define a 'fuck budd'...

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    Nov 02, 2011 3:32 AM GMT
    i realize it will mean different things to different men, but i'm curious...
    how much time do you allot this 'fuck budd'?
    Are you allowed other 'fuck budds'?
    Do you have to meet your 'fuck budds' family? Kids (if applicable)
    Do you have to talk to them every day?
    If you have 1 FB, is he really then your BF?

    be interesting to get some different views... thanks guys...


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    Nov 02, 2011 3:36 AM GMT
    Prior to my relationship with my boyfriend I had FBs and some of them are friends now but back then it was all about sex. You text them when you are horny and they text back. You meet up, have good sex. May be have a small talk and a drink and good night. That is FB for me.
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:39 AM GMT
    Well, in my opinion...a fuck buddy is someone that you call, or call you, to have 'no strings attached' sex. Sometimes they can be friends with benefits and it works for some people but for me it didnt. So to answer your questions...

    "How much time do you allot this fuck budd?"
    What do you mean by that? Time for sex? Meh..it depended on my mood

    "Are you allowed other 'fuck budds'?
    Sure? Why not? Not like you are in a 'real' relationship with them.

    "Do you have to meet your 'fuck budds' family? Kids?"
    I don't think so. If he was your boyfriend, yea definitely but fuck buddies...depending on the type of relationship (i.e. strict NSA sex or friends with benefits) I don't think it would be a good idea

    "Do you have to talk to them every day?"
    Nope. Most times fuck buddies aren't 'friends' that you chat with on a regular basis.

    "If you have 1 FB, is he really then your BF?"
    Not at all. Relationships require a lot of work and commitment. You have to be emotionally, and mentally, ready for a relationship. Fuck buddies are really just for sex...nothing more.

    Hope this helps ^^
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    Don't mistake it for a friends with benifits situation.
    Time I guess would be determined by how much you like fuckin with this fuck Budd,
    or how long you can tear yourself away from the computer.
    Pretty sure there's no exclusive clause in the fuck budd book.
    Said book contains now preamaters for the meeting of family.
    Besides this would interfear with computer time.
    Daily conversation is not required but ignoring messages and going weeks with out contact could be consideres being an asshole. This is a fuck budd and not just some random hook up right.
    Then there's always the possiability of getting your ass kicked this is a budd and not some chick your blowing off.
    If your lucky enough to have multiple fuck budds then your probably are not in the market for the BF or just a slut.
    Although the lack of multiple fuck budds does not constitute BF status.
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    Nov 02, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    hairyandym saidi realize it will mean different things to different men, but i'm curious...
    how much time do you allot this 'fuck budd'?
    Are you allowed other 'fuck budds'?
    Do you have to meet your 'fuck budds' family? Kids (if applicable)
    Do you have to talk to them every day?
    If you have 1 FB, is he really then your BF?

    be interesting to get some different views... thanks guys...

    I don't have one, but my impression is that it ranges from someone who calls you up out of the blue "hey, you busy?" to a planned event ("every 2nd Thursday we meet") to someone out of town who comes to visit every now and then.

    I also generally think it's a "get the job done" kinda thing that's pretty much totally focused on the sex....no meeting of family/friends, not much in the way of cuddling or doing anything afterwards. Just fuck each others' brains out, then get out of each others' way to enjoy the endorphins alone afterwards. icon_biggrin.gif


    and theres a problem with that....how? icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 5:00 AM GMT
    Slam, dump, go.

    No more, no less, pure bliss.
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    Nov 02, 2011 5:05 AM GMT
    I dunno, I've had a few different people in my life who I wouldn't consider boyfriends that I had frequent sex with..

    We would get together a few times a week, less or more depending on schedules. We did talk, text, etc... But didn't rearrange schedules for each-other. Could rely on each-other for emotional support, chatting, dinner sometimes... Just a really good friend with benefits.