_Mohamed_ said"If someone loves another person, they will go through sacrifices to make sure that other person is happy, because when they see that person happy, they will, in return be happy themselves."
seriously, how many of you actually understand this and how it ties into relationships?
I know I do.
No offense, Mo, but you're a little young and lacking some major experience to be acting like you know it all. I can still smell the milk on your breath from that tit. Stop with this already because you are painting a very bad picture of yourself right now.
I have to ask but what happened to you because you sound bitter and jaded? You sound like you got hurt.
I could care two less what a community full of sluts and whores thinks of me... I have the real world - of which I can be myself and get appreciated for who I am.
You guys here seem like you ALL got hurted and decided to give up and take the "it won't get better" route... sorry but I always get back up after I fall... and that applies to here too...
I stand up for my beliefs, not yours and certainly not the community's beliefs.
So, if I have to be one of the minorities on here that is the sex after we declare each other bf type of guy.. then I will happily accept my status.
WTF does this even mean Mohamed?
In regard to your quote, "sacrifice" is not a requirement in a healthy relationship. Sometimes it occurs - but shouldn't be a part of the plan. If your goal is "sacrifice" as some sort of proof of devotion - you are missing the mark TREMENDOUSLY.
Here is another thought for you - the person you love will set boundaries and limits on how much you "sacrifice" on his behalf because he does not WANT to see you bleed for his sake. If he (or you) does - yer in trouble. Big time.
Your happiness CAN NOT be based on sacrificing for another person regardless of how much you believe it is in the name of love. The other guy deserves to be with a whole, happy man...not an empty shell trying to fill a void through self sacrifice and increasingly impossible-to-meet demands as a method of proving loyalty.
You may be a teenager still but the world of grown men is in your face and like it or not you will have to find a way to function in it without killing yourself emotionally, smothering to death everyone who so much as buys you a drink or, even worse, THOROUGHLY IRRITATING THE GUYS WHO ARE ON YOUR SIDE and finding it increasingly difficult to explain your behavior to everyone else who thinks you are a psycho troll from Hell.
Real Life is NOT a passage from 1001 Nights. Your passion for fables is admirable in a youg boy but disturbing in a man.
Lighten the fuck up MO - we are all on your side, most of us have already been through what you are experiencing. Take advantage of what is being offered to you and move on Dude!!!