Could he be interested? Or was I just another guy in his bed?

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    Nov 01, 2011 9:27 PM GMT
    So, Ive been talking to this guy for a month or so. We met up on one of those dating apps, and we chatted on there for a while. Later we exchanged numbers and texted for a while. One day we decided to meet up at the park and chat. Well, the "date" went well and he dropped me off at my place and we texted for a while after that. One day I texted him, no response. I figured he was busy that day, so I just waited until the next day. About 3 days went by without talking and I said to myself "okay, wtf." I texted him again after a while and he finally responded. We chatted for a while, agreed to a date that he later canceled at the LAST minute, literally. I didn't hear from him for a while after that, so I texted him first, as usual, and he responded and we chatted for the day then no texting for about 4 days. It became a pattern, text for one day and not text for a week at the most. This past Saturday I texted him to see if he'd respond, he did. We chatted, blah blah blah. He threw the idea of 'hanging out' out there, as he usually did, and I agreed. He picks me up, we go to his place, make drinks, watch tv for a bit, and then we have sex. We then go and play the Wii and chill for an hour or so then he brings me back to my place, and tells me to text him and whatnot. Well, he didn't respond to my texts until Monday, he seemed very interested in me then. He not not only answered my questions, but he asked me questions also. I just want to know what you guys are thinking after reading that. Could he be interested? Or was I just another guy in his bed? A lot of guys seem to view me as a fwb, but I don't know why. I'm not saying I want to be in a relationship, but I also don't want to be someone's stressball. I'm really nice, always smiling, energetic, and flirtatious according to my friends. So, what do you guys think?
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    Nov 01, 2011 9:31 PM GMT
    He is playing games, drop him dude. He clearly isnt treating you very well and on top of that you are LETTING him get away with it! Get some self respect and stop contacting the bitch, let him come to you.
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    Nov 01, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    He's not interested at all. It's been done plenty of times to me. I've done it plenty of times to others.
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    Nov 02, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    He's not interested.

    Sounds to me like chillin with you is just "SOMETHING TO DO" when he's bored.
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    Nov 02, 2011 2:34 AM GMT
    Dude... Do you need a brick house to fall on you??? I'm more interested in why you keep texting when he doesn't answer for days. Are you looking for someone to treat you like trash?

    An app hook up/dating app??? Hmmm... There is your answer there.

    Texting is very non confronting and retarded, use the phone! You can never understand the sub text of the text.

    Yes he is not interested. Sorry dude
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    Nov 02, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    Yes.
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    Nov 02, 2011 2:43 AM GMT
    Same thing happened to me about a month ago. Guy was like acting all interested but then would randomly stop talking to me for some time.

    And this would happen like you said for days at a time. Text for a couple hours one day and then 3-4 days later no text till I decided to contact him.

    Later I figured out he was just trying to get something out of me, which didn't happen.

    By what you have posted on here I think he is just playing with you. That's what I interpret it as.

    But it could also be, on a more optimistic note, that that's just how he is. I mean he did take you out on dates and you spent what sounds like a bit of quality time together.

    If this continues my advice would be to let him go, just forget about it. There are too many fish in the sea to care about one scale. icon_smile.gif

    P.S.
    I also met this guy on a gay chat app. Lol. So our stories are quite similar. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 2:44 AM GMT
    Kalifornication saidDude... Do you need a brick house to fall on you??? I'm more interested in why you keep texting when he doesn't answer for days. Are you looking for someone to treat you like trash?

    An app hook up/dating app??? Hmmm... There is your answer there.

    Texting is very non confronting and retarded, use the phone! You can never understand the sub text of the text.

    Yes he is not interested. Sorry dude


    So true that's why I deleted the app or uninstalled it.
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    Nov 03, 2011 6:40 PM GMT
    Yeah, I just deleted the app and his number. Moving on!icon_neutral.gif