Chatting with no profile/picture guys

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    Nov 03, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    I'm new here. Is it safe to chat with guys with no profile, no picture, no information at all? Advisable yes or no?
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    No, I mean if they offer to send sure why not but Im not going to chat with someone who is afraid to show their face.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:38 PM GMT
    They are 99% just creepers.

    Imagine you're at a bar and they've just walked up to you in a trenchcoat with a bag on their head. Do you talk to them? Hell no.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    Larkin_PLR saidThey are 99% just creepers.

    Imagine you're at a bar and they've just walked up to you in a trenchcoat with a bag on their head. Do you talk to them? Hell no.


    I dont know man that sounds kind of hot to me :-)
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:41 PM GMT
    Here's what you have to expect from faceless guys:


    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: HEY MAN YER HTO.!"
    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: HOTT"
    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: WUNA COME TO MY HOTTUB 2NITE?"
    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: DUDE YER HOT. BRO.. LETzFUK?"
    "ThePenIsMyTier: Hi, Bye."
    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: YOU TOO, WE GUNNA FUK?!"
    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: I HAVE BEER AND XTRA PORN< WUTEVER U WANT."
    "FistFuckFaceFelch says: U CAN TAKE FIST WITH ME?"
    ---You have blocked this user---


    It's just part of being on gay websites. I've accepted it... I find each one is another opportunity to come up with some interesting jokes. They usually take an insulting joke/stab as an "I WUNUH FUK U 2"... It can be pretty funny.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:44 PM GMT
    It makes me a little uneasy to deal with guys I can't see.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:46 PM GMT
    Sorry, too many guys WITH a face and a full profile to waste my time on those without. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    oh no he didn't! icon_mad.gif

    My people will not be treated like this. We shall rebel.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:48 PM GMT
    u can try ... but don't open cam or anything
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:52 PM GMT
    if they have zero photos i'll usually ignore them completely. If they're private photos only I'll give them a chance to prove they're not a creeper.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:54 PM GMT
    NakedBudd saidSorry, too many guys WITH a face and a full profile to waste my time on those without. icon_rolleyes.gif


    This.
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:57 PM GMT
    Well each has different reasons for not showing their face, i know i sure have haha.

    But even with that i have still managed to make some amazing friends here (to whom i show my private pics of course as well as those i hot list usually too). The rest if i don't know them, i don't really care to show myself to them until i get to know them icon_biggrin.gif

    I will admit though that there are a few creepy ones, in which cases whoever invented the block button gets a silent thank you everytime hahaha
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    Nov 03, 2011 10:57 PM GMT
    I generally don't respond unless they have something that sets them apart in their profile text or their forum posts, or their initial message. If they don't engage with my profile text, I assume they don't have the ability to, and have no interest in talking to them.

    The vast majority of them just want to see you naked and jerk off to it. Without you seeing them. Crazy? Crazy.
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    Nov 04, 2011 12:20 AM GMT
    Thanks for the help guys. I think I'll proceed with caution and just chat with the guys with profiles. It's much easier to get a feel (no pun intended) for who I'm talking with.
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    Nov 04, 2011 12:45 AM GMT
    Almost every chat request I've ever received is from a No Photo guy; it's like when telemarketers auto-dial. These guys, who have all the time in the world to chat or forum post but not to upload a picture, can't all not have digital cameras, photos under review or religious prohibitions against having their picture taken, or have removed their photos because they're being stalked. If they were serious about wanting to chat about sex or god forbid anything more substantive they'd take the trouble to at least steal someone's picture to use as an avatar. That's why my IM feature is turned off 99% of the time.
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    Nov 04, 2011 12:50 AM GMT
    I don't see how it couldn't be safe unless you are going to be inviting the guy home or giving out personal info. One of my favorite guys from this site doesn't have any public pics. We've met for lunch a couple of times. Of course, I made sure it was in public. But he's a cool guy and a chef. Next time he is in town, I wanna have him over in my kitchen to work his magic!

    Just be cautious. Meet in public first. Make sure the guy isn't flaky and take it from there.
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:25 AM GMT
    No. They may not all be sketchy, but why waste your time with them when there are already so many guys on here that have a profile, pics and private pics that you don't have to chase to get info about? I get a couple guys from Maine and from outside the US who want to cam/chat. Not worth the trouble.
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidDragons be there. icon_eek.gif


    hey! *fake indignation* insult not my species! We're not scary...just...gassy
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    Larkin_PLR saidThey are 99% just creepers.

    Imagine you're at a bar and they've just walked up to you in a trenchcoat with a bag on their head. Do you talk to them? Hell no.


    Ok I don't want to go to this bar icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:29 AM GMT
    asnextdoor said
    Larkin_PLR saidThey are 99% just creepers.

    Imagine you're at a bar and they've just walked up to you in a trenchcoat with a bag on their head. Do you talk to them? Hell no.


    Ok I don't want to go to this bar icon_eek.gif


    you do aparently if you want to buy a Rolexx
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:35 AM GMT
    I am open to almost any possibility but 9.9 times outta 10 the faceless shadow dwellers just wanna talk smut within the first 3 seconds.

    There are the odd closeted guys who are just very young, new to who they are or just plain frightened which I view in a TOTALLY different light. We DO have to be understanding and sometimes be supportive of our less visible brethren.

    It's not "unsafe" per se but often irritating or a total waste o'time.
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    I dont do it.
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    Actually I met my boyfriend through the internet and he did not have a picture but I like the overall feel of his profile then and chatting with him was just amazing so I accepted his offer to meet. 2 years forward, we are still together and still have a very strong relationship but I have to admit that I usually ignore men with no photos but it equally bothers me that there are guys who do put pictures but cut their heads of the photo.
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:42 AM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 said
    asnextdoor said
    Larkin_PLR saidThey are 99% just creepers.
    Imagine you're at a bar and they've just walked up to you in a trenchcoat with a bag on their head. Do you talk to them? Hell no.
    Ok I don't want to go to this bar icon_eek.gif
    you do aparently if you want to buy a Rolexx
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    Nov 04, 2011 1:49 AM GMT
    My advice when dealing with pictureless profiles is to assume they're like really really really ugly, this will be the case 99 out of 100 times, but sometimes you can be pleasantly surprised. icon_biggrin.gif