Buying a Dildo

  • comical44

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    Oct 29, 2011 10:53 PM GMT
    Might be TMI for some to discuss but im just wondering...

    Do any of you guys own dildos? How was your experience?

    Im going to order one that feels like the real thing...Im gonna start with on 6.5 inches just because Im new to it..I want one that has a suction cup at the bottom good for the floor shower ect ect.

    Do I always need to use lube/ do I need to use lube when I use it in the shower?

    Thanks for the info guys
  • comical44

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    Oct 30, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    So apparently no one wants to give me advice lol??
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    Oct 30, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    O.O thought about doing this once but I figured having a guy was better. No offense. Lube always good cause you can hurt yourself there. I can't say anything else though other than good luck.
  • Nizzo

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    Oct 30, 2011 1:47 AM GMT
    Most dildos molded from porn stars are too thick for my butt hole. I've taken thicker Dicks but its just not the same. Start small. My first dildo was Michael Lucas one and its used as a paper weight now. Lol

    I found a perfect dildo called the boyfriend or something like that on TLA.com it rocks my world. Also buy a butt plug set. It really loosens you up for dildo play. And I didn't want to waste lube in the shower so I use conditioner. Lol
  • comical44

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    Oct 30, 2011 1:56 AM GMT
    Nizzo saidMost dildos molded from porn stars are too thick for my butt hole. I've taken thicker Dicks but its just not the same. Start small. My first dildo was Michael Lucas one and its used as a paper weight now. Lol

    I found a perfect dildo called the boyfriend or something like that on TLA.com it rocks my world. Also buy a butt plug set. It really loosens you up for dildo play. And I didn't want to waste lube in the shower so I use conditioner. Lol


    thanks for being honest!...yea some of the porn star ones look way too big...im gonna get a small one to start with..thanks for the ips
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    Oct 30, 2011 1:57 AM GMT
    I used them to "practice" bottoming, but not very much. And I ended up liking top a lot more.

    Definitely always use lube... And remember that a real penis is compressed when you fuck, so its really not as big as you think.. .whereas a dildo doesn't change size at all. So you don't really need that big of one.

  • comical44

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    Oct 30, 2011 2:33 AM GMT
    adam228 saidI used them to "practice" bottoming, but not very much. And I ended up liking top a lot more.

    Definitely always use lube... And remember that a real penis is compressed when you fuck, so its really not as big as you think.. .whereas a dildo doesn't change size at all. So you don't really need that big of one.



    Yea i dont want a big one nor do I think I could take a big one...big penis's are over rated anyways...I think im going to get a 6' one....Im wondering when i order it online and it comes in the mail.....is it going to say "dildo" or "sex toys" on the box? lol...I live with family
  • Nizzo

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    Oct 30, 2011 11:08 AM GMT
    No, sir. All my deliveries were in brown boxes with a address. I think sex toys, videos companies are good with privacy. At least TLA is. (I swear I don't work for them ) lol
  • rnch

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    Oct 30, 2011 11:37 AM GMT
    start small and work your way up the dildo scale. as adam said above; dildo's don't compress as you slide 'em inside of you like even the hardest, most pumped up human penis will...so even a "small" one will feel thicker than man flesh will..

    use LOTS of lube.

    even the most realistic dildo toy is not nearly as good as the Real Thing.


    EDIT: agree with koaa about using a condom...SO MUCH easier for "Post Play" clean up and it gets you in the habit of using condoms.
  • Koaa2

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    Oct 30, 2011 12:05 PM GMT
    Also recommend a smaller one to begin with, I have different sizes. Also have found that putting a condom on them, helps with the hygiene and clean up issue, and you can also share with someone, and feel that is more hygienic friendly. I still wash it very good with a bacterial soap when done. enjoy.
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    Oct 30, 2011 12:27 PM GMT
    One word "cyberskin". They cost more but are worth it being alot more flexable ect.
  • comical44

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    Oct 30, 2011 2:40 PM GMT
    Ok so when it comes in the mail it wont say nothing like "dildo" or "sex toy"...im just nervous about privacy when it comes in the mail because I live with family and I dont want to be embarassed?

    Ok yea I want to start small and not too thick so is 6'' good to start at?
  • rnch

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    Oct 30, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    comical44 said.. I want to start small and not too thick so is 6'' good to start at?


    if you are inexpeience with anal and dildo insertion; i would suggest even a smaller one to start off with.

    i found out that i had to "downsize" after my first purchase; then slowly "upsize".
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    Oct 30, 2011 2:57 PM GMT
    Don't waste money on the porn star dildo... Unless you seriously get off on the erotic idea of "hey this is Francois Sagat's dick (kind of)" then you're spending more money than you need to. You can't see the thing going in, his body isn't attached to it, so for all your butt knows it's anybody. Just get a normal dildo/butt plug.
  • comical44

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    Oct 30, 2011 3:29 PM GMT
    Larkin_PLR saidDon't waste money on the porn star dildo... Unless you seriously get off on the erotic idea of "hey this is Francois Sagat's dick (kind of)" then you're spending more money than you need to. You can't see the thing going in, his body isn't attached to it, so for all your butt knows it's anybody. Just get a normal dildo/butt plug.


    Oh I completely agree...that seems like a waste...I kind of want a dildo though...nothing to big but I want something with a suction cup on the bottom