NOBODY has said they only want men for sex, except you.
NOBODY has said they live only for sex (Okay, maybe Paul. Love ya, Paul!), but you have labeled those arguing against you.
Having sex outside of "marriage" is not immoral, or degrading to anyone...
One day you will be comfortable in your own skin.
Have you considered asking yourself exactly what "morals" you're trying to live up to? I know you've got it in your head that you don't want sex until marriage - but I ask you to write down a simple pro / con list with facts and opinions from both sides of the argument.
If you can actually establish in your own head why this is such an important moral issue, then you've only enforced your own opinion... But I dare say that you have never truly examined why you hold this "old fashioned belief". What does "sex" mean to you? Like, really, I haven't noticed a religious correlation here, so tell me what is sacred about sex? I am talking about the physical act of sex here. Not the deep emotional connection to another human being that is often associated with sex, but that thing you imagine yourself doing when you jerk it a few times a week. That thing you know you crave, but choose to abstain from because it is somehow different if two people enjoy this pleasure together.
Do you feel guilty involving another person? Do you feel shame? Hell, I know you feel shame... It's very evident in how strong your negative opinion is of people that have sex.... but why?
I am not asking you to go slut-crazy. I just want you to take some time and reflect on WHY you think this way. This is healthy for people with a very strong belief...
first off, I NEVER said I only want men for sex... on the contrary, I have been with a man for 1.5 years and we only had sex 6 months into the relationship... so I never wanted him just for sex... our emotional bond was strong enough to get us together in bed and enjoy LOVE-MAKING.
something you guys don't know about..
SEX is different than LOVE-MAKING... LOVE-MAKING INVOLVES SEXUAL ACTS but ALSO EMOTIONS.
SEX is what PORN STARS DO... If I wanted to live for sex, I would be a porn star. But I don't want that life.
Next thing, I HATE having to spend on someone, put in effort for someone and in return they express their love towards someone else.
So, I don't want to play with risk in this case... hence why I ask all my dates to pay for most of the things, because I KNOW I CAN BE LOYAL... BUT I CANT TRUST THEM ENOUGH TO BE LOYAL TO ME.
Which is perfectly fine, IN MY EYES.
Next, when I turn 19, this is what I will do... I will go to bars, and tease people so they can feel like shit for what they want yet can't hacve.
I need to work on getting revenge towards the gay community for shunning someone like myself who believes in monogamy because you guys don't.
like you guysa re fucking contradictory in everything... you claim you are open to accepting people for who they are... yet you bash on monogamous seeking men ...... are you guys fucked in the head? oh yea probably, from all the drugs you do.