I could really use a hug right now

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 9:12 AM GMT
    I’d rather not talk about it publicly, but there are quite a few things bugging me, and I don’t know what to do about it. I try to be a strong guy, and am always there for whoever needs me, and while it might sound selfish, sometimes I need a bit of kindness myself.

    So yes, even if it’s just online, a hug would help.
  • dancedancekj

    Posts: 1761

    Oct 29, 2011 9:25 AM GMT
    cute-cat-hug.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 9:43 AM GMT
    Ohh I'm good at those!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 12:19 PM GMT
    dancedancekj,
    KITTEHS! CUTE!

    yourname2000,
    Thanks, man! I'll take your internetz hug over that guy's any day, though!
    Is that blood?

    mikeinslc,
    So do I get one?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 12:22 PM GMT
    Big Hugs Here!

    Hope you get through whatever you're going through - hang in there!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 12:24 PM GMT
    Gay Pheromones

    Do you need other partner trust you more? Trust will take your relation in to deep understanding. if you ever wanted to impress others and your partners than must go for pheromones. They are really good and may come with an extra in to passion your life.

    For more information related to Gay Pheromones please visit : gay pheromones and pheromone perfumes

  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 12:32 PM GMT
    Hang in there my friend...

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR-Ub1Ru82IrLmN_-lscZ-
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 12:51 PM GMT
    Let's make this a group thing.
    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTKqxd8lMrPL8HRyytRCzr

    But seriously,
    hugs_for_you-1446.jpg

    Hope everything works out, and meanwhile just hang in there and try your best!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 12:56 PM GMT
    sashaman,
    Thanks. I hope so too.

    TriAthInCA,
    I like bears!

    TheChrisGuy,
    I will, thanks!

    Do I get anymore?
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 1:07 PM GMT
    *hugs*
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    Hang in there. All things come to pass, not to stay. And, "this too shall come to pass".

    Hugs!
    Alan
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 1:52 PM GMT
    bunny.jpg


    o3mSEHP7sWQCGMXxfPZiww?feat=embedwebsitesmile.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    So what I can say is that this has to do with some things my dad lectured me about earlier today (on top of some other things, but those aren't so bad, they just add up).

    After I posted the thread, I went for a run and felt a bit better. Then, when I came back and read this thread I felt even better. Then I went for dinner, and my dad basically repeated everything he said earlier.

    So now I feel down again. Sigh.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:19 PM GMT
    My dad could do that to me when I was in college and high school. I would be all up about how well the day was going and then bam.
    But then I had a talk with my dad and explained to him I don't appreciate these talks and now don't want to hear anymore. So he decided to bite his tongue next time. I still love him and he loves me and removing this negative part has made things better.
    Hope you feel better soon, a big hug.

    147065.jpg
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    Been there myself dude-
    *hugs*
  • TonyD

    Posts: 168

    Oct 29, 2011 2:31 PM GMT
    nicerough saidI’d rather not talk about it publicly, but there are quite a few things bugging me, and I don’t know what to do about it. I try to be a strong guy, and am always there for whoever needs me, and while it might sound selfish, sometimes I need a bit of kindness myself.

    So yes, even if it’s just online, a hug would help.


    I applaud you for asking for help, even it is just a hug.

    Your email is a bit sad, in the fact you think it's selfish to want kindness, especially, while you are there for others when possible.

    Also, part of being a 'strong guy' is allowing others in to help and nurture and console...isnt that what friendship and relationship is all about?

    Start talking.
  • turtleneckjoc...

    Posts: 4685

    Oct 29, 2011 2:33 PM GMT
    I'm having bad weeks myself, however, I have enough energy to give you a hug and hope things get better for you.

    I understand what you are going through.icon_sad.gif
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:39 PM GMT
    jaybird680,
    Thanks!

    GAMRican,
    Hopefully one day, but stuff like this always comes back.

    Hatter,
    That's my favourite bunny pic, thanks!

    asnextdoor,
    I really want to talk to my dad, but he always spins it around to make it my fault. And it's not like he doesn't have a point. It's just that the context is wrong.

    graniteknite,
    Thanks! Hope you're okay, too!

    TonyD,
    My friends are definitely grateful, and there to lend an ear, but I don't want them to think they're bothering me by coming to me for help when they need it. That's one reason they come to me. Because they don't want to add to anyone else's personal issues. But I'm fine with that.

    turtleneckjock,
    Aww... *Sends a big hug to you as well*
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    1140680.jpg
  • TonyD

    Posts: 168

    Oct 29, 2011 2:46 PM GMT

    TonyD,
    My friends are definitely grateful, and there to lend an ear, but I don't want them to think they're bothering me by coming to me for help when they need it. That's one reason they come to me. Because they don't want to add to anyone else's personal issues. But I'm fine with that.


    Consider this:
    When you allow people (specific people who are open and willing and able)
    to listen to your personal issues, you give them a gift of intimacy and getting to know you on a much deeper level.
    This type of acceptance can allow you to feel better and move forward and make better decisions on the issues at hand, if that's needed.

    Now, to find these people, is another story.
    I wasn't raised with empathetic parents and needed to be taught reaffirmed deper modes of connecting to others.

    Do you have one friend you can talk to about these issues?


  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:47 PM GMT
    Even the strongest of us needs a hug once in a while. Best of luck!
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 2:55 PM GMT
    TonyD saidConsider this:
    When you allow people (specific people who are open and willing and able)
    to listen to your personal issues, you give them a gift of intimacy and getting to know you on a much deeper level.
    This type of acceptance can allow you to feel better and move forward and make better decisions on the issues at hand, if that's needed.

    Now, to find these people, is another story.
    I wasn't raised with empathetic parents and needed to be taught reaffirmed deper modes of connecting to others.

    Do you have one friend you can talk to about these issues?

    Yeah, I do. Several in fact.
    I open up to them about a lot of things, just not the more sensitive things.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    I don't need to know what's going on. I would give you a hug.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    yourname2000 saidIt's hard to read, but on his chest it says "free hugz"

    08_FreeHugz_MG_8673.jpg


    SO INAPPROPRIATE for the thread!!!

    Post it on MY wall! icon_wink.gif

    (oh wait, this isnt Facebook, never mind, lol!)


    TIGHT HUGZ
  • Posted by a hidden member.
    Log in to view his profile

    Oct 29, 2011 3:37 PM GMT
    Lostboy,
    Aww, what a nice kitteh!

    antelope,
    Thank you!

    Soulasphyxi,
    Thanks, man!

    GigoloAssassin,
    Haha! Thanks!