 PM GMT
    Thanks everyone ^.^ You comments to the topic and my life issue helped ^.^ I found out I am bisexual but more leaning towards guy instead of girls. ^.^ Thanks alot everyone and hopefully I can find mr right out there somewhere....XD to bad mostly all the gay guys around my area are in hiding so they don't get found out icon_sad.gif that is the only sucky part now! ttyl PEACE!