What can I do?? Why do I even care so much???

  • epinephrine

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    Nov 05, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    So here`s my story:
    I used to hook up with this guy every now and then, for the past 6 months, pretty much a few times a week. We had agreed that this is just a no-strings fun but I really really enjoy being with him. All of a sudden he stopped contacting me. I tried to reach him saying that I wanted to see him really bad. And what he`s been saying is that he has a friend staying at his apartment for a while so he couldn`t really have the chance to hook up with me like before. Well we did actually hook up like 3 weeks ago but ever since then, he did not bother replying me texts anymore. I feel heartbroken. I felt like I was just his delivery and now he doesn`t want me anymore. icon_sad.gif What can I do to make myself feel better? icon_cry.gif
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    Nov 05, 2011 3:05 PM GMT
    Find another FB and this time work on your understanding of NSA.
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    Nov 05, 2011 6:12 PM GMT
    Some of you guys are really shit ass stupid

    Which part of hooking up don't you understand? They way you are going on one would think you are married to the guy.

    Wise up- you were nothing more than a cum rag to him and he to you.
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    Nov 05, 2011 6:29 PM GMT
    i once bought a roll of rowntree fruit gums at a gas station just because i wanted some candy (it was my first time trying them), but i didn't realize how much i would love them. they're practically impossible to find in america and when i went to london this summer i didn't see them. true story.
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    Nov 05, 2011 6:41 PM GMT
    MadeNUSA saidSome of you guys are really shit ass stupid

    Which part of hooking up don't you understand? They way you are going on one would think you are married to the guy.

    Wise up- you were nothing more than a cum rag to him and he to you.


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    Nov 05, 2011 6:48 PM GMT
    epinephrine said What can I do to make myself feel better? icon_cry.gif


    Maybe do a little reflecting and find out if you're really capable of having a fuck buddy.
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    Nov 05, 2011 6:53 PM GMT


    NSA, if you agreed to that... That's what you have to expect...
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    Nov 05, 2011 9:08 PM GMT

    Shinra, if you're trying get people to read your posts you failed with us.

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    Nov 05, 2011 9:27 PM GMT
    Shinra_Tensei said ˙ʞɔnl ɟo ʇsǝq ˙ʇuǝɯʇıɯɯoɔ ɟo ǝlqɐdɐɔuı ǝɹɐ puɐ 'uǝɹplıɥɔ ʇsnɾ ǝɹɐ ɯǝɥʇ ɟo ʎuɐɯ ʇɐɥʇ sı ɥʇnɹʇ ǝɥ┴ ˙uoıʇɔǝuuoɔ lɐuoıʇoɯǝ ɹoɟ ƃuıʞool ǝq oʇ puǝʇǝɹd uǝʌǝ ɹo ǝıl llıʍ puɐ 'ʎʞɔıɹʇ ǝɹɐ uǝW ˙ʎnƃ ɹǝɥʇouɐ puıɟ ɹo ǝuolɐ ǝq oʇ ʎɹʇ plnoɥs noʎ uǝɥ┴ ˙lɐǝɥ uɐɔ noʎ ʇɐɥʇ os uɐɔ noʎ sɐ ʎnƃ sıɥʇ ɯoɹɟ ʎɐʍɐ ɹɐɟ sɐ ʇǝƃ plnoɥs no⅄ ˙ǝldoǝd ǝsǝɥʇ ɟo ǝuo ǝɹɐ noʎ sdɐɥɹǝԀ ˙puǝıɹɟ ʎɯ sɹǝʇunoɔuǝ lɐnxǝs pǝɥɔɐʇʇɐ sƃuıɹʇs ou ɹoɟ ʇlınq ʇou ǝɹɐ ʎldɯıs ǝldoǝd ǝɯoS

    Agreed. The OP isn't wired for NSA sex without an emotional connection. I can identify with that.

    It's not the safest subject to bring up on the first encounter.

    Go to the gym. Move forward.
  • epinephrine

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    Nov 06, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    Thanks for the advice guys. I guess now only time can heal the pain.
    But I seriously never expect this shit could be so hurtful. icon_cry.gif
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    Nov 06, 2011 1:15 AM GMT
    epinephrine saidThanks for the advice guys. I guess now only time can heal the pain.
    But I seriously never expect this shit could be so hurtful. icon_cry.gif


    Don't forget to use this as gym motivation.

    The endorphins will help you feel better.


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    Nov 06, 2011 4:50 AM GMT
    epinephrine saidThanks for the advice guys. I guess now only time can heal the pain.
    But I seriously never expect this shit could be so hurtful. icon_cry.gif


    it hurts because you let it, you can stop it anytimeicon_biggrin.gif
  • epinephrine

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    Nov 06, 2011 7:13 AM GMT
    sif it was THAT easy =|
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    Nov 06, 2011 7:20 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidFind another FB and this time work on your understanding of NSA.


    Fuck buddy's abbreviation is the reverse of the abbreviation of boyfriend.

    Scary lol. BF= boyfriend, FB = fuck buddy. Hahaa!! So slow I swear. And funny enough their regular forms are the opposite too. Boyfriend is the opposite relationship of fuck buddy. Haha. I feel as if I have stumbled upon the holy grail. LOL JKJK!!!!

    And see what I mean about hook ups they just treat you like a piece of meat. That's why I don't do hook ups. I get too emotionally attached and invested in people. Some people I guess have a lighter heart and can do it. Kudos to them I wish I didn't care for people so easily.

    *NOT ATTACKING ANYONE SO BACK OFF!*