Is this guy straight and am I reading too much into this? Or is there some sort of possibility?

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    Nov 02, 2011 6:57 PM GMT
    Hey Everyone!

    I've searched the internet and I think this is the place where I can post my question.

    I met this guy on the internet a month ago under sexual circumstances. I responded to his ad on a site, which also has a nude picture of him. His ad says that he is looking for women. So I responded telling him that I'm looking for a guy who can fuck a woman while I watch (watching male/female sex is my ultimate turn on). I live in a country where 'escorts' are very out and advertise on websites (which is the site I found him). He responded back and we started texting each other. He said he would be interested in it. The plan is that he finds a girl (within a certain price range) he likes on one of these sites, calls her to see if she would be into that, we go to her apartment, I pay her, and he fucks her. So, we met and everything went well. The first night we couldn't find a girl. So we walked around the city and talked and we found a bar and talked more. We learned a lot about each other. He told me that he's shy and has problems picking up women. I find him incredibly attractive. He was asking me, periodically, about me picking up women. I told him that in order to answer those questions I would have to reveal more about myself. Eventually I did. I told him I was gay. He wasn't shocked or anything. He just acted normal. We got to the bar and talked more. And we both revealed more about ourselves to each other. After a beer or 2, he walked me home.

    Later that week, we met up again and this time we were successful at finding a girl. We went to her apt, I paid her, and he fucked her...sorta. He spent a lot of time trying to get it up for her. Eventually he did and he fucked her for a few minutes. So then after, he apologized that he couldn't get it up too much. I said it's ok...and that I still find him very attractive, and that I'd like to try it again sometime soon. He agreed to try again. So that night after we left her apartment, we walked around for hours just talking. He was showing me around the city (I moved here 2 months ago) and we shared a lot with each other.

    For the past week, he has been in another city attending some class on how to pick up women. It's so cute that he's shy =) And I suppose he's trying to get out of it.
    We've texted each other every single day since we met. He has told me some things that I'm kinda confused about. "When you graduate, we should move to another European country together." He's expressed interest in leaving this country for another one. He's also said randomly, "I like you :-)". And I replied, "awwww..I like you too :-)". He uses smiley faces a lot with me. I figured that moving together text was a language barrier. He may not know what that actually means. But the 'I like you' part.

    Another big thing is one day I asked him if he has anymore nudes. He said no and asked if I would take some of him! Of course, I said yes. I'm VERY physically attracted to him. I also asked if he would take a hard on pic. He said 'of course. ladies must see that I am the warrior. they must see what i have". That immediately turned me on. So I offered my laptop for porn and i'm using my digital cam for the pics, per his request.

    I have even asked him if he would ever do anything with a guy. He something to the effect of no that he doesn't feel the need to do that.

    So, I'd like to know. Is this guy really straight and I'm reading into it too much? Or is he just ultra-comfortable with his sexuality to be able to do that [have me take nude pictures of him]? Or is there some possibility that he might swing the other way at some point? So, tell me what's up with this! He's back in town and we're meeting tomorrow so that he can help me to find an apartment.
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:03 PM GMT
    Um, jesus fucking christ I cant believe I read that.

    So you asked him if he would ever fuck a guy, and he said no, and you think this makes him straight?

    Obvious troll is obvious...
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:44 PM GMT
    Chainers saidUm, jesus fucking christ I cant believe I read that.

    So you asked him if he would ever fuck a guy, and he said no, and you think this makes him straight?

    Obvious troll is obvious...


    Um, before you start calling me a troll, maybe you should consider that it might actually be a true story. I seriously have much better things to do than to make up shit on a message board. I'd really like to know what's going on here based on everything I said. You are free not to reply to this discussion again if you so choose.
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:45 PM GMT
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    Chainers saidUm, jesus fucking christ I cant believe I read that.

    So you asked him if he would ever fuck a guy, and he said no, and you think this makes him straight?

    Obvious troll is obvious...


    Um, before you start calling me a troll, maybe you should consider that it might actually be a true story. I seriously have much better things to do than to make up shit on a message board. I'd really like to know what's going on here based on everything I said. You are free not to reply to this discussion again if you so choose.


    I answered your question. He does not sound like he is gay in any way, shape, or form.

    I dont even know how you got to this conclusion. You are either A) severely socially inept or B) an obvious troll.

    This story is so redic how can I believe it?
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:49 PM GMT
    For you to immediately judge me like that and assume that I'm a troll says much more about your character than mine. As I said, there were other things that lead me to believe that maybe he's not 100% straight. Now, you could have nicely said "he's completely straight", but you chose to be a prick about it. Do me, and yourself, a favor and don't respond anymore to this discussion. I really don't need such a biased response.
    Geez, I thought I found somewhere where I can post my experience and get my question answered. I really hope everyone else isn't like you.
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:51 PM GMT
    DiscoverPlatinum saidFor you to immediately judge me like that and assume that I'm a troll says much more about your character than mine. As I said, there were other things that lead me to believe that maybe he's not 100% straight. Now, you could have nicely said "he's completely straight", but you chose to be a prick about it. Do me, and yourself, a favor and don't respond anymore to this discussion. I really don't need such a biased response.


    Bitch please! Troll moar please, my god you are so fucking stupid. You watched him fuck a girl, he said he is into girls in his ad, and you asked if he would sleep with a guy and he says NO and you think their is a possibility of him being gay? My god, you are living in fantasy land.

    GTFO off of RJ, our trolls are professional, they arent amateur crap like you. My god, my pieces of shit can make up a better story than this.
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:56 PM GMT
    Guys like you are SO the reason why I'm not in America anymore. You're what's wrong with the American gay community. You're such a shallow, superficial piece of shit. What more can I expect from you guys?
    Please...don't respond to this discussion or any other I may post in the future.
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    Nov 02, 2011 7:57 PM GMT
    DiscoverPlatinum saidGuys like you are SO the reason why I'm not in America anymore. You're what's wrong with the American gay community. You're such a shallow, superficial piece of shit. What more can I expect from you guys?
    Please...don't respond to this discussion or any other I may post in the future.


    For the love of god please dont post in the future. We have too many stupid ass threads as is. As for what is wrong with gay america today, it is you you fucktard. Jesus christ YOU are trying to sleep with a straight guy, YOU are playing into the fears that straight man has and YOU are a pathetic and lonely man.

    Please delete your account forever. Faceless=worthless.
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:02 PM GMT
    We're superficial? Your name is DiscoverPlatinum...
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:04 PM GMT
    Oh geez...look what i've started now.
    Forget it. I'll take my post elsewhere. I thought I could post and get an answer on this site...but all I got was a big prick (and not the good kind).
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:05 PM GMT
    DiscoverPlatinum saidOh geez...look what i've started now.
    Forget it. I'll take my post elsewhere. I thought I could post and get an answer on this site...but all I got was a big prick (and not the good kind).


    Lol trust me, a man wouldnt touch you with a 10 foot pole.
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:09 PM GMT
    Are there really not enough for real gay guys in wherever it is you are?

    Sheesh... these dudes and their "Is he teh straight!!1!??" threads. Just find a guy who obviously wants dick.
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:12 PM GMT
    Larkin_PLR saidAre there really not enough for real gay guys in wherever it is you are?

    Sheesh... these dudes and their "Is he teh straight!!1!??" threads. Just find a guy who obviously wants dick.


    But Larky thats not hot and is so the gay scene. I mean, if he looks straight then he is attractive but if he looks like their is an inkling of possibility that he can be attracted to you, so not hot!
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:14 PM GMT
    Thank god this troll is gone.
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
    If he's been an escort long enough sending naked pics and being naked in front of someone is not a problem. I wouldn't read too much into that.
    Him being friendly with you, even liking you, thats another trait of an escort. (everyones a potential source of income to them) Unless their being snarked by a client, they're usually pretty nice to clients, they have to be.
    Escorts are guys who need friends to, he may want you as a friend. You'll just have to find out for yourself if he'll play with you, nobody knows that but him.
    Don't get too invested in him till you learn more about him. G/L icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 02, 2011 8:50 PM GMT
    scottjock6 saidIf he's been an escort long enough sending naked pics and being naked in front of someone is not a problem. I wouldn't read too much into that.
    Him being friendly with you, even liking you, thats another trait of an escort. (everyones a potential source of income to them) Unless their being snarked by a client, they're usually pretty nice to clients, they have to be.
    Escorts are guys who need friends to, he may want you as a friend. You'll just have to find out for yourself if he'll play with you, nobody knows that but him.
    Don't get too invested in him till you learn more about him. G/L icon_biggrin.gif


    He is gone, I scared him off...
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    Nov 02, 2011 11:18 PM GMT
    scottjock6 saidIf he's been an escort long enough sending naked pics and being naked in front of someone is not a problem. I wouldn't read too much into that.
    Him being friendly with you, even liking you, thats another trait of an escort. (everyones a potential source of income to them) Unless their being snarked by a client, they're usually pretty nice to clients, they have to be.
    Escorts are guys who need friends to, he may want you as a friend. You'll just have to find out for yourself if he'll play with you, nobody knows that but him.
    Don't get too invested in him till you learn more about him. G/L icon_biggrin.gif


    True that! Especially if there is money involved, people will do most things.