Enough with the hate mail please.

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    Oct 30, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    I really can't control what another member of this site does with his profile guys. I am just as sad as any of you are but I have no information and have not said anything to any members of this site that would influence them to alter their profile settings in any way.

    I'm not perfect, but I really don't think I deserve some of the mean messages I have been getting. I really try my best to be a supportive contributing member to this site so some of you guys are seriously misinformed and out-of-line with the PM's. You really should investigate the fullness of a situation before asking questions I can't answer or cursing me out, especially if I've never even spoken to you before. Thanks.
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    Oct 30, 2011 6:14 AM GMT
    Did I miss something?
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    Oct 30, 2011 6:42 AM GMT
    You're a great guy dekiru and one of the nicest people on RJ. It's f**ked up you're getting hate mail.
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    Oct 30, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    Whoever is fucking stupid enough to send you hate mail is completely retarded and clearly doesn't pay any attention to your posts.
    You are always posting positively and are one of the nicest guys on this website.

    I don't know what happened regarding somebody else's profile but whoever is sending you hate mail needs to back the fuck off or there will be hell to pay.
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    Oct 30, 2011 7:11 AM GMT
    I don't know the situation, and I don't think I want to. It's a shame that people resort to such juvenile tactics. Just hang in there. These things usually blow over very quickly.
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    Oct 30, 2011 7:15 AM GMT
    Fivealive saidDid I miss something?


    +1

    Deki has always been very balanced in his postings so now I'm confused?
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    Oct 30, 2011 7:27 AM GMT
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    Oct 30, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    dekiruman saidYou really should investigate the fullness of a situation before asking questions I can't answer or cursing me out, especially if I've never even spoken to you before. Thanks.


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    Don't sweat it, I get RJ hate e-mail all the time. I laugh and put him on block; end of his e-mails. But I also get complimentary notes, thanking me for my specific advice in a thread that helped a guy, or just a nice word about my posts in general.

    But I gotta tell yah your first paragraph in your OP here is still unclear to me.
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    Oct 30, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
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    dekiruman saidYou really should investigate the fullness of a situation before asking questions I can't answer or cursing me out, especially if I've never even spoken to you before. Thanks.


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    Don't sweat it, I get RJ hate e-mail all the time. I laugh and put him on block; end of his e-mails. But I also get complimentary notes, thanking me for my specific advice in a thread that helped a guy, or just a nice word about my posts in general.

    But I gotta tell yah your first paragraph in your OP here is still unclear to me.


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    Oct 30, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    If there is love, there is hate.
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    Oct 30, 2011 2:22 PM GMT
    Hang in there, you're a nice fellow and we've enjoyed your presence, a lot. We've received nasty emails as well on occasion, so don't sweat it - it tells you a lot about them.

    warm hugs

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    Oct 30, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    Don't worry, any sane guy knows you're a nice person icon_smile.gif In fact, I think it's a sign of being a successful RJ-er. If you don't get hate mails you're probably not someone worth talking to. And I'm really serious!

    LIKE ME. PEOPLE PLEASE SEND ME HATE MAILS I HAVEN'T GOTTEN ANY YET icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 30, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    Kloud_Kannon saidFirst of all, answer at least one of the 4 messages I did send you, on here OR on FB OR on you phone. Also ask yourself, why all this drama got started to begin with.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1914046/


    ^^^^^oh look. how did that get there?
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:08 PM GMT
    Kloud_Kannon said
    Kloud_Kannon saidFirst of all, answer at least one of the 4 messages I did send you, on here OR on FB OR on you phone. Also ask yourself, why all this drama got started to begin with.

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1914046/


    ^^^^^oh look. how did that get there?


    Ah, are you trying to say that you're angry you can't see people's pictures? Ohhh, now I get it. SHAME ON YOU DEKI.

    (Is this the first time I'm being bitchy on RJ?)
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    Hey guys. Can we please stop meddling in other people's business and just be supportive of the OP? Or, at the very least trying not to be so hateful? After all, you guy don't even know what was going on between involved parties' private conversations, and you guys don't know how the OP is feeling, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to judge another member. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    why does the OP let random stupid messages from people he doesnt even know personally get to him so much.

    I think he likes the attention, hence the reason he made a thread about it.

    "ohhhhh, look at me, people are sending me meany messages on the internet...waaaaaaahhh!!!"

    boo fucking hoo, get over it and ignore them dude. u kinda sound like a bitch right now
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    It's not his fault.

    He took his pictures down for a reason I think doesn't really have much to do with waimea. It might but i think not.

    Then waimea made a thread saying that if deki did not put all his pictures back waimea would relock all his nekkid pics for everyone he had revealed himself to.

    Then he hid himself, and people are treating Wes like it's his fault. They are sending him hate mail because the want to see waimeas cock or whatever and he's hiding from them.
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    Cityaznguy saidHey guys. Can we please stop meddling in other people's business and just be supportive of the OP? Or, at the very least trying not to be so hateful? After all, you guy don't even know what was going on between involved parties' private conversations, and you guys don't know how the OP is feeling, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to judge another member. icon_cool.gif


    I dont know. People could say something helpful and logical if one of those guys explained what is going on. This is just drama going on here.
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:35 PM GMT
    Import saidwhy does the OP let random stupid messages from people he doesnt even know personally get to him so much.

    I think he likes the attention, hence the reason he made a thread about it.

    "ohhhhh, look at me, people are sending me meany messages on the internet...waaaaaaahhh!!!"

    boo fucking hoo, get over it and ignore them dude. u kinda sound like a bitch right now


    Maybe I'm naive, but he obviously has a lot going on right now and some attention in the form of care would be healthy. Maybe if you knew deki a little better you wouldn't be so quick to doubt and judge. The only thing I agree with you about is that there is drama. But I'm sure they all have problems that don't deserve to be exacerbated by more people's hate.

    And to put it in a very neutral way, you kinda sound like the bitch right now.
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:44 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidBlock your Bullys and problem solved.

    Yes, this would be the most simple and private way of dealing with the problem. Starting a thread gives the perception that one is trying to call attention to the problem.
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    TheChrisGuy said
    Import saidwhy does the OP let random stupid messages from people he doesnt even know personally get to him so much.

    I think he likes the attention, hence the reason he made a thread about it.

    "ohhhhh, look at me, people are sending me meany messages on the internet...waaaaaaahhh!!!"

    boo fucking hoo, get over it and ignore them dude. u kinda sound like a bitch right now


    Maybe I'm naive, but he obviously has a lot going on right now and some attention in the form of care would be healthy. Maybe if you knew deki a little better you wouldn't be so quick to doubt and judge. The only thing I agree with you about is that there is drama. But I'm sure they all have problems that don't deserve to be exacerbated by more people's hate.

    And to put it in a very neutral way, you kinda sound like the bitch right now.


    Perhaps I do sound like a bitch. Only feeding off the vibe he's putting out there.

    I mean for a person to have "online drama" or "e-drama" seems kind of pathetic to me.
    Is one's life is that wrapped up in an internet forum that it's seriously affecting his state of mind? Maybe the OP should get out a little more and stop posting so much and letting "e-drama" get in his way.

    who even has time for internet drama? I wonder what his real life is like? Probably filled with drama. People that have drama going on in their e-lives... it often correlates with their "real life" Drama filled.

    Perhaps I have a hard time understanding how the OP is getting his feeling hurt my "hate mail" from anonymous people from the internet.

    Get a life? comes to mind.
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    Import saidwhy does the OP let random stupid messages from people he doesnt even know personally get to him so much.

    I think he likes the attention, hence the reason he made a thread about it.

    "ohhhhh, look at me, people are sending me meany messages on the internet...waaaaaaahhh!!!"

    boo fucking hoo, get over it and ignore them dude. u kinda sound like a bitch right now


    Maybe I'm naive, but he obviously has a lot going on right now and some attention in the form of care would be healthy. Maybe if you knew deki a little better you wouldn't be so quick to doubt and judge. The only thing I agree with you about is that there is drama. But I'm sure they all have problems that don't deserve to be exacerbated by more people's hate.

    And to put it in a very neutral way, you kinda sound like the bitch right now.



    Bingo.
    Really Import, a little kindness won't kill or damage you. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
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    TheChrisGuy said
    Import saidwhy does the OP let random stupid messages from people he doesnt even know personally get to him so much.

    I think he likes the attention, hence the reason he made a thread about it.

    "ohhhhh, look at me, people are sending me meany messages on the internet...waaaaaaahhh!!!"

    boo fucking hoo, get over it and ignore them dude. u kinda sound like a bitch right now


    Maybe I'm naive, but he obviously has a lot going on right now and some attention in the form of care would be healthy. Maybe if you knew deki a little better you wouldn't be so quick to doubt and judge. The only thing I agree with you about is that there is drama. But I'm sure they all have problems that don't deserve to be exacerbated by more people's hate.

    And to put it in a very neutral way, you kinda sound like the bitch right now.



    Bingo.
    Really Import, a little kindness won't kill or damage you. icon_wink.gif

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    yes sir. I will be a robot and show him kindness now.

    OP, you'll be ok. It WILL get better for u. I promise u that.
    The hate messages will eventually subside and you will once again be an endearing member of the internet forums.

    You will feel fulfilled and validated by anonymous support from starngers. icon_smile.gif
    Passive acceptance by us will make ur life good again. No need to worry.
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    Oct 30, 2011 3:51 PM GMT
    Import said
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    Import saidwhy does the OP let random stupid messages from people he doesnt even know personally get to him so much.

    I think he likes the attention, hence the reason he made a thread about it.

    "ohhhhh, look at me, people are sending me meany messages on the internet...waaaaaaahhh!!!"

    boo fucking hoo, get over it and ignore them dude. u kinda sound like a bitch right now


    Maybe I'm naive, but he obviously has a lot going on right now and some attention in the form of care would be healthy. Maybe if you knew deki a little better you wouldn't be so quick to doubt and judge. The only thing I agree with you about is that there is drama. But I'm sure they all have problems that don't deserve to be exacerbated by more people's hate.

    And to put it in a very neutral way, you kinda sound like the bitch right now.


    Perhaps I do sound like a bitch. Only feeding off the vibe he's putting out there.

    I mean for a person to have "online drama" or "e-drama" seems kind of pathetic to me.
    Is one's life is that wrapped up in an internet forum that it's seriously affecting his state of mind? Maybe the OP should get out a little more and stop posting so much and letting "e-drama" get in his way.

    who even has time for internet drama? I wonder what his real life is like? Probably filled with drama. People that have drama going on in their e-lives... it often correlates with their "real life" Drama filled.

    Perhaps I have a hard time understanding how the OP is getting his feeling hurt my "hate mail" from anonymous people from the internet.

    Get a life? comes to mind.


    The only thing I can think of is this: either stop criticizing them because they are having trouble dealing with drama (either created by themselves or thrown at them, or both), or try to help them get out of it.

    I don't think many people want such pathetic forms of attention, so for you to suspect that OP wants it suggests you don't know him that well.

    About this:
    Is one's life is that wrapped up in an internet forum that it's seriously affecting his state of mind? Maybe the OP should get out a little more and stop posting so much and letting "e-drama" get in his way.
    I agree, but you could have said this to him nicely in a constructive way instead of bashing him for it, totally unnecessary.

    I think we're thinking from two diff perspectives. You're thinking "I hate this drama and I hate him" and I'm thinking "I hate this drama, get him out of it." Either way this is beginning to get off-topic and unconstructive, so I'll stop here.