what would you do? what should i do? i guess im askin for advice?

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    Oct 31, 2011 2:47 PM GMT
    Just want to ask for advice i guess? What would you do if you were in this situation?

    Whenever I go to class, There's this guy that keeps staring at me. I look at him and he quickly glances away. When I turn away, I can feel that he is lookin at me yet again. I confronted him once, and he got mad at me and called me a faggot and he said that I just wished I could hook up with him. He said he was straight and he would beat me to a pulp if I tried anything, I didnt want to make a scene so i didnt say anyting and just watched him walk away, nervously, but it's him who keeps looking a me. I've heard some rumors goin around about me and him that is not true. It's mostly about me coming on to him, which is not true. I dont want to drop this class just because of this. Well, what would you do? what advice can you give me. what do you think I should do?
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    Oct 31, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    Pretend like you don't notice him staring at you. It might take a few days but before you know you won't even notice he's there.

    But if I were in your class, I'd be staring at you, too, hotness.
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    Oct 31, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    Im just so annoyed that stories are being made up about me. I was just goin about my business. I know violence is not the answer but I just want to sock him in the face really hard...

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    Oct 31, 2011 3:47 PM GMT
    I'd be staring at you too! Way hot. But not being a prick and being aggressive and shifty.

    Just ignore him, and laugh at the rumours, I think he'll outgrow that childish crush?
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    Oct 31, 2011 4:23 PM GMT
    Yeah, there seems to be a consensus building; I'd stare at you, too.

    As for this douche-cock, ignore.
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    Oct 31, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    I'd try changing seats and position myself behind him. This way he would have to turn around to look at you, making it more obvious to everyone that he is eyeing you up.
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    Oct 31, 2011 4:29 PM GMT
    Forget about him. This man is nothing but a closet freak that is all. Move on with your life and you won't care anymore
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    Oct 31, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    Definately ignore him, but honestly he show's all the signs of being interested in you as a closeted gay or bi guy. More than likely he started the rumors to cover himself which shows how desperate he is. Don't be suprised if he makes strong efforts to contact you more directly after all this dies down. but be careful, guys like this can turn on you even after they initiate a meet up.
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    Oct 31, 2011 7:07 PM GMT
    Just ignore him. Looks like his in the closet, afraid and likes you. That always leads to truble.
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    Oct 31, 2011 7:09 PM GMT
    sk8rdom saidI'd try changing seats and position myself behind him. This way he would have to turn around to look at you, making it more obvious to everyone that he is eyeing you up.


    +1

    The fact that he's still doing it after you called him on it is interesting. How exactly did you phrase it when you confronted him?
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    Oct 31, 2011 7:15 PM GMT
    wtf, is this highschool?? lol

    I'd probably make him feel as uncomfortable as possible, just to be a dick, because I'm like that sometimes.
    I despise being threatened.

    EDIT: As for what you should do, I have no clue. You can try the ignore thing again for awhile I guess, like everyone else is suggesting. But would confronting him again if all this continues be such a bad idea? You'd need a different approach of course, but...idk

    Good luck dude.
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    Oct 31, 2011 7:27 PM GMT
    he's probably closeted. It sounds alot like how i'd act (minus the offensive language of course) if i was sitting behind you in class, since i'm shy and usually glance away. You confronting him about it added a dosage of reality to the situation for him. He was probably comfortable where he was in his denial but a hottie like you addressing him directly made him deal with it front and center.
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    Nov 02, 2011 4:05 AM GMT
    Cornfedbronco saidJust want to ask for advice i guess? What would you do if you were in this situation?

    Whenever I go to class, There's this guy that keeps staring at me. I look at him and he quickly glances away. When I turn away, I can feel that he is lookin at me yet again. I confronted him once, and he got mad at me and called me a faggot and he said that I just wished I could hook up with him. He said he was straight and he would beat me to a pulp if I tried anything, I didnt want to make a scene so i didnt say anyting and just watched him walk away, nervously, but it's him who keeps looking a me. I've heard some rumors goin around about me and him that is not true. It's mostly about me coming on to him, which is not true. I dont want to drop this class just because of this. Well, what would you do? what advice can you give me. what do you think I should do?


    icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif funny next time he looks at you stick the the middle finger at himicon_biggrin.gif