Forum chat = private message chat?

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    Nov 02, 2011 9:59 AM GMT
    What do you guys think? True? Not true?

    I've found there are guys who are very protective over their public image, and some guys would like to say anything to gain attention. Of course there are guys who are just consistent on forum and in pvt message. How do you guys feel about this? Discuss!

    What's your RJ social strategy?


    Yay my first thread as Waikiki!! So happy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 1:39 PM GMT


    Yes you are and you are a wonderful man. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 1:47 PM GMT
    I don't have a strategy, I'm just the same dork in private as I am in public icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    No strategy. I'm the same in private as I am in forums: Real, honest and awesome. LOL. Some people here will never truly know that though. Their loss.
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    Nov 02, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    I'm probably a little less shy in general online than i am IRL I'm very friendly and talkative IRL but when it comes to approaching a cute/hot guy...not so much. The internet is like the great equalizer icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:16 PM GMT
    I might be a little bit more candid in a one-on-one conversation but other than that I think I'm pretty consistent. I certainly don't try to project myself as someone different.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Nov 02, 2011 3:19 PM GMT
    I'm pretty consistent both publicly and privately...or at least I try to be. I think it's important to speak out and say what you mean, and mean what you say, even if you know the opinion may not always be popular.
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:22 PM GMT
    My forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:25 PM GMT
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    Same, I'm quite an asshole in real life.
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:26 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    Same, I'm quite an asshole in real life.


    Lies make baby Jesus cry deki
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:31 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    dekiruman said
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    Same, I'm quite an asshole in real life.


    Lies make baby Jesus cry deki


    lmao, well, the next time im in frisco, (maybe for my birthday) you can see for yourself.

    Or maybe I can come sooner than that if a time slot opens up during my cali trip!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    dekiruman said
    Chainers said
    dekiruman said
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    Same, I'm quite an asshole in real life.


    Lies make baby Jesus cry deki


    lmao, well, the next time im in frisco, (maybe for my birthday) you can see for yourself.

    Or maybe I can come sooner than that if a time slot opens up during my cali trip!icon_biggrin.gif


    I just dont believe you to be an asshat, but maybe you can try and prove me wrong.
  • unicoman1

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    Nov 02, 2011 3:34 PM GMT
    No agenda, no anything.. I once heard Daffy Duck comment,

    "Consequences smoncequences, as long as I'm rich."
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidNo strategy. I'm the same in private as I am in forums: Real, honest and awesome. LOL. Some people here will never truly know that though. Their loss.


    You are defo a nice guy. You keep it real for the realjockers
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    I suspected this for very long time. That you wouldn't have the guts saying those stuff that you do to a guy's face...especially if they are twice your size and weight like friendsrbutter or do-not-likewatuc
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:48 PM GMT
    i'm much friendlier, warmer and crazier in person than i am online. the act of writing makes my academe side come 2 the fore.
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:49 PM GMT
    waikiki said
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    I suspected this for very long time. That you wouldn't have the guts saying those stuff that you do to a guy's face...especially if they are twice your size and weight like friendsrbutter or do-not-likewatuc


    Yea I also wouldn't care about them. I mean I have fatties obsessed with me in real life too I just ignore and they go away
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:50 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    dekiruman said
    Chainers said
    dekiruman said
    Chainers saidMy forum persona vastly differs from my online one. Online I can be a bitchy whory slut who doesn't take crap. In person I'm shy nice and nerdy (slutty is debatable)


    Same, I'm quite an asshole in real life.


    Lies make baby Jesus cry deki


    lmao, well, the next time im in frisco, (maybe for my birthday) you can see for yourself.

    Or maybe I can come sooner than that if a time slot opens up during my cali trip!icon_biggrin.gif


    I just dont believe you to be an asshat, but maybe you can try and prove me wrong.


    No no. I wouldn't be an asshat to you ever Big D, especially if you are like shy and stuff. I am only mean to douchebags, guys who think they're alpha males, and guys I have crushes on.
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    Nov 02, 2011 3:59 PM GMT
    Chainers said

    Yea I also wouldn't care about them. I mean I have fatties obsessed with me in real life too I just ignore and they go away


    OMG. There's this fat I went to high school with who was homo. He was so smart. I wanted soooo bad to tell him I liked him, but I was scared he would say no. icon_redface.gif
  • kuroshiro

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    Nov 02, 2011 4:07 PM GMT
    I think my personality translates over from real life to online and vice-versa. I'm a well-spoken, kind-hearted and "intelligent" goofball, or so sources say. icon_razz.gif I have no reason to mask myself online anyways. Shit my profile is an open book basically...
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:44 PM GMT
    For me, I'm the same in both places. But some things are a bit more sensitive, so I send private messages instead of public posts. Things like family or religion.

    yourname2000 saidI do think I'm a lot more vocal and honest online than in reallife. I've told stuff about my life on here that I haven't told many friends....it's like group therapy to me, lol.

    Same here. There are things that no straight friend would understand, even if they accept homosexuality. It's pretty cathartic being part of a gay community, even if it's just online.

    Pure saidI don't have a strategy, I'm just the same dork in private as I am in public icon_smile.gif

    The only dork you are is adorkable!
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    Nov 02, 2011 9:33 PM GMT
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    Move here Chillax... then you wouldn´t need to touch yourself...
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    Nov 02, 2011 9:34 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidsilly_signs-2.jpg

    Move here Chillax... then you wouldn´t need to touch yourself...


    WTF? This post makes no sense...
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    Nov 02, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    I never did a pm chat with anyone on RJ. Most of you are so hot I would probably have a heart attack, or at least a life-ending orgasm. Hmm, not a bad way to go.