Ineffective douching?

  • 20kw11

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    Oct 30, 2011 4:25 PM GMT
    Has anyone else experienced this...?

    I'm not a hugely experienced bottom but I prefer to douche when I can before having sex. I also do this when I'm home alone and feel like playing with my toys.

    Only recently I have experienced a problem where after I have douched as I would normally and start playing with my toys for instance, it seems to stimulate me into needing to poop again and can sometimes be unexpectedly messy. I've not had this problem before and it makes me wonder why its started happening now.

    Last time I had sex with a guy who topped there was no problem but I'm worried now that the next time I have sex this may happen with a guy rather than my toys!

    Is there something I should/shouldn't be doing? I have tried at different times e.g after going to the toilet, before/after eating, different times of day etc. and I still get this problem. I read somewhere that you should try to flush out the first 10 inches of your insides but I'm not sure if that's correct or even physically possible!

    Anyway, any advice please?
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    Oct 30, 2011 7:36 PM GMT
    You may have a colon pocket, a small bend which can hold material even after a motion.

    If you're really concerned before having (planned) sex, try having a light breakfast and keeping lunch/dinner soup based. A fleet portable enema might help too before you douche - just to completely empty yourself out.

    However we're all grown up gays and occasional accidents do happen. So relax icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 30, 2011 7:47 PM GMT
    Shit happens.

    If people canĀ“t deal with that they should have sex with girls.
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    Oct 30, 2011 7:47 PM GMT
    Search the forums for many similar discussions of this delicate matter.

    First, realize that sometimes, santorum is going to happen. When it does, calmly adjourn to the shower and deal with it. No need for either party to get excessively upset.

    They way I look at it, there are two kinds of enemas. The "quick rinse" flushes out the rectum only and should be LOW volume and done only once or maybe twice. You can do this immediately before sex.

    The "high colonic" uses more volume and puts liquid up into the colon. This is not so easy to flush out. It requires time and many rinses. Maybe even some pumping action with a toy. If it's not done thoroughly, little burps of foul liquid can keep coming out for a couple of hours. DO NOT attempt to do this immediately before sex, or if you are in a hurry. If you're going for the deep clean, do it several hours before you want to play. Some people enjoy this process for its own sake. Others reserve it for times when they are planning on extended anal activity.

    Attempting to do anything "in between" these two methods, can create a big embarrassing mess.

    If this has only started recently, perhaps you are becoming more comfortable with the process and have inadvertently begun using more volume than you used to do - creeping into the "in between" zone.
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    Oct 30, 2011 8:01 PM GMT
    Shower enema-fixes any problem with bottoming.
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    Oct 31, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    mindgarden saidSearch the forums for many similar discussions of this delicate matter.

    First, realize that sometimes, santorum is going to happen. When it does, calmly adjourn to the shower and deal with it. No need for either party to get excessively upset.

    They way I look at it, there are two kinds of enemas. The "quick rinse" flushes out the rectum only and should be LOW volume and done only once or maybe twice. You can do this immediately before sex.

    The "high colonic" uses more volume and puts liquid up into the colon. This is not so easy to flush out. It requires time and many rinses. Maybe even some pumping action with a toy. If it's not done thoroughly, little burps of foul liquid can keep coming out for a couple of hours. DO NOT attempt to do this immediately before sex, or if you are in a hurry. If you're going for the deep clean, do it several hours before you want to play. Some people enjoy this process for its own sake. Others reserve it for times when they are planning on extended anal activity.

    Attempting to do anything "in between" these two methods, can create a big embarrassing mess.

    If this has only started recently, perhaps you are becoming more comfortable with the process and have inadvertently begun using more volume than you used to do - creeping into the "in between" zone.


    Deep breathing and relaxing during a high colonic also can help both when the fluids are going in, and when you are flushing out.

    Consider your diet as well. Avoid highly processed foods which tend to muck up the intestines. Eat lots of high fiber foods.