So I've had a couple of my guy friends tell me that I should stop actively looking for guys and let love find me. I always thought that sounded silly because In my experience anything you want in life you can feasibly work hard for and eventually get. However love doesn't seem to work that way as I am now seeing, the more I chase it the more it seems to evade me. So I've decided to throw in the towel and refuse to continue to be a victim of these heartless men. Lately though it's been a lot easier being by myself, before the loneliness was insufferable and ate me from the inside out. Now I don't seem to mind it because I've accepted it as inevitable. I also refuse to be one of those whiney ass gays that just complain on public forums, like this one, about not having a boyfriend. Do yall support?