May 27, 2008 4:04 PM GMT
I don't get it. After reading some of the posts on here, why does everything have to be straight or gay. I see posts like why are straight guys this or that, why do straight guys wear boxers under swimsuits (btw I wear boxers under my board shorts)? Why does being straight or gay have to define someone? I was hanging out with my good friend and another friend and this kind of came up. She said that I am straight in everyway except I like guys and our friend he is gay in everyway except he likes girls. I know lots of feminine guys who like girls and lots of masculine dudes who like guys. It seems to me that we are separating ourselves when we want to be more equal. I mean if we want to divide ourselves shouldn't we then say ok "I'm a gay guy who only likes muscle guys so I'm different from the gay guys who like skinny guys" or vice-versa. My friends comment both made me glad that I'm not the stereotype but kinda upset, because it is the reason why back in MT I have to be closeted to keep my life, and that I will be thought of as different even though I'm still me they just would know I'm lookin at a guy instead of a girl. The only difference between me and the "straight" guys is I like dudes and they likes girls other than that I'm like every "straight" dude according to my friend. I just think it should be our personalities which define us not who we like to have sex with, it just keeps furthering the division. I mean isn't it normally bad to talk about religion and politics sometimes because it can cause a division haha. Maybe some of the posts should be why are some guys interested in my broken arm or why do some guys wear boxers under their boardshorts?