What to do! What to do! ....What would you do!

  • Matt2004

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    Nov 03, 2011 3:23 AM GMT
    Ok, I never been in a relationship and am 25 years old! Am at the point, I desperately want to be in a relationship. So I signed up an account on Plentyoffish.com and the guys on there seem to be looking for something serious or just to hang out...no one has asked me to for casual sex yet...and I am loving it! Now here is my dilemma


    I dated a guy for 3 months that was downlow and an veteran (also very good looking) and we don't date anymore..but am looking for a guy that is around my age and fucking hot!

    I meet one guy, who is 40 years old and very good looking and masculine! and very polite..He is being a gentlemen and waits for me to make the moves...and meeting up with him Saturday evening...the only problem is that his age and we don't have much similarities..I date older guys but usually around their 30's. Am giving him a try so not sure where it will go

    Next guy, is 29 years old, not the best looking guy but masculine (from his profile described) He is a truck driver, 6'2'' he is a country boy, love camping and hiking...like I do. The only problem he isn't good looking..again giving him a try

    Another one is 28 years old, good looking but lives 2 hours away..not sure we have anything in common yet..because barely know him..but very good looking...the bad part is that he is 2 hours away...


    What would you do?
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    Nov 03, 2011 3:34 AM GMT
    This is something we can't really answer for you. The age thing can be huge if you are at different stages of your life... but it doesn't have to be.


    I only have one tip:
    Stop being so damned good-looking! Yer killin' me.
  • Kjonyou

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    Nov 05, 2011 10:31 AM GMT
    Dude, you need a lot of growing up to do before you get into a relationship. You are compairing 3 guys based on some list you have in your head like bargin shopping.

    Relatinships dont work like that. It sounds like you are more intersted in "being in a relationship" then finding someone you love. Its like women who live for the wedding day only to get divorced 6 months later.

    What if there was a 4th guy who was all the undesirable things you listed, older, less atractive and really far away. If you really fell for someone strong enough to pull you into a relationship, all of those negitives might still be present and you would still say screw it, you want him no matter what and find a way to make it work.

    Only then when you feel that strongly about someone should you consider being in a relationship. Otherwise your making a decision based on convients because they will "do for now" to satisfy your fantisy of being in a relationship.

    My advice is stop looking for a relationship until some guy comes along that you are so into you do things you never thought you would just to see him. And he should be doing the same.

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    Nov 06, 2011 6:34 AM GMT
    Yeah, I agree there's too many options in there...but non of them really worth you talking about. You have a guy much older than your standards, a guy you aren't attracted to, and a long distance scenario. It's too much.

    You have to be a bit more discriminate. Better single than with someone you don't have the hots for.

    You're giving too many guys a test drive but you know deep down they aren't what you want. You don't have to meet every person who says they want a relationship.

    Being desperate is just going to get someone that's not right for you really quickly. Just breathe a bit. Don't settle

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    Nov 06, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    I always thought plentyoffish.com was for lesbians..?

    Whaaaahhhhtt???
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    Nov 06, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    likewatuc saidI always thought plentyoffish.com was for lesbians..?

    Whaaaahhhhtt???


    epic...
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    Nov 06, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    mochamuscle said
    likewatuc saidI always thought plentyoffish.com was for lesbians..?

    Whaaaahhhhtt???


    epic...


    LOL!

    Um I swear I sincerely thought it was for lesbians cause the word "fish" is in there and then in Gaga's Telephone video (the first video in which it was plugged for product placement) the two super butch prison guard lesbians were checking it out on their comp. Haha.